Need suggestion in urgency
Rose
(Querist) 01 July 2017
This query is : Resolved
Hi sir,
My name is rekha,im n urgent need of suggestion.under certain circumstances igot married to a guy whom i luved.coming out of family leaving my lic job too,my parents luvd me so much n dey always blessed us both.problem arised due to misunderstanding between me n my husband eversince i saw him taking to a girl at 3am n had fight n he started scaring me.from there i returned to my home on my bro call,my bro cm vt ill intensions like bringing gpa paper to sign at his name at very first day since during my marriage too he took sum sign may b gpa from my dad who died recently and we 3 are joint property holders,i cm to my home by nearly 1 year 4months,during inetial days my bro used to telme dat he l go n speak to my husband n every time same reason n used to delay n now wen asked strongly he s coming to beatme n abuse me vt words,meanwhile sum months back only 1s my husband came to meet me n due to ill treatment n abuses of my bro he stopped talking to me n now he started askibg for divorce n no more want to live vt me,my real problem is what should i do now nor my bro goes up nor he s allowing to meet my husband,nor allows my relatives instead he s saying dat i shud take decision either yes r no den 1y he l take me to my husband,now im totally lockdup,what shud i do noww.pls my humble request is to giv me honest suggestions what shud i do.im unbl to take it ny more coz my bro is not even supporting my job,dat he is asking to not to write any govt examm.should i end my life vtot husband n career.what shud i do now pls helpme in ur valuable suggestion tnqu cos it may save my life
Guest
(Expert) 01 July 2017
What is your Intention Or what is your need now
Guest
(Expert) 01 July 2017
Make it Precise Please
Guest
(Expert) 01 July 2017
If you wish to rejoin your husband no one could legally stop you by force
Guest
(Expert) 01 July 2017
You got separated from your husband sensing his some other contacts
Guest
(Expert) 01 July 2017
Your brother's intentions are to take care and protect his sister
Guest
(Expert) 01 July 2017
Do not simply blame your brother for his good intentions
Guest
(Expert) 01 July 2017
It is your Life and you could decide on that.
Guest
(Expert) 01 July 2017
You could always seek legal and police protections for it
Guest
(Expert) 01 July 2017
You could also seek the help of Local Advocates
Guest
(Expert) 01 July 2017
Women's Free Legal Aid Forums are also available in all the Courts
Guest
(Expert) 01 July 2017
You could Also seek the Help and Guidance From them Please
Guest
(Expert) 01 July 2017
If you are upset you could also meet the Local Counselling Forums
Guest
(Expert) 01 July 2017
Take care and all the best
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 01 July 2017
If you want to join your husband and save your marriage then you can go ahead and do it.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 01 July 2017
Blank papers signed by you; Take back all of these. Or with help of your counsel act and liberate yourself from the effect of all these.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 01 July 2017
Property of Father: obtain mutation record with all link docs, from authority under whose jurisdiction property falls and check if property still stands in name of deceased father. As per personal law that applies in your case e.g; Hindu, you may have share in it. Usually death certificate, legal heir certificate is required to claim inheritance.
The procedure for such simple matters of inheritance ( per applicable personal law), Intestate Succession, might be available at website of authority under whose jurisdiction property falls e.g; MC and certainly it is available in office.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 01 July 2017
You are best judge of your life and should decide to defend your interest.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 01 July 2017
If the intentions of brother were pure and he wanted to genuinely defend you and provide you with due share of inheritance then you would be aware of it.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 01 July 2017
If the husband was indeed not in any illicit relation then you would be aware and realized and/or would have confirmed by now.
If possible crease the differences and lead a happy married life and maintain warm relationships with both families.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 01 July 2017
If you have tried enough and are sure that separation is the only recourse left then check in your community/tribe if by proven customs and evidences divorce is possible or approach court.
MCD is quick.
The litigation can be protracted and costly and stressful and may be of NO use if there is NO sufficient ground and merit.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 01 July 2017
You can seek Free Legal Aid.
The center is usually is courts complex.
Check locally.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 01 July 2017
If you wish you may discuss in person a very able local senior counsel of unshakable repute and integrity specializing in Family matters and show whatever evidences you have.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 01 July 2017
Strike a balance between parents and in laws side and take mature and well informed decision.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 01 July 2017
Try to be financially independent and use your skills, education, experienced to earn and settle down.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 01 July 2017
Have you consulted a lawyer so far and shown the evidences that you have!
If yes what is the opinion of your counsel.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 01 July 2017
Take a 2nd opinion and decide since the decision can affect you.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 01 July 2017
Decide wisely, and avoid litigation, if possible .
Rose
(Querist) 01 July 2017
Sir how can u tell my bro intentions arr good if good y vl i get hangd up n my parents home till now and y he wanys gpa from me n other name of papers and hiding all d income sources we r getting and even left my dad vtot proper treatment in his last days sorry but sir if he s defending me then y s he evn not allowing me to see other matches by my maternal uncle
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 01 July 2017
Your husband came to take you back.
You have posted that the plain papers that you signed were POA.
The said POA was for what purpose?
If you did not appear before registering authority and POA was not registered then it may not be necessarily valid atleast to alienate the property. If property of deceased parent fetched rental income you may claim share from it.
Take mature decision.
You are closest to the facts.
You alone can decide best.
Let NO feeling of stubbornness, bias,malice, ego, hatred, sarcasm,abuse etc etc take over and cloud your mind.
It affects the judgment.
Take help of a very able local senior counsel of unshakable repute and integrity specializing in Family/civil matters.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 01 July 2017
Keep elders of the family, competent and experienced well wishers by your side.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 01 July 2017
Please do not use SMS language.
May proceed as suggested by the expert Kumar Doab.
Sankaranarayanan
(Expert) 01 July 2017
Better to solve the issue amicably or seek advise from the both side family members, with their opinion you take further steps
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 01 July 2017
Thanks for agreeing Mr. Rajendar K Goyal.
Advocate Suneel Moudgil
(Expert) 02 July 2017
already resolved by experts, however, do what you want, in emergency you can dial women help line number - 1091
but what is happening with the language, too long query with many small words, such language input will definitely damage our next generation,
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 03 July 2017
Thanks for agreeing Mr. Suneel Moudgil.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 03 July 2017
Agreeing Mr. Suneel Moudgil, authors should avoid SMS language..
