Dear All Advisor.
I got married in June 2008 and stayed 01 year with my wife but separated from my parents. I have only daughter of 1.5 years old and since from the last 1.9 years they are willingly staying at her parent's house. Already she has started to accused us by sending false fabricated sms. After our several request she doesn't want to come back and stay at her matrimonial house.
Her parents are also very keen to be isolated me from my parentsa as their greedy daughter wants to be. During our togather stay it was carefully observed by me that she is not fit for family life in every ways and means. How ever as on today my basic aim is to save my old poor parents from any kind of harasment by the gender biased law. And also to get rid of this relationship.
But I'll have to loose my daughter and that is my only weakness. Please advise me that how to get start fight with them. Though every month I am sending her money, sent her 03 nos letter with AD for her comeback, but they are here only to extort money from us. What are the step to be taken immediately, please advise....
Anonymous
05 March 2011 at 21:22
u/s 13 a case was filed for divorce after that was amend u/s 12 on the ground that before marriage the respondent was a psychiatrist patient (schizophrenic,strong medical documents are in support) and the disease seems not to be curable the petitioner give the respondent a treatment of 5 years but which has no result.in this case does the respondent is able to get maintenance if the marriage declared void & what responsibility become to the petitioner.
ashish arora
05 March 2011 at 12:23
i got married in Dec 2009, and everything was fine. after six months my wife started to tell me that she does not want to stay with my mom. My father expired in 2006 and my mom is 62yrs old.
her parents supports her and also put pressure on me. finally they called her home as they told me that her friend is getting married, so she took some cash, jewellery and I have booked her on air through card as she was carrying valuables. On reaching there she filed a complaint against me & my family 498a and 406. We got a call from their Police station. please advise what precautionary methods we should take.
please revert
Shujjat Ali A Khan
05 March 2011 at 11:36
Hi,
My name is Shujjat and am from Mumbai.
I had a divorce in 2008. Me and my wife setled the case with a joint custody of my child Sami who is now 7 yrs and 9 months old with the physical custody with my wife as he was a minor then in 2008. I had access on alternate weekeneds from Friday eve till Sunday eve to pick and drop him from his soc address along with halfof all school vacations and muslim religious festivals only. Till mid 2010 things seemed ok with not much challenges in meeting my child as soon after divorce my wife said that she wants to come back and tat she is starting her own nursery and i need to help her. I did everything for her right from investing time and money in setting up her place. Once it was done she denied coming back. Till Aug' 10 things semed ok with not much challenges to met my son hwever there were a lot of times i had to lie low but suddenly she got married to another muslim without her moms consent in March' 10. Since then i was having difficulties getting access as according to her mom her hubby does not want it. She has stopped talking directly with me and all correspondence happens through her mom. In between she changed her residence and also changed her cell number without informing me but i some how managedto track her new residence. Now since late Aug' 10 i am not allowed to meet the child at all till date. I did try to speak with her and i took local police asssitance to intervene to avoid any false allegations as i went to talk to hwer at her new rental residence. She denied speaking to me and told the constable to ask me to file a case if i want to meet my child. She also made her hubby visit to the local police station to address our complaint. I know for sure that my son is not atall happy there and she is very well aware about it and so she want to disconect this attachement of my son from me.
I spoke to her mom and she said that she cannot do anything and she would advise not to interfere in their life as his hubby may get you killed or get you locked up in som false criminal case as either his father is in police orthey are not the right type people.
I am not worried about my life but yes am very worriesd for my sonwho is forced to live in a place where he doesn want to be coz he used to keep tellig me that he is very unhappy as these tw keep fighting always and even wen they are out he is made to wait alone in the car as they shop out together and he is very scared that time.
Please advise wat and how should i tackle this and wat alternatives do i have.
Thanks
Anonymous
04 March 2011 at 23:19
hi,
my friend was going in divorce case and 498a case from past 8 years. both the couple has stayed seperately from 4 years but both of them work in same office. now after long battle they both deceided to live together on a condition that girl will take all the cases back filled by her on her husband and his family and boy wants to live with her because he does not want that his family suffer. Now they are living from past 5 months in one house after court approvel as they have filled withdrawalof divorce case and quashing of 498a case in August or september 2010.Now can boy again go for divorce case as he is not happy with the girl. My question to you is can a boy can refill divorce case and after how long does he can refill divorce case in court? is there any 6 months watch time by court only after that he can refill? what is the best time he can go for refilling....?? Pls help
hi
can i marry a person who is already married and his wife committed suicide, he is having a child also.
he is facing ipc 498A,306,417 charges against him.
if i marry him do i and my family face any law related problems in future.
please advise me...
Anonymous
04 March 2011 at 18:50
Sirs,
Mr. X belongs to Hindu, married Miss. Y (Hindu and same community of X) and have no issues. So Mr. X married Miss Z, who belongs to some other community in Hindu, as second marriage. The second marriage was happened before 1950. Mr. X has begotten 2 sons and 3 daughters thro’ his second wife Z thro’ the wedlock with Z. In between Mr. X adopted a son to his first wife Y thro’ a registered document, after begot 4 children thro’ his second wife Z (2 sons & 2 daughters). Now Mr. X and Z are alive and Y was expired. There is a will executed by the mother of Mr. X, stating that the property belongs to her should go to
1. The children born to the first wife of Mr. X or
2. If no issues to the first wife, then the children born to the second wife of Mr. X, who belongs to their same community or
3. If both of the above not happened, then the property should go to the adopted son to Mr. X and Y.
Question-1. Is the second Marriage is Valid? (As the second wife belongs to other community in Hindu)
Question-2. Is the adoption is valid?
Question-3. If the adoption is valid then what is the share of the adopted son in the ancestral property?
Question-4. Is the second wife’s sons and daughters have rights to claim the ancestral property as per will? If so, what is the share to them?
Pl advice.
Palam.
Anonymous
04 March 2011 at 17:53
My marriage is held on 12-11-2010., due to mis match of ideas., we don't want to continue our marriage relations. Now both are 36+ years old. we don't want to waste another 12 months or 18 months time to take divorce. She stayed with me for only 5 Days. She was not interested in marriage relation. she is 3rd one in her family . 1st sister married a intercaste person & 2nd sister not married due to love problem. So, she is 3rd one and not having brothers also. she is not interested in marriage relation. so, she is ready to sign on papers for divoce. please advise me for faster completion of tasks.
HUSBAND MISSING SINCE LAST 2 MONTHS
Dear Experts
I got married 2 years back ,though mine was arranged marraige inlaws were never supportive and started provoking my husband to get seperated just after fewmonths of marriage ,my inlaws are greedy fellows running only after my husbands money and have no emotional attachment with him also.somehow i managed to stay wiht him for 2 years even after constant interference from his parents and all relatives but he has left me with any info 2 months back and has my parents dnt provide me his contact no,though they are in constant touch with him.He has also filed complaint with SHO mentioning false allegations.Also i have heard he has filed case of divorce.What should i do to save myself???