A female got cheated
Nidhi Jindal
(Querist) 31 January 2017
This query is : Resolved
I need a guidance.
I have a very close friend of mine she is divorced and later from last 9 years was fully involved in a relationship with a person who was already married. as that person use to tell my friend that he loves her a lot and he is not happy with his wife and even coz of parents cant leave her.
Being my friend was emotionally fooled so she never thought of her own life. she was truly loving him and simply that boy was playing with her and this continued for last 8 years as after that my friend bought her kid along with so how he got stopped for physicals and slowly that person got involved into another relationship.
its completely that he used my friend in all aspects, emotionally, mentally, physically. So please suggest what she can do now as she had lost all her savings on trust..I was advising her to file a police complaint, but I want to be sure with your guidance. Please help she is a single mother.
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 31 January 2017
Legally speaking, there is no scope for your friend in filing the criminal or civil cases except for her maintenance. Your friend even after having full knowledge that her companion is already married, consented to make physical relationship for such a long period so she has got no right to make complaints a this stage that she was fooled or lured. Consenting party has got no right to agitate.
Nidhi Jindal
(Querist) 31 January 2017
Respected Expert,
Means, such coward can play with anyone use them as per their accord and left them behind completely ruined.
There must be a way.. coz at this moment his wife got cheated, my friend got cheated and same time the another girl is getting cheated.
Adv. Yogen Kakade
(Expert) 31 January 2017
This is not a case of cheating, as your friend was fully aware of the status of the other person that he is already married. And still she continued with the relationship.
The aggrieved person in this case is the wife of that person.
Nidhi Jindal
(Querist) 31 January 2017
But Sir,
I agreed that my friend was aware of his previous marriage but my friend has been emotionally fooled by that fellow and with his commitments to secure her future he had made her to support him financially so how she lost all her savings which she made in last 8 years, and during last 8-9 years she approx. spend 19lacs of her rupees on him. so you mean to say that she cant do anything in this regards now.
there is no way in front of her now.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 31 January 2017
Your friend was adult, kept relation knowing all factors.
In this situation agree with the experts.
Nidhi Jindal
(Querist) 31 January 2017
Thanks Experts,
But I am really feeling helpless and sorry for my friend.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 01 February 2017
Agreed with experts.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 01 February 2017
YOU SAID
“from last 9 years was fully involved in a relationship with a person who was already married.”
NOW SHE HAS TO PAY THE PRICE OF IMMORALITY. NO LEGAL RIGHTS ARE CRATED
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 01 February 2017
YOU SAID
“ person use to tell my friend that he loves her a lot and he is not happy with his wife and even coz of parents cant leave her.”
IT IS OK IF SHE BELIEVED HIM. SHE WAS PHYSICALLY ENJOYING THE MARRIED MAN AT THE COST OF HIS FAMILY
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 01 February 2017
YOU SAID
“Being my friend was emotionally fooled so she never thought of her own life.
WIFE OF THAT MAN WILL SAY THAT YOUR FRIEND EMOTIONALLY BLACKMAILED HER HUSBAND
SHE NEVER TOLD HIM TO GO AND ENJOY WITH HIS WIFE AND NEVER TROUBLE HER.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 01 February 2017
YOU SAID
“she was truly loving him and simply that boy was playing with her and this continued for last 8 years
SHE MAY THINK THAT SHE WAS LOVING HUSBAND OF ANOTHER WOMAN. DO ES NOT MATTER. HE NEVER LOVED HIM AND JUST FULFILLED HER PHYSICAL DESIRES AND CHARGED PRICE FOR THE SAME.
NO LEGAL RIGHTS ARE CREATED
Nidhi Jindal
(Querist) 01 February 2017
Dear Mr. Sudhir,
Thanks for your opinion, but same time I said that man had involved himself into 3rd relationship... Do you have any point for this
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 01 February 2017
YOU SAID
“its completely that he used my friend in all aspects, emotionally, mentally, physically.
NOT KNOW WHO USED HIM AND WHO NOT. NO LEGAL RIGHTS ARE CREATED.
Nidhi Jindal
(Querist) 01 February 2017
Dear Mr. Sudhir,
If my friend would be knowing this that she has to pay for her 8 yrs than better she could hired gigolos... She won't be involved herself so emotionally and financially... Rest I believe that even you too would agree that for a female getting a physicals is not a big deal... So please be mature enough for your words....here I asked for a way in case we could help her coz in today's lifestyle 95% extra marital affairs are in common practice...
Nidhi Jindal
(Querist) 01 February 2017
Dear Mr. Sudhir,
If my friend would be knowing this that she has to pay for her 8 yrs than better she could hired gigolos... She won't be involved herself so emotionally and financially... Rest I believe that even you too would agree that for a female getting a physicals is not a big deal... So please be mature enough for your words....here I asked for a way in case we could help her coz in today's lifestyle 95% extra marital affairs are in common practice...
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 01 February 2017
YOU SAID
“So please suggest what she can do now as she had lost all her savings on trust..I was advising her to file a police complaint,”
“I agreed that my friend was aware of his previous marriage”
NO LEGAL RIGHTS ARE CREATED.
NO COMPLAINT CAN BE FILED.
SHE WAS ENJOYING WITH A MARRIED MAN, HUSBAND OF ANOTHER WOMAN AND WELL AWARE THAT HE CANNOT MARRY HER.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 01 February 2017
YOU SAID
“emotionally fooled by that fellow and with his commitments to secure her future”
“ he had made her to support him financially so how she lost all her savings which she made in last 8 years, and during last 8-9 years she approx. spend 19lacs of her rupees on him.
YOU HAVE TO FIRST DECIDE WHAT YOUR FRIEND WAS DOING.
YOU HAVE TO DECIDE WHETHER HER FUTURE WAS ALREADY SECURED AS SHE COULD SPEND MONEY ON HIM OR THE FUTURE WAS NOT AT ALL SECURED AND SHE IS TELLING LIE THAT SHE SPENT ON HIM.
SHE WAS INVESTING ON HIM SO THAT HE COULD SECURE HER FUTURE IN THAT CASE SHE HAS VOLUNTARILY SPOILED HER PRESENT FOR THE GREED OF BUMPER HARVEST ON FUTURE ON AN IMMORAL PROJECT. SORRY HER INVESTMENT FAILED. BUT THE PROJECT WAS NOT LEGALLY ENFORCEABLE.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 01 February 2017
YOU SAID
“so you mean to say that she cant do anything in this regards now.”
WHAT ELSE COULD YOU UNDERSTAND FROM THE VIEWS OF EXPERTS ABOVE.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 01 February 2017
YOU SAID
“Please help she is a single mother.”
LET HER GO AND FILE MAINTENANCE CASE ON BEHALF OF HER CHILD ON HIS FATHER
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 01 February 2017
The son is born thru this relationship?
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 01 February 2017
Well analysed and replied point-wise by the expert Sudhir Kumar, agree to it.
Guest
(Expert) 01 February 2017
" 95% Extra marital affairs are in common practice" as stated by the Author/Querist.Yes when you read the Daily News Paper the Robbery,Murders,Theft,Cheating every thing are in common Practice but Remember Law has got Big hands.Your friend was ruining the Life of her friend's wife and family for all these days and she should now realize how the family would have felt.Better advise your friend to repent and regret and help her out in leading a decent and moral life by choosing a legal and Right Partner
Nidhi Jindal
(Querist) 01 February 2017
Thanks experts, for your advice's... But being a female i am really feeling bad, in this conversation I came to know that still man can do anything. I am not saying my friend was right.. She was equally culprit in this... But still not even a single word for male... Its ok we already suggested her to forget it and take a lesson and move on in life.
Well, No sir as I said my friend was divorced and kid is from her marriage not from this relationship...
That man came into my friends life, and moved on with a third female... No shame in between how many affairs he might involved... Anyway..thank you so much for your time and advice's.. And the forum where one can have such guidance... Thank you all. :)
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 01 February 2017
You clarified now that child is from first marriage.
Let her claim child maintenance from her ex-husband.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 01 February 2017
If wife of the said man comes to this forum she can be advised what rights she has.
you said
"i am really feeling bad, in this conversation "
It is understood that you came to this forum for legal views. The same have been expressed. If you came to this forum expecting the experts to say what you want to hear then you were wrong.
Further be enlightened that the above views are based on maturity and not immature.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 01 February 2017
Mr. Raj Kumar Makkad has advised to claim maintenance for her.
The child may claim maintenance from his father.
Nidhi Jindal
(Querist) 01 February 2017
Dear Sudhir Sir,
I am sorry in case I might sound rude or impolite. The thing is I have a person connection with my friend so how the words used for her somehow I felt bad for such terms used for my friend..Sir, Its not at all like that I want to hear what I want to.. But just knowing my friend since childhood so had seen all the good or bad phases of her life.. So in person I know her and she actually is a very good human being.. Frankly speaking I just wanted to see in case their is any option to help her.. That's it.. Or in other words would like to see the options where she could take a legal revenge..
But its okk let it be...
But from bottom of my heart thanks to all experts....
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 02 February 2017
"I have a person connection with my friend so how the words used for her somehow I felt bad for such terms used for my friend"
THE INFERENCES HAVE COME OUT OF YOUR DESCRIPTION OF FACTS ONLY. WE DO NOT KNOW THE INDIVIDUAL AS YOU KNOW HER SINCE CHILDHOOD. WE DO NOT KNOW AS TO WHERE FROM YOU GOT DATA OF 95% EXTRA MARITAL RELATION.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 02 February 2017
Her well wishers could have advised to stay away from such relationship and not to waste her monies.
Still if you wish visit a local lawyer with your friend and discuss in person to understand options and merits, pat lawyer's FEE and go ahead with your decision.
