Divorce procedures
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Anonymous
(Querist) 05 January 2010
This query is : Resolved
Sir,
It has been around 15months since i got married and i was staying with my in laws. Though there were many arguments, fights between me and my husband we loved each other. but recently 2 months back during an argument my husband beat me badly and because of which i had to come to my father's place for 10 days. My husband though a professional is dependant much on his mother and on her advice now he is not willing to stay with me and asked for 3 months time before he can decide upon anything as his mother was not well and we are living separately now.Meanwhile he has sent a letter in registered post with acknowledgement wherein he has accused and blamed me of abusing his parents, not doing household chores, doubting his character, frequently leaving to my father's place and has concluded that because of all these he is under mental agony and not able to concentrate on his career and wanted time to recoup. Please tell me if this is any step to legal proceeding if so how should i react? I am not interested in divorce, i feel being cheated.
bhupender sharma
(Expert) 05 January 2010
if u really love him and there is conjugal harmony still exist between u and your counterpart then u should communicate with him with looking into the past act and conduct if not u may take recurse of all laws such as Domestic Violence Act and complaint under the Indian Penal Code under section 498(A) for the same. u may contact the local lawyer in this regard for filing a divorce case under section 13 of the H.M.A.
Sukhija
(Expert) 05 January 2010
Hi
first of all u should send him reply to his letter by Registered post. Deny the allegations and do visit ur house , try to settle the dispute with family members and save ur marriage. after these efforts fail then do consult lawyer for further steps.
aman kumar
(Expert) 05 January 2010
agree with all
Guest
(Expert) 05 January 2010
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Arvind Singh Chauhan
(Expert) 05 January 2010
I thinks it happens with all. These are bitter experience of life. Some people reacts hurly burly. Some people waits. Both should not take legal recourse immediately. Do contact with each other. It is the question of life for both of you, not for your parents or in laws. We have to bear other relations in family, to some extent for the sake of life. You both seems to be in love with each other. Don't deteriorate it.
