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deepu
(Querist) 20 June 2015
This query is : Resolved
Hi Dear sir's . please give me a solution for my problem am suffering lot from this .
i had a girl friend from 10years and we loved eachother truly we had physical reltionship too we lived like a husband n wife fromthe day 1 we are suppose to marry . unfortunately 2 years back 1 girl entered into my life as a friend even she loved me it came to the notice of my girl friend she used to doubt on me and started iritating me every second . ther was only a friendship .but day by day she became closer to me and she loved me a lot . can cant give my girl friend so i avoided her a lot .again my girl frn started the samething by that i started what she told n made that true .even i had a physical relationship with her .i convinced her and told her to get marry a other guy even she agreed and married on march 2015.she dint even lived for 10 days wid him she came back to me even I dint think what will happen .she was wid me for 5 days .then their parents given police complaint then we caught n they tuk her to home , she s not accepting him as his husband even he is not ready to accept her now .their parents are not ready to give divorce also. she s telling again she will cum bak to me .what ever might be the situation I wont be wid anyone this s her final decision .she wont marry another person also . elz she will die.coming to my girl friend she tried committing suicide 3 times .even their parents are not ready to accept our marriage . whom should I choose ? now My heart s not listening anything m feeling guilty on myself . both are not ready to leave me .should convince them but they are not ready.
Please suggest me
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 22 June 2015
When she came to you after her marriage then you made a great mistake and immoral act of staying with her for 5 days foir which you may be criminally prosecuted her.
Ask her to sort out her differences with her husband and then try to settle with her.
deepu
(Querist) 22 June 2015
But sir ,their parents are not letting her to cum out . they are very influential family . her father wont let her cum out , but she s ready to cum again.
she s now home arrest . her father wont give value to her words thats the problem.
how about seeking help of any womens rights org ?
deepu
(Querist) 22 June 2015
plz suggest
Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 23 June 2015
Face the consequence of your illegal and immoral act of having relation with a married woman, which can not be presumed at this stage.
SAINATH DEVALLA
(Expert) 23 June 2015
U have to pay for the self made act of URs. U enjoyed U R life to the utmost and even now U R not repenting for what U had done.Now U R trying to find fault with the woman's parents.At least at this stage realise the future consequences and act wisely.
deepu
(Querist) 23 June 2015
sir I know and i realised what i have been made . am ready to any extent now . m not blaming her parents .its all my mistake . plz tell me what i can do ?
to Respected sainath devalla sir
SAINATH DEVALLA
(Expert) 23 June 2015
Nothing more to add except for the feeling that I presume I had seen a movie with similar story background in the early 70's.
Guest
(Expert) 23 June 2015
temptation and entertainment are never free. That has a cost, sometimes dearly.
deepu
(Querist) 25 June 2015
sir whats the solution for this ?
Guest
(Expert) 25 June 2015
In fact, I don't find any substance in your story. That looks, imaginary and fabricated.
When you say, "their parents are not ready to give divorce also," you should know that divorce is not given by parents of the boy or girl. If there is any truth in your story, both boy and girl can apply for mutual divorce, if not ready to accept each other. You would be able to marry her only after their divorce. Otherwise, by keeping her with you, you will be in an irreversible soup.
