mental harrasement
Bhaskaradeepak
(Querist) 26 November 2009
This query is : Resolved
Respected sirs,
A girl for telling about her past abuses and threatens me of suicide,i was affected emntally indeed gone for counselling sessions with one of my uncle who is an expert in moulding.Applied for frequent leaves and sufffered set back in carrier too.
After some time the girl messages from a number stating i ruined her life and she will never leave me happy and will take revenge.
After that some one claiming relatd to the girls calls my landline at midnight disturbs my parents,my father's health get affected.
Another person calls one of my friend whom i was in contact(i took this girl's help to ensure that girl is alive when she threatend of suicide) gets a call stating a complaint has been filed against her,that guy is from customer care since he is concerend he calls her to save her but she needs to share what are the things i shared witht hat girl that too by might 12 am.
I know my previous gf was behind all these.Can i fiel a single complaint against all these? sicne she has a father who was a heart patient i wanted to settle it off at family level.But no one from their family contacted inpersonor phone.
What can i do?if i opt for family settlement that too i want it legal way since they are highly untrustable,whats the procedures to be followed?
Else if iam going for legal case, i am not evens ure about her real address,even there are chances she might have given false name to me.But i have her photograph,since i met her in real i know its her only.How can i proceed?
Plz help me with your suggestions.If any of you can take care of this settlement too then its so fine.
A V Vishal
(Expert) 26 November 2009
Mr Bhaskar,
You have presented only the current situation, but what are the real facts in the case.
joyce
(Expert) 26 November 2009
Mr BaskarDeepak,
Now a days Kaliyug these type of problems exists, u being a man, take courage and be "least bother" of all the phone calls, or any things else they adopt in making u tense. disconnect the phone at odd hours.some one who observe u and a well known persons amoung u, reading ur nature can do such problems. so be silent to the situation, do not leake to any friends or fly execpt ur partents. u take courage n give courage to ur parents. filing complaint will effect ur future in getting wedlock with ur GF.
joyce
(Expert) 26 November 2009
disconnect ur landline number for some few months.just take the phone no u r getting call from that girl and meet local police officer tell the fact and ask him for protection without registering the case, let the police spy and let u know the details, if u wish to go legaly.
Bhaskaradeepak
(Querist) 27 November 2009
Thanks for the advices.As to mention clearly i too loved her so still it affects me mentally.
Mr.Vishal what are the facts u were asking?
Bhaskaradeepak
(Querist) 28 November 2009
I tought of avoiding complint since the thing most frighteend was a wedlock with her and reltion with her family,but now its confirmed the person disturbing is related to her and even abused.Now cani file a case? i can avoid her her clsoe freinds statement as approved byt he lasw,with my systems proper ownership,chats archieved at server tiem itself,with proper OS is with me now.That chat tells she opted to marry a boy whom she introduced to others as a brother like person.Isn't it enough to avoid wedlock after filing?
