Mentally tortured by wife
Mohammed Rizwan Shaikh
(Querist) 31 May 2017
This query is : Resolved
Sir,
A friend of mine who has been married for the past 20 years as per muslims rights and ritual. The flat in which they reside is in the name of my friends mom. In 2010, husband caught his wife was caught having an extra marital affair with a boy who was unmarried at that time. Several SMS were found in her fone, the husband confiscated the mobile but she alongwith her mother were successful in erasing the messages. On questioning the wife by husband, she replied that it was all for money. When she was caught her mother and aunt approached her to help the wife and they were well aware that their daughter was wrong.They requested my friend to pardon her, she being tensed she may do anything to herself. However, after this issue the wife gave birth to a baby girl in 2011. The husband pardoned her for her deeds and continued the relationship. At times during small fight whenever this topic erupted over the fone, the husbad used to record the phone call wherein the admitted that she made a grave mistake and so on.
Further, in December 2015 when her husband was in Delhi for his step dads treatment, she raised an issue of infidelity that why the husband used to be online on whatsapp, husband told her why she used to be online. She then started gathering information about the husbands movement. Only on presumption that her husband talks over the phone for hours, he must be involved in an extra marital relationship. She even made her so called friend to follow him up, but nothing came out to be true. The husband has the record of the telephonic conversation with that friend of her wherein that guy clearly said that "meri chaahat alehda hai, mai tumko tumhara haq dilakar rahunga" apart from my liking towards you, I will try to give you your rights. Further, he gave false information to her that your husband goes to the bar with friends and he is planning to go Goa with other lady and so on. These talks are absolutely fake and false, my friend never entered into any bar neither he has the habit of drinking. If this thing would have been true then why the hell he did not give any photographic proof of the same. The husband has the proof of the same. That guy was just trying to elude her and take advantage. Further, the wife during the conversation, she requested him to get proof any how and after getting the proof she will ask the husband to go away and he will have no right on her, thats what she said in the telephonic conversation. It would be pertinent to note that in the husbands office there was girl who worked for few months, the co workers had a grudge on girl. Somehow, they got in touch with the wife and gave false information that her husband is having an affair with that girl. And ultimately the wife and her relatives got in touch with a lady who is a call girl and she blabbered fake storys before the wife and her relatives. The reason for doing so was that the office girl's dad was married to that call girl and they were into enemetical terms with her and girls family. She (call girl) got a chance to take revenge against her. The friends wife got a chance to taunt and torture her husband now and then. Since 2016 husband is jobless due to some partners issue of his step dad who is no more. Being jobless, he maintained his house core works as he used to do when he was with the firm. The wife is getting full instructions and support from her mom, aunt and brother. Their eyes are on the flat of her husband. Many times she even said to her husband that whatever right you have on the flat, I also share the same. She even took the sons into confidence that their father is having illicit relationship with many womens and she is left all alone and the sons are in full support of their mother. To be honest the husbands condition is very bad. He is being tortured mentally. Once, his wife asked my friend that how can aman stay away physically from his wife for so many months, the husband replied how can a wife stay away from her husband, a woman has more hormones than a man. You all may think that how do I know so much in depth, the reason being my friend has narrated each and everything to me.
The husband thinks that the wife and her relatives may get him fix in 498a and DV case in order grab the flat. They may pressurize the husbands mother to tranfer the flat on the wife's name.
What legal resort the husband has in such scenario?
Will the recordings be fruitful, to prove him honest?
Is there anyway the husband and can just intimate the local police station, to be on the safer side?
Does a muslim wife has 50 percent share on the husbands property?
Regards,
Mohammed Shaikh
