Amit
04 November 2017 at 01:37
My Story in short.
I work outside India and lived with my wife and only child. Everything was going well however .I was diagnosed,with a very serious life threatening ailment (even my enemy should never have it!!).and we had to return to India for treatment. While my treatment was in progress(For 5 months i had to get admitted to hospital for treatment every now and then), my wife left home without telling me or my parents.. There were no serious fights nothing. Next day her Maternal uncle and her father came over telling that i was in an affair presumably with a woman who lives more than 2000 kms apart. Ofcourse thats Bullshit. They claimed that they have proofs which they never showed. They threatened me with dire consequences. The shock was so huge that i had to be admitted in hospital in life threatening condition.The reality is that her father never approved of her marriage with me at first place and with me in this condition, he thought that i will be a burden on her and hence encouraged her to run away. Regarding the problems between me and my wife, atleast from my perspective our relationship was like between any husband and wife .But obviously later on i found out that she wanted to get out of the marriage since 2011(we were married in 2008). In 2013 , i had caught her red handed with an affair to which she admitted and ofcourse i was very angry and yelled on her for like 5 days. and it seems since then she had decided to take "REVENGE". Fastforward 2016. As soon as she saw this chance she ran away. By 24 x 7 efforts of my friends and parents, i recovered.She never returned back. She barred me from seeing my child and she asked for MCD through her Uncle . I declined at first because she left home without letting me or my parents know.I sent out notice with intention of RCR because i loved her and i wanted to talk with her in case there was misunderstanding. Later on i came to know that every thing was pre-planned my her and her father . i did not file the RCR and instead filed case for custody of my child. The case has been filed on Jan and till December there hasnt been a single hearing.They had also symphoned off my passport for which i have proof. I realized that she was not willing to let me go out of India unless i give her divorce because there was no other reason to withheld it.Hence i took out a duplicate passport and re joined my work place outside india. All hell broke loose when they came to know about it. They started getting behind me for MCD. At that time i wanted my time to come out after back to back shocks. She barred me from seeing my only child and did tell that i can only see him if i give divorce. I havent had chance to see him on skype for more than one year now. Meanwhile she has applied for divorce and during the councelling proceedings i finally agreed for MCD. Then she started asking for money(15 lakhs). To be honest i cannot afford that because i need money as security for my health.Now the councelling proceedings are over and the case is ready to go to court. Now few things here.
- My lawyer hasnt yet filed my written statement to the court in hopes that there will be MCD. but obviously i put my foot down after 15 lakhs were demanded. The case has been filed on March 2017. Our written statement will be ready by next court date which i think would be Dec end.
Few questions
- Can i apply for interim relief to meet my child ?. I am given to Understand that the interim relief can be filed only with my written reply. I dont think so. I think i can file it as soon as case goes to counseling. Am i right ?. I havent seen him for 1 year.
- I am given to understand that if i dont pay 15 lakhs, then i will have to pay 50,000 /month as maintenance (my wife works and she has salary of 60,000 per month). i dont agree as i believe that cruelty demonstrated by my wife will make me eligible for divorce without maintenance. Am i right ?. Can somebody point me to relevant law provisions /sections for the same for me to study?.
- Her lawyer has specified that now he will file the interm maintenance relief which i will have to pay from March 2017. Can i contest that given the situation. I am ready to pay for expenses of my unfortunate child whatever they are as he didnt do anything to see this day. But ofcourse nothing for her.
- Her petition is nothing but a bunch of lies and i have all the proofs to debunk most of them. What should be my strategy?. Shall i ask her to come back to save on maintenance (I dont want her back now) ?. What should i do to ?
- To be honest i want to file criminal case against her but as my parents are there on their own, i am just willing to close this topic off.
Please advise correct strategy
Thanks
Amit
AJAY KUMAR RANADHEER
03 November 2017 at 21:48
RESPECTED SIR,
CAN I ARGUE MY CASE WITH OUT A LAWYER ?
2. IF YES HOW CAN I ARGUE MY CASE UNDER THE SECTIONS ?
TELL ME THE PROCESS SIR .
vanessa Anthony john
03 November 2017 at 21:02
Hi just wanted to know how is the verification done for court marriage in catholic also wanna know if a married person having an affair and wanna get married can it be done in Mantralaya how do you people come to know if he is married earlier need help immediately plz
v krishnakumar
03 November 2017 at 19:59
I planned after retirement my service I want to start organisation in the name of lord amman i.e amman peravai through which take the almighty of goddess to every one. It will function in the tamilnadu. No religious propaganda will be carried out. only doing of joint pooja with all women.
Rohan
03 November 2017 at 19:53
the name is wrongly entered in N.A. now i want to change the said name in N.A. WHAT IS THE PROCEDURE TO CHANGE THE NAME IN N.A. AND UNDER WHAT PROVISIONS OF LAW IN MUMBAI/MAHARASHTRA
Rohan
03 November 2017 at 19:13
Dear Sir/Madam
I stay in mumbai. My mom dad has died in 2014 so i want to entered name in 7/12 extract. My mom has 2 brother and 2 sister. So i had one query that one of my mom brother in not signing the vaaras application rest all are ready. In this case how can i entered reset of the heirs in 7/12 extract?.
Regards
Rohan Koli
karan gowda
03 November 2017 at 18:26
the sim card does not belong to me neither i legally possess the sim as the sim document is on another person's name..so can i go to ps as a complainant?
is it mandatory to have ownership of mobile phone and sim cards for registering a police case of phone harassment?
can i state my relatives numbers as my numbers in the written complaint?
plz do suggest
Md Irfan Raza
03 November 2017 at 16:15
In Aug 2014 SAIL CD Management had provided me adhoc employment with few others against land by issuing letters & promised to regularize the same once the adhoc period is passed.but after passing more than 03 years of long tenure.the condition of mine is still remains constant in respect of regularization. In addition to this this is also aware you they did not paid a single month salary from the beginning of this employment to till date.Pl.help me out.
Anonymous
03 November 2017 at 15:54
Hi All
My wife hv filed divorce petition in Mumbai u/s 13 (1) (ia). She also filed application for interim maintenance u/s 24 & 26 for her & child. After 1.5 years we both have decided to go for MCD. In mediation I agreed to pay RS 6 Lac for my child & she agreed to give visitation to my child once in a month. (to be invested in FD nationalize bank & interest of the same will be use for child exp.). On the next day (after one month) her lawyer refused to file even amendment application (convert from sec 13 1 (ia) to u/s 13B) & consent terms also. She insisted us to first deposit money into the court & then we can file amendment application & consent terms.
Please advice
After depositing money in court, if she is not agree with some terms regarding e. g child visitation & depositing money in nationalized bank, what is the risk to me. Can I withdraw my money deposited in court if she is not agreed to the certain terms & conditions.
Thanks
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