ex-girl friend forcing for divorce

Mayank Agarwal (Querist) 21 March 2017 This query is : Resolved
Dear All
I am in bizarre situation my ex-girl friend is threatning to commit suicide if i don't divorce to my wife. Actually my ex-girl friend who was my college friend both we were true friend and had good relationship physically & mentally. The problem begin when i asked my parents to marry with her they have not been agree even i had tried to convince them but they remain adamant not to accept my love. Hence i have ask her to move on and forget everything first she refused but somehow i have convinced her. After that we were not in touch for almost two year. Last year i was married with the girl who was decided by my parents in arrenged marriage. Frankly speaking she was forced on me. we have not good marriage life nor i was physically attracted toward my wife in between i have been promoted to senior manager and has been shifted in delhi with my wife. Initially i was not loving my wife. But she is sweet & managable girl and really love me alot. She really take care of myself even relate to small things. Therefore gradually i begun to love her. However five month back my ex-girlfriend called me to have job in delhi. I thought she is facing financial crises Hence i offer her the opening of team member in my company. After that she has also been settled in delhi. Now she is insisting me to give the divorce to my wife also threatning me to commit suicide. If my wife call me she even disconnect my wife's phone and she want me not to have any relation with my wife not even talk and stayed together. On the other hand there is my wife who is innocent and really love me to whom i had already hurt. Now i don't want to hurt her more. My life is being worst i don't know how to get out of this problem.

Please let me know is there any legal remedy to get the rid from my ex-girlfriend always she threatning to commit suicide if i have any relation with my wife?

Thanks In Advance
Mayank

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Adv. Yogen Kakade (Expert) 21 March 2017
It is a clear fact that you have been cheating on both of them. You acted as per the wish of your parents then did you ask your parents while keeping contacts with your ex girlfriend. Getting rid of your ex girlfriend is your personal issue. Legally, no one can force you to get divorce.

Sudhir Kumar, Advocate (Expert) 21 March 2017
What is fault of your wife

Sudhir Kumar, Advocate (Expert) 21 March 2017
Law provides no remedy for divorce to wife.

FIR may be registered against the lady who is blackmailing with suicide to compell you to do illegal act.

Rajendra K Goyal (Expert) 21 March 2017
You are a coward, and now cowardly asking way to cheat both the ladies / girls for your selfishness. You were physical with your ex and cowardly refused to marry her for lame excuses.

After years of marriage you helped her to get job near you to keep relation alive after your marriage without thinking a bit on future.

Now try to save the marriage, change your job to some away place to end this relation with your ex.

Avoid your ex, if possible record her threats. Try to have evidences of her threat.

You have sown, may have to reap.

Try to avoid such situation.

Kumar Doab (Expert) 21 March 2017
Agreeing with experts.

Save your marriage.

Ms.Usha Kapoor (Expert) 22 March 2017
AGREE WITH EXPERTS.

Mayank Agarwal (Querist) 22 March 2017
Well Experts thank you for yours guidance and using word such as Cheater, Coward, selfish etc.

Given the fact when i offer the job i have never intended to have any relation with her after our breakup even i have not called her for almost two year. But one day she called me saying i am facing financial problem thereby i have helped her as friend i don't think nothing wrong in that. But at that time i have not thought that she will interfere in my married life. Also when i begun to avoid her. In my absence she directly arrived at my house and revealed everything to my wife that we are in relationship you were forced on him We were physical also He doesn't love you therefore its batter for you to divorce him. Since then my wife doesn't even talk to me. Last week she had fever when i forcely taken her to hospital the treating doctor has reveal that she is in depression.

My Ex-GF is obsessed she has ruined my entire life. I don't know what to do........and where to go.....how to convince her......or to get rid from her. However in this event my wife directly or indirectly is being hurt who innocent at all. Some time i do blame myself that i am responsible for it and my wife is in depression it just because of me?

Adv. Yogen Kakade (Expert) 22 March 2017
It is your responsibility to think and take care of your wife. She has married you with all faith. Break all contacts with your ex-gf.. If she threatens you, record her calls and collect evidences.. File a complaint if you feel necessary. Be a man and face it.

Guest (Expert) 22 March 2017
You may lodge a report with the police about her suicide threat and blackmailing. Rest of the issue would be looked after by the police.

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