Divorce
Anant
(Querist) 03 January 2019
This query is : Resolved
Dear Sir,
Few months ago my friend get married with girls belong from relative. My friend qualification is ICWAI (CMA). Qualified professional. At the time marriage discussion people from girls side verified everything i.e. his bank statement, degree certificate, discussed with all their relative and then finalize. But at that time they does not give any clarification amount their daughter. They said that she is 12th pass. After marriage it is noticed that, she can't write simple marathi, words also and unable to do the calculation of Rs. 100 to 150. Her Iq was not so good and unable to read marathi. In short they have given wrong information. As her relative also agree that, she was not able to do this things but her parent is not agree. we have call recording of their relative stating that,same things.
During the four month friends family try to teach her but she is unable to understand finally they send her to her parents home and give time limits of one month to change her but as of that time limits also exceed more than one.
how to resolve this. friend family want to resolve this mutual understanding but parents of girls not responding them and not receive call.
how to resolve this. if we want to go in court how to stand the case to resolve it within short time of span.As friend age is 31 and if legal matter goes for 2 to 3 year then her future may be destroy.
Please guide.
Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 04 January 2019
The marriage proposal was accepted by both the parties after verifying relevant particulars of opposite side, although hence parents of girl had concealed the facts but they are not the only party to be blamed.
Now there is no point in mud-slinging on each other.
Accept the girl (as she is) and try to accommodate/ reconcile in the family.
Anant
(Querist) 04 January 2019
Hello SIr, Due respect to you decision I just want to suggest that, even though marriage is done but parents from boy did verified her degree certificate and verify whether she can write or read a marathi. As girls belong from relative, so it is assumed that there will be no false information. At the time of engagement boy asked girl that, can you read write english then girl say yes. but after marriage it is clear that she can;t read marathi too. She was so careless that few month ago she had kept hand in the mixture and switch on the mixture at that time finger of her hand cut down.
As boys family already give her training for four month but she can't teach it. and already given a time of one months to his parent to train and teach her, now that time also exceed but still no progress in her.
As Vashista sir said that accommodate her, but sir I just want to say that it is not only for few month it is question of full life. As there are only three members in home ( Including her). As my friend is on big post so he has stay in office for maximum time, so how can she handle the all household activities and children activities etc.
So my question is that can we file the case on the grounds that they did not inform us about her daughter and mislead us. In the court Judge and advocate also verify her by asking question.
still we are interested to resolve it by mutually but her parent not accept the call and not ready to meet face to face.
SHIRISH PAWAR, 7738990900
(Expert) 04 January 2019
If you file case on the points mentioned above it will definitely fail. As she or her family will also appoint advocate and advocate will teach her how to answer and what to speak. I will suggest you to try and convince your wife for mutual consent divorce.
Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 05 January 2019
Dear Mr. Anant,
1. It is not your personal but relative's case, as stated by you, let them find their own ways to live.
2. Knowledge, read and write is no ground for divorce in any law.
3. The couple have just started their marital life, marriage has been consummated and complete, which require at least either of the 5 grounds (as per law) for filing case for divorce, please allow them to settle,
Best wishes
Anant
(Querist) 05 January 2019
Thanks for you reply sir, Actually it is my personal case and currently I am suffering from this problems. Sorry as I have not mentioned it earlier.
Actually we want to resolve it by mutual understanding but her parent is not ready to pick up the call. Actually I am also not interested to go the legal matter as it will take some and currently I am at the boundry limit of marriage age so if I go through the court then it will take to 2 to 3 years then it will not fruitful for me.
As I already told u that, she is not such condition that she can recover it. As I am in Kolhapur so I request to you that, if you know any one expert advocate from this area's in these matter please suggest.
As if they already given us information we never proceed it,but they suppress the information.
