Harrasement to my sister by her husband
Sai
(Querist) 24 May 2018
This query is : Resolved
Sir, my sister was married 6 years and she have not been peaceful a single day. Her husband and his parents expect her to be a slave. In front of us they do drama, behind back they show their true faces. His mother has never fed my sister properly when my husband is not around. She gave food very late and did not give me enough. She would not let cook because she gets jealous if her husband likes it. Then they complain on her she is not doing anything at home to my parents. mother in law has also stolen money from my purse many times, and behaves like she is very good.
For past one year her husband harrsed hrr very much by talking badly abiut her character and linked with some one.but she bare everything becoz of society and we dnt have father to bare everything.me and my mother is living some where away from her as she know our financial position is not good to maintain her if she and her daughter comr out . Hr cut me off from her friends long back. Slowly he stopped her from speaking to my relatives, cousins and with us also. He does not allow her to go anywhere. He verbally abusedher and tells her I should be okay with it. His dad teaches him that. He teaches this to his son and tells me I should also be like that. He says husband can do anything he wants to the wife, the wife should always keep quiet. My husband tells her not to get angry. He tells her should not cry. He does not like the fact that she is more intelligent than him or talented than him, so he suppresses her . He does not let her even go out for a walk. He keeps prying on her phone to see what messages or calls she get. He expects her to fall at his feet. He has given her bruises on my body, and when I show him, he gets angry. He irritates her till she get angry and then complains that she getting angry. Now because Ishe shouted , they are saying she was crazy..They have also asked me to sign and give them, that if anything happens to me, they are not responsible.
As she cnt tolerate all these things she come out of house to us...our few relatives talked with that family and take my sister to his house..after a week agin he abused her and send my sister back tonmy home.for last fee month we talked with that family to take her to therr house but they r not responding well and not interested to tale my sister back.
Even my sister fatherlaw say that Notting in mynhand as my son is not interested to tale ur sister.
Now what can i do?
She is ready to go back if they take her to there house.but they r not willing for it.
Even they are saying what you wantbto do do we dnt have any problems.
Its seem that even they ate ready for ligrla procedings.
But my sister is ready to go with there family...but problem nis that they r not atken to there family.
Am sure that they r not Interested to take her back..
As one on lawyer said that filing a case is not possible as case of incidence is nor at ur home town and it happen few months back.
And if u file a case to take her back may not help her for future life.
If u file any harrasement case only will get some benefit to ur sister even during her divorce condition..
As am poor am not awqre of all tgese things.i need a help..
Am not in position to hire a lawyer for filing a case and for further procedding.
Only i have fear about my sister lifr and her 5y daughter
Kishor Mehta
(Expert) 24 May 2018
You may file a case under CrPC 125 for immediate interim maintenance, file a police complaint u/s 498A for harassment and file a divorce petition and demand maintenance for the child. These can be filed with the family court near the residence of your sister and are the alternatives available to your sister.
Ms.Usha Kapoor
(Expert) 24 May 2018
File a section 125 Cr.P.c interim maintenance case, DV case and section 498 A police case case against her in laws on the ground of cruelty and also divorce case in Family court near your area.. you can demand child maintenance also.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 24 May 2018
There is no use advising people like you.
You are say that filing case will not be good for her. so you are convinced that she will be very happy without filing a case. On the other hand as described by you her mother -in-law will be straight like a pencil after being seated on ground in thana.
You have been advised (free) by Mr Mehta and Ms Kapoor to file CrPC125, DV case but you will do nothing.
further you have met incompetent lawyer who believe that civil/criminal case cannot be filed in your home town. This forum is full of tales of the husbands facing trail in other towns.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 24 May 2018
Approach your own very able senior LOCAL counsel of unshakable repute and integrity specializing in Family matters and having successful track record ….. and worth his/her salt …and discuss in person and even with seasoned PIP and proceed in best of your interest.. ASAP.
For such counsels; Check at LOCAL Family court,Civil Courts, HC,SC……..
You can also discuss with counsels in DLSA that provides free legal aid.
