Lady blackmail to lodge a false complaint
Altaf
(Querist) 21 August 2015
This query is : Resolved
Dear Experts,
In this case wife blackmail her in laws and husband for registering a false complaint against them about asking for "Dahej"/ Dowry.
Let me give some back ground:
Marriage was held on 12 june 2011 at Akola with a very simple islamic process and not even a piece of cloth was taken by her husband family she was taken to in laws house with only a single dress.
Qualification
lady/wife: BA from Amravati university.
Husband: BE Computers Mumbai university.
Lady was not at all use to doing household work nor she has any experience on cooking even Tea.
Mother in law thought her basics of it and even thought her sweeping.
In laws also manage to educate lady further as she had wish of getting Bed but due to her family financial condition she was unable to do it, hence in laws admited her in RIZVI college ( Bandra Mumbai) and finace fees and all require materials. Course duration was 1 yr and during this period lady was exempted from preparing and food and doing house hold work, mother in law manage to perform all task so that lady can concentrate on her studies.
Whenewer mother in law was un well lady refuse to prepare food maling excuse for studies and lady start a strong conversation and aggressice behaviour with all in laws and husband, at the end of every conversation she use to say "u should have asked for "dahej" from my parents, u are torchering me only for it".
Everything was tolerated by in laws assuming a less matureness in lady and everything will get settle as time get pass.
However every year for 4-5 months lady use to stay at her parent residence by having some bad conversation or fights with in law every time she blackmail on taking socide or taking jump from terrace of flat and letting in laws face jurdicial cases thereafter.
Above process continued for 3-4 years.
Last year lady was pregnent and in laws have again taken initiative to do their works on their own and not letting lady do any work except rest. Lady was taken to a well known hospital for regular checkup. In laws were ready to get her admitted to asia largest hospital for her child delivery, still lady has a arogent / aggressive behaviour and blackmail mother in law that if she dont allow her to go at her parent place she will kill child in her worn, in laws were afraid about loosing child so they made necessary travelling arrangement to get lady at her parent place.
Terms and condition laid by in laws during her transfer in front of her parents are as follow:
- child delivery to be done in good private hospital.
- all required vacaciens to be given post birth of child.
Lady parent and lady agreed to all conditions.
Post child delivery:
In laws were informed that all necessary treatment is going on at contontment hospital at pune. hovewer Delivery of child was done in sasson hospital ( muncipality hospital at pune).
When asked about reasons for shifting from private yo muncipality hospital beliw was respose:
Her parents: contontment hospital refuse to tske her cases as they where running short of oxygen cylinder and they transfer her to muncipality hospital.
Actual case: lady has an heart issue ( in laws came to know for first time) since past which was increase during delivery and private hospital asked patient to get admitted to ICU and explain charges to her parents.
Lady parents and family refuse to admit her in ICU and asked to discharge her during labour pain.
Case was then taken to muncipal hospital as emergency and child got deliver there.
In laws visited hospital on next day itself with lots of happiness and joy.
Considering financial condition and transfering from private to muncipal in law decided to take lady and new born girl at their residence for better treatment all necessary treatnement was carried out and necessary vacination was provided.
In laws has arrange for made to perform household works.
Now lady has become so aggressive that she even hit her mother in law and her husband giveng badwords to them and showting "bachao bachao" so that in laws get afraid and let her do what she wants.
Also she has stated that she will kill child if in laws say anything to her and she will also make a false statement about innlaws asking for dahej repeatedly.
In laws are very much affraid of loosing their child and facing false cases of dahej.
Request your expert comments in this case and legal actions that can be taken against this.
R.K Nanda
(Expert) 21 August 2015
query too long.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 21 August 2015
A lot of time has passed and she has not amended. Under these circumstances, if no amicable settlement possible, go for talaq as per your personal law.
SAINATH DEVALLA
(Expert) 21 August 2015
Instead of posting such a long query regarding the daily chores in the house,U could have given UR query in a brief manner.Case not fit either for talaq or divorce.
Answer the question of Sudheerji.
SAINATH DEVALLA
(Expert) 29 August 2015
Come out with true facts,who is that lady?
