Shweta
22 April 2012 at 17:19
I have married in 2004 and we have 3 kids ( elder son is 8 years and younger 2 twins are 6 years). We both are working. After marriage about 2 to 3 months we stayed happily. After that, he real harassment started like beating, mental harassment and even he stopped taking the financial responsibility of the family. Even I came to know about his illegal relations. The major part in this all problems is he, his mother , sisters and his family. He is having 2 sisters who were not married that time ( Now one sister is run away with one guy and one more sister is married). They are very money minded people and they were expecting my salary always. His both parents are working and mother is a headmistress in school. His sisters are not willing to work and they need my and my husband’s salary for their lavishness. As I denied to give them the money they spoiled our family life. Along with the bad habits like illegal relation my husband behaves like what ever his family tells him. In 2007 he left me and started staying with one woman with whom he had illegal relation. I waited for 6 months then consulted some counseling centers to make him good, even Bangalore commissioner office woman counseling centre has called his keep and warned. Nothing helped out. Then I fired conjugal rights case, then maintenance case on him. That time, I was fully struggling with my small 3 kids. But I had a job. So god saved me. But, I have taken loans and although I had job, I suffered financially because my basic expenditure for me and 3 kids + the loan amount was much more than my salary. Then in 2008, I fired 498A case on him and his full family. About 2 years the case run and in 2010 is family elders came and negotiated with me for rejoining. I agreed as I was expecting good life with him and as per there condition, I have with drawen all the cases on him. With in few months of with drawing the cases, he has shown his real face again and started beating and all the harassment started. Even he is not doing any f is duties towards kids. Slowly without my knowledge, he has taken all his things back and now since 5 months stopped coming home. His sister and her husband are also staying in Bangalore and he is the financial care taker of her family.
Now , I am completely fed up with him and no hopes of improvement. As, I have seen only pain in my 8 years of this marital life, I don’ have any emotion on him. Now I need advice on what is the best law or step in this situation for me. My main concerns are, I need financial support from him for my kids and the child custody should be with me as I do’t want my kids to grow in his bad environment and I want to know which is the best and quick law for the cruelty happening from him , his family and his sister’s husband and even his keep. Is there any legal way to inform in his office so that he can get warnings from his office also.
rsraghukumar
22 April 2012 at 08:29
sir good morning. sir i lost one judgment copy of Supreme Court of India. that judgment is about "heavy burden lies on the person who dines the marriage". It is 2010 judgment. If that judgment is available with you sir, please tell the citation address. its very urgent sir.
i want to marry a girl. she is fighting a divorce case in panchkula court. her case is pending. but can i marry with her without any difficulties. Her parents want to get loss from their house. she is alone. she cant fight above said case without my help. she want to live with me.
क्या कोई भी पुरुष अंतरीम पोटगी केलीये न्यायालय मे दावा पेश कर सकता है की नही
जैसे की उसकी बिबी तो काम कर रही है लेकीन बिबीने जो झुठे मुक्कदमे कीये है उस मुक्कदमे के चक्करमे उस पुरुष का काम बंद हुवा है तो वह पुरुष अपनी बिबीसे अंतरीम पोटगी केलीये न्यायालय मे दावा पेश कर सकता है क्या?
Kamesh
21 April 2012 at 16:28
I have been separating from my wife for last 8 months. My lawyer is suggesting me to transfer or Gift my property to my parents before my wife send any notice to block me to transfer or gift. There are not single case from any side yet. But threatening from my in laws. So I put ‘NC’ in my area local police station.
Property was bought before marriage
She has not contributed in this property and has stay with me for only for 3 months.
She is earning and more educated than me. But less salary (10 k) than me( 25k).
My problem is that if I close my home loan by repayment and gift to my parents. My in hand salary will be increases and I have to pay her more Maintenance. So I’m little bit hesitate to close my home loan.
She really can block me to transfer or gift to my parents by sending any notice?
false_case_victim
21 April 2012 at 00:16
Respected Lawyers,
Here is a very small case-history:
The respondents of a DVC case got a Interim stay order in HC. The petition is filed on the section 482 of Cr.P.C.
It is CRL.P.MP. No. XXXX IN Criminal Petition No. XXXX
If the Stay request petition in the DVC case is of criminal petition type, then
1)Is there any necessity for the respondents/Accused to file a seperate Quash petition for the 498a FIR?
or
2) Will this stay petition of DVC proceedings be applicable to 498a case also as the 498a complaint and DVC petition contents are more/less similar.
shekar hkes
21 April 2012 at 00:06
Dear Members
My wife left home on 15-03-2011 and i had filed divorce case on june 2011 and after that my wife filed maintance case and now she again filed Domestic voilence case on 27-03-2012. my queri is DV case is maintable and can she file case for 498 on me plz help on the above issue (what is the time limit to file the DV and 498 cases)
if a boy wants to marry the girl nd the girl is also ready but due to her father the marriage is not getting solmnised with consent.
but the boy is asking that if they now get married in court and after some time girl refuses to be that the marrige was not with her eill..
than in that case what will be done bad with that boy
Cohabitation
sir if wife and husband lived to gether for short period i.e for 3 months, will it comes under cohabitation?
Sir is any specific period is there according to supreme court of india to say if man and wife stays for specific period then it is called as Cohabitation?