Threat to the spouse and desertion
S.B.adil rahman
(Querist) 08 January 2011
This query is : Resolved
In Bengali boy while working in Hyderabad as an engineer fell in love with the local girl of different language and culture. The car was also working in a reputed bank. Their marriage was solemnised according to the Hindu customs in Hyderabad. In the meantime the father of the boy who lives in Kolkata suffered a paralytic attack. Since there was no one to look after except the old mother, the boy left the job will have a and joined a new organisation in Kolkata which was having better opportunity of progress in comparison to his earlier one. The boy wanted that his wife should also live with him in Kolkata and join the local branch of the bank. But the girl flatly refused and started creating pressure upon the boy to abandon the job at Kolkata and come back to Hyderabad which the boy refused. In order to sort out the problems the boy along with his parents was invited in Hyderabad by the family members of the girl were they were confined abused and assaulted. The police was also called and the girl gave a complaint of demand for dowry against the boy and the in-laws. At the police station the parents and the boy were compelled to give a bond that is they will not press for the girl's shifting at Kolkata and the boy would come back to join her spouse at Hyderabad. A compromise have arrived at between the girl and her family and the boy and her parents and the local police station of Hyderabad was signed between them with a time limit given to the boy by the local police officer to comply. The girl withdrew the complaint and the boy was given a copy of the withdrawal letter. I would like to know from the experts regarding the way out for the boy so that he may not have to abandon the job at Kolkata, may create a situation in which his wife comes to Calcutta voluntarily and settles with the husband by working in the local branch of the same bank where she is working in Hyderabad and that the boy is not threatened of getting implicated in criminal cases of cruelty and demand of dowry etc. at Hyderabad. What are the steps for restoration of conjugal life, protection from the husband and threat of the girl and if nothing works out then divorce. Be it mentioned that there is no issue and the boy also doesn't want to interfere with the working of the girl if she so desires.
S.B.adil rahman
(Querist) 08 January 2011
Please correct A Bengali boy and the girl instead of car,left the job at Hyderbad and joined a new organisation. Kindly omit the silly typographical mistakes.
Amit Minocha
(Expert) 08 January 2011
file a case u/s 9 of HMA for calling girl to join his matrimonial home at Kolkatta. also do specify of the entire incidence at PS specifically mention about confinement and sign under force also. Also show your apprehensions about implication into false cases.
Uma parameswaran
(Expert) 08 January 2011
With the help of a local Advocate try to talk with the girl and her relatives. If you could not come from your place then tell your inconvenience.You can also give complaint to higher police officials, if local police is not supporting you.There are so many spouses living different places and on holidays they are meeting together. You can also do like that.There is no need for looking to divorce . It is only a gap in understanding between you and wife. Try to take right decision.
