To live in relationship with married man
PANKAJ H MEHTA
(Querist) 08 August 2018
This query is : Resolved
my Daughter is in Love with a man who is married and having children too.
Now Both of them and his family member has decided to accept my Daughter. What should I do to ?
Please guide and for safer side I do not want any liability in future if they stay together.
Vijay Raj Mahajan
(Expert) 08 August 2018
Tell your daughter she will not be having status of wife nor legal rights during his lifetime or after his death unless he provides her any property or valuable by himself during his lifetime or after his death by making Will.
The live in relationship are not binding and anytime he can throw her out of his home.
The charges of Rape if you guys try to make against him on false promise of marriage will not sustain in the court as his present marital status as well his having children out of his legal marriage well known to you, so forget that preposition if in your mind.
Your daughter if conceive child from the relationship may not be excepted by the person and he may refuse for providing any maintenance for the child, therefore to secure financial aspect for the child, the name of this person as father in all records should be mentioned. The man is supposed to provide maintenance for his legitimate as well illegitimate children but he's the real father, for that official documents should be there.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 10 August 2018
Dear LCI Querist Mr. PANKAJ H MEHTA
IT is indeed good to see the query and reply.
You have posted good query.
The threads at LCI are also infested with good for nothing replies like ‘Non-edible fungus growing on decaying wood during rains in forests’ from good for nothing IT’s entities that loiter/stalk with multiple fake ID’s at forums like LCI are no one/nobody but frustrated freemongers ( Mufatkhoras) and litter their daily trademark nuisance, Tamashaa and end up becoming Tamashbeen in their own Tamashaa and are shunted out.
Such good for nothing entities have been advertising at online portals like LCI for ( married) spouses to rush for Live IN ………..relationship and enjoy life…………….and even threads initiated by married spouses that have been in Live IN relationship making further queries……
IT is not easy to prove Bigamy/adultery and such relationship…
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 10 August 2018
There are endless numbers of threads on similar queries at LCI that you can search thru SEARCH option e.g;
Threads under my profile
Child born from arrangement other than marriage has no right on Hindu Father's property!
Court can Grant Divorce even if the facts of the case do not provide a ground for the same
6 months Cooling, Waiting Period for Divorce under Hindu Law is Not Mandatory!
Spouse leveling false accusations against the other spouse is a ground for divorce
And pick up relevant points………..
Is there any provision in personal law that applies in matter posted by you that allows 2nd marriage during subsistence of 1st marriage….or customary divorce and then scope that such divorce shall sustain in courts…?
Try to save the marriage if IT is possible..
Or end the troubled wedlock by MCD..
Or end the troubled wedlock by contested divorce on merits..
After separation from subsisting marriage and period of appeal…the divorced/divorcee can re-marry.
And re-marry only after the troubled wedlock is ended per provisions of personal law that applies and provisions of law of the land that applies..
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 10 August 2018
For a Father (like you in query); Although child is involved but at the same future of daughter/son is also involved..
Approach in person alongwith elders of the family, competent and experienced well wishers, seasoned PIP, a very able senior LOCAL counsel of unshakable repute and integrity specializing in Family/Civil matters and well versed with latest citations, LOCAL applicable rules/laws/ … and having successful track record…. and worth his/her salt…..and share inputs /show the documents/evidence for a considered opinion..
At each location three are some counsels that specialize in such matters and they are well known.
Check for such counsels at LOCAL Family/civil courts, HC, SC……
Guest
(Expert) 10 August 2018
These sort of things are nothing but infatuation.
Guest
(Expert) 10 August 2018
Just arrange for a meeting of your daughter with a good Psychiatrist of your place with out her knowledge either at your residence or in a common place and the Psychiatrist would take care and better dont inform your daughter that you are taking her to a Psychiatrist and certainly she would refuse to come. Take Care.
