Please Help Me
Querist :
Anonymous
(Querist) 15 May 2011
This query is : Resolved
Dear Sir.,
My name Santhosh I am from Bangalore from past 2 years I was facing lot of problem in my family my wife was having affair with someone, I have discussed for several times in polite way it doesn’t worked our parents discussed with there parents and finally came to a conclusion to pay maintenance charges as 7000 per month it was documented in a white paper and finally I started seeing my root I got married with other girl and I applied divorce to my ex wife now she and her parents started acting smart they placed complaint in the police station. I have submitted to my lawyer all related documents as discussed in my divorce notice please guide me how to close this issue.
Detail on my first marriage
She is my Fathers brothers Daughter
She, my sister nithya & my Grand Mother came to Bangalore; I have not seen her before, I have taken them to a big temple including my brothers wife & my mother. If some relative come to ur home the way how all treat the same way we also treat, they where stayed here for more then 15 days.
I dint found any kind of wrong attitude way from her after that they gone back to there place, I was started getting calls from her once in a month, Even that time I dint find any different way from her talk. The last Call which I received she told that I am affair on u, I am leaving house on this day ( Some Day ) , I will b reaching here to other part of tamilnadu u need to come and pick me r I will b not able to go back and I will b not able to reach searching u in Bangalore. When she started saying this I on the speaker call my friend Padayappa was with me and she suddenly disconnected the call, I re tried for the same number but it was from the std booth and she was not there.
We (Friends) discussed and came to a conclusion to go to the place because she is a girl. Second time I am going to that village in my life and this my first time going alone and I met a accident in namakal, I reached there 4 hours late due to bus accident, when I saw her first I gone to a std booth I called my friend he seed try to convince and drop r send her back if not possible bring her, I tried a lot to convince but I am not able to do it and I asked the reason y the things like this there was no replay she blackmailed me, suddenly she scared me she seed some one can reach here searching me we both will b in problem, I scared and brought her.
I stayed in my friends room for more then three months total 13 peoples was staying there every day we I was fighting with her for reason, there was no more options, there was no other way – come to know I got fucked.
I stayed in my friends room for more then three months total 13 peoples was staying there every day we I was fighting with her for reason, there was no more options, there was no other way – come to know I got fucked.
Then I started my life with her for past 3 years
I was working for out stations and started getting calls from house owners and Nabors saying she is having affair with some one please vacate the place I dint believe and I dint take serious the house owner started calling my parents and I forced to change my house in every places the problem continued finally I shifted with my parents she was not there for single month also she came separately I advised her a lot but she dint take it one day I myself saw the things that I decided the above paragraph.
PLEASE I REQUEST BEG HELP ME TO COME OUT OF THIS
Today I am not able to prove all house owners are her side I don’t know what she did now I am standing in middle of the road and I have a girl kid she is effected because of this and I married a loved girl she is effected her parents are not accepting me they r very clear asking me to close the issue and then take my loved wife…………
I like to keep my parents happy they have suffered a lot because of these things
I need to come out of this please help me
Please help me to Wipe My tears
Querist :
Anonymous
(Querist) 15 May 2011
my mail id santu5kalais@gmail.com
M/s. Y-not legal services
(Expert) 15 May 2011
Whatever may be, how you got married with that girl, since she is your father's brother's daughter. Its mean she will be your sister only know.. Then how its possible?
Querist :
Anonymous
(Querist) 15 May 2011
sir it was happened on a situation please help me guide me to come out of this problem
M/s. Y-not legal services
(Expert) 15 May 2011
However, while your first wife is alive without divorce her, your second marriage is illegal.. If your first wife lodge a police complaint mean you are liable to punish under penal law..
Advocate. Arunagiri
(Expert) 15 May 2011
You are in trouble. Your act is illegal and unethical. There is no way out, you will be punished on the complaint.
M/s. Y-not legal services
(Expert) 16 May 2011
Yes. If you have any material evidence for your second marriage that enough for punish you.. You have be punished as per law.
Guest
(Expert) 16 May 2011
you literally divorced not legally. contest the divorce papers. get yourself relieved. further clarifications mail me.
Querist :
Anonymous
(Querist) 17 May 2011
Dear All
Please help me now standing in front of u all alive and i am out of controle please help me
santu5kalais@gmail.com
