Mental torture from wife
shankar
(Querist) 11 October 2016
This query is : Resolved
ours is a respectable family and wife happens to be far relative married 9 years back... my father is a bed ridden paralysis patient and aged cannot move totally dependent.. i am in a good job and i have one son.. my wife is also a lawyer by profession and i only got her job... in a month we won't talk almost 20-25 days and her mouth has no limit... i will be forced to use foul language.. she always targets my mother which i envy.. we [mother] struggle so much to keep father out of danger every now and then he is hospitalised and always will be under stress.. my wife never co-operates and threatens me my family always... she never teaches my child and i take extra care for his health as well as studies and he is doing well... her parents doesn't care and i have stopped going to them.. her mother supports somuch that she keep on threatening me by saying she will die and write all our names.. etc., i want to issue one warning notice how i should proceed and on documents part how i should prepare myself... my son had fever and she never bothered to check and didn't speak even a word with my only son... please help
Ms.Usha Kapoor
(Expert) 12 October 2016
Show her to a Psychiatrist. she may require some treatment from some mental health expert.Because she is not doing her motherly duties also much.If you appreciate this answer please click the thank you button on my profile.
adv.bharat @ PUNE
(Expert) 12 October 2016
Shankar ji ur wife need treatment by expert psychiatrist. After treatment she may realise the wrong that she did with you.
P. Venu
(Expert) 12 October 2016
The facts, as stated, amounts to cruelty. You may seek divorce if the situation is beyond repair and an amicable settlement.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 12 October 2016
Try to save your marriage,
Try to find out why she is doing so. may be, she is under some stress or under the influence of some undisclosed previous event. If so try to share and solve the problem, rather to form negative opinion.
If you can try to spend more time with her.
Any notice from your side may spoil relation to irreparable stage, thus spoiling life of all. It will not serve any purpose.
If you can do secretly, try to record all her evasive talks, may or may not be helpful for you in future.
Adv. Yogen Kakade
(Expert) 12 October 2016
This is a clear matter of cruelty. Even if you don't want to go for divorce under this ground, your parents can certainly take a legal action against her.
Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 16 October 2016
@ Shankar,
You have stated your wife is lawyer by profession and "... I only got her job", is it true that she is practicing advocate and doing legal job?
A prudent person (specially lady) in legal profession shall have all regards for her family life; however, what is the specific reason/cause(s)of her such behaviour with your mother, as alleged by you, did you find out?
Since there is no such legal issue involved in the query, amicable settlement of issue(s) which are prima facie, trivial in nature, is the best option.
