Mental harassment by old known person
Ambrish
(Querist) 17 October 2013
This query is : Resolved
Sir/madam,
Two years back i met a person who became good friend of mine after few months. After another few months as work burden got increased i could not spare time on him. then he started blackmailing me if i would not meet him, he would commit suicide. then i started neglecting him but he continue to pursue me . and still he is troubling me and every time forcing me to talk and met him. i m a married person. but his such behavior is troubling my family life.
please help me i wanted to lodge a complaint against him for mental harassment please guide me which IPC can help me in this case. By the time he has become mentally unstable. having said that he is not a gay.please help me i am in deep trouble because of his so much interference in my family life
this issue might look like childish but my whole family life is on stake.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 18 October 2013
Your question a weird one as how two male persons can be so close unless they were in same sex relationship.
Anyway you have done acts in your own wisdom and now you can lodge complaint if there is criminal intimidation where you not are supposed to quote a section
Ms.Nirmala P.Rao
(Expert) 18 October 2013
Dear Client,
You can file a criminal case against him on the ground of his criminal intimidation, Criminal mischief and stalking under IPC etc. You can file FIR against him with th police. Stalkers are punished according to current law. So file appropriate criminal complaints on the ground of his criminal intimidation, mischief, stalking, also seeking compensation etc from the accused
ajay sethi
(Expert) 18 October 2013
dont bow down to his blackmail tactics .
next time he calls you record the telephone conversation. did you have physical relations with him?
he would not threaten suicide unless there was an intimate bond between you .
as advised by experts you can lodge police complaint against him for criminal intimidation .
ajay sethi
(Expert) 18 October 2013
you can also change your mobile number . it would be difficult for him to contact you unless he has your residential address
Ambrish
(Querist) 20 October 2013
Thanks to all experts for guidance.
Mr. Ajay Sethi sir it is unnatural platonic love from his side.Actually he has troubled upbringing in which he is always cut off with his family. Now he sought emotional support outside his family I and few friends helped him to counter his negative feelings meanwhile i was unaware of his attachment with me or i have overlooked. I've never suggested him that i may take his family's place.
All off a sudden he started trying to pressurize me to do things of his liking, he started criticizing my every decision,his doesnot not when i speak with my family. consequently i've warned him if he would not stop doing so i'll stop talking with him. I did as such. Now more over it has now become his psychological problem. I am helpless and clueless.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 20 October 2013
consult a psychiatrist . he needs medical help
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 20 October 2013
Keep distance from him. This is the only remedy.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 21 October 2013
Record his calls and gather proofs. Advise him to consult some psychiatrist on telephone also. Avoid him.
malipeddi jaggarao
(Expert) 22 October 2013
Can you keep him at distance without responding? It is very simple. It appears you have some soft corner in your heart towards him.
Remove it and be strong. This type of threats will never materialise. If you are not interested to keep the relation, you simply keep away. You need not take any action against that old man. But keep some proof of his threats with you as suggested by experts above only to avoid future complications if any.
