Wife want divorce n gold which my mom given marriage time
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Anonymous
(Querist) 28 December 2017
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we got married 08th may 2015 and she left my home 06th january 2016 and we dont have child.so my wife want divorce from me and demand gold, which is my mom given to her at marriage time (6 tula gold). please advice on this
Ms.Usha Kapoor
(Expert) 29 December 2017
Whatever gifts are given to girl at the timed of marriage including gold given by in laws forms part of girls Stridhan. and she has an entrenched right over her stridhan. including the gold given by mother in law at the time of her marriage or subsequent to that to her son.
Ms.Usha Kapoor
(Expert) 29 December 2017
Whatever gifts are given to girl at the timed of marriage including gold given by in laws forms part of girl's Stridhan. and she has an entrenched right over her stridhan. including the gold given by mother in law at the time of her marriage or subsequent to that to her son's marriage.
Ms.Usha Kapoor
(Expert) 29 December 2017
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Anonymous
(Querist) 29 December 2017
But my wife want divorce and she left home after 6 month of marriage.please advice
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Anonymous
(Querist) 29 December 2017
But my wife want divorce and she left home after 6 month of marriage.we dont have child.please advice
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Anonymous
(Querist) 29 December 2017
But my wife want divorce and she left home after 6 month of marriage.we dont have child.how can I give her my mom's gold.please advice
Sankaranarayanan
(Expert) 29 December 2017
Why you hesitate to give your identity, first come with identity
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Anonymous
(Querist) 29 December 2017
My name is Shrikant yemula.I am not hesitating.please advice
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Anonymous
(Querist) 29 December 2017
What happen mr Sankar Narayan
Guest
(Expert) 29 December 2017
Advice on what, your wife's demand for divorce or gold given at her marriage?
Why not consult some local divorce specialist lawyer by discussing in detail about the background of your relations and reason for her desire for divorce than asking a very casual academic type of query. If your story of divorce and gold is true, that lawyer may help you save your gold also..
Otherwise also, even if someone gives you some advice, ultimately you will have to hire services of some lawyer to fight your cases.
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Anonymous
(Querist) 29 December 2017
She need only gold which my mother given in marriage time and her gold . I am read to give her family gold and whatever given by her family.she not filed any case at present and she given Complaint Mahila department ( social worker) in police station (settlement). please advice
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Anonymous
(Querist) 29 December 2017
She need only gold which my mother given in marriage time and her gold . I am read to give her family gold and whatever given by her family.she not filed any case at present and she given Complaint Mahila department ( social worker) in police station (settlement). My question is i don't want to give my mother's gold or any compensate. I ready to give divorce and whatever her family things are given.please advice
Guest
(Expert) 29 December 2017
What will be your option if she files a dv case and maintenance case after you give gold to her?
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Anonymous
(Querist) 29 December 2017
Now what I need to do?
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Anonymous
(Querist) 29 December 2017
I want proper resolution
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Anonymous
(Querist) 29 December 2017
Guys cannot to do anything Always Ladies are correct
Sankaranarayanan
(Expert) 29 December 2017
for the proper solution then it is the right time to consult a lawyer in your limit and act accordingly.
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Anonymous
(Querist) 29 December 2017
Okay thanks for everything. but I am not done anything wrong
Guest
(Expert) 29 December 2017
For proper resolution, I and Mr. Sankar Narayanan have given you advice to hire services of some local lawyer. Only court can give you proper solution that too if your case is presented effectively by you own lawyer.
However, Mr. Dhingra has put a very genuine question to you, but you have avoided reply on that. Is there any specific reason for not replying that query. Even if some solution is provided to you that may not fit if your wife files a dv case after getting her desired gold. So, better discuss in detail the whole background of the case with some local lawyer and face the case effectively.
Wrong or right has to be decided by the court on hearing both the sides, not by any expert here.
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Anonymous
(Querist) 29 December 2017
I am not avoid already given the reply to Mr dingra. I am really confused about everything. I am in trouble from last 2 years and mentally upset.
Vijay Raj Mahajan
(Expert) 30 December 2017
You are mentally upset because your wife is asking for the gold given by your mother at the time of marriage and want to dissolve the marriage by decree of divorce., This the best you could expect from your wife. Had she filled criminal complaints against you and your mother for dowry demand (u/s498A, 406 IPC, DP Act etc.), Domestic Violence , maintenance u/s 125 Cr.P.C than you would not have mind not only giving her Istridhan, namely the gold given at the time of marriage by your mother, but may be 10-20 Lakhs of rupees to get the criminal complaints compromised and divorce finalised.
Real problem is that you guys seek free of cost legal consultancy here in this forum from senior and experienced lawyers and not listening to what they advice you.
Give her Istridhan and agree for divorce she's seeking to end the marriage, let it be divorce by mutual consent where you put condition of not paying any alimony to her and only her Istridhan that legally belongs to her as it is her absolute property.
And mind you, if you don't return or refuse to give her Istridhan , she can lodge criminal complaint under section 406 IPC and then you will be forced to return it to her otherwise 3 years imprisonment and fine awaits you.
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Anonymous
(Querist) 30 December 2017
Hi All, thanks for all the help, if you facing any problem for giving advice than don't give. This is query box so that's why put my query.you can close the query box nobody put query. Whatever thanks for everything.
Guest
(Expert) 30 December 2017
Mr. Anonymous,
When you are confused, how you can be expected to understand any advice to be right or wrong. However, due to your pretended confusion, you seem to be destined to face dv & dowry case. No one can help you if you are not able to explain the circumstances for and background of your wife leaving your house and what efforts you made to convince her to continue living with you. Even when you don't want to answer the queries of the experts, better wait and watch for the fate to happen with you.
Guest
(Expert) 30 December 2017
@ Shri Vijay Raj Mahajan,
You are right in your observation and advice. But, when he is determined not to adhere to any advice or not to clarify any point, the position becomes clear that his sole aim was to seek answer to some of his academic query.
As can well be guessed, the querist is neither confused, nor has any such case of his wife leaving him and demanding gold. He probably desired to solve his academic question after getting appropriate hints from the experts. Had he been facing such a problem, he could well have the background for explaining the circumstances under which his wife was compelled to leave his house and made demand of gold also. No sane wife leaves the house of her husband without undue harassment or some other serious complaint. Further, had he been facing the problem in reality, he would have pretended to be confused to avoid reply of the questions of the experts.
Even if he is facing such a problem in reality, he should not have expected the experts to guess, how serious was his case and to what extent he needed advice.
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Anonymous
(Querist) 30 December 2017
Okay thanks
Guest
(Expert) 30 December 2017
Mr. Anonymous,
It is not the experts, who feel any problem to answer your query and have answered also, but it is you, who could not justify your so hyped problem. You are also not ready to reply to the questions of the experts. You should know that solutions are based on the background, not merely by putting any vague query that may not have any head or tail.
What can be construed from your query and your subsequent posts, even if there is any truth in your story, you can't understand the language and value of advice so far given by the experts, you can understand the language of court trial only, if that is started by your wife against you and your mother and siblings.
HOWEVER, IF YOUR PROBLEM HAS ANY TRUTH (DOUBTFUL) AND ALSO WANT TO SPEND PEACEFUL LIFE, MY LAST ADVICE TO YOU IS, GIVE DIVORCE AS WELL AS HER WEDDING RELATED GOLD TO YOUR WIFE.
