Father in law's threats to evict me and my husband out of house as their dowry demands r not fulfild
Guest
(Querist) 08 August 2014
This query is : Resolved
sir,m newly married. my inlaws harass me verbally and sometimes attempted to beat me and threat me to kill me.they demand dowry from me.they force me to do job and earn money for them as well as to do all the domestic works like a servant.my marriage was love cum arrange and was inter caste marriage . now they harass me by my caste and they abused me regularly.they threat me to evict from his house.we r living in house which is double portioned house and me, my hubby ,my brother in law and my inlaws live here.we tried to separate our kitchen but my father in law scattered all the things and dont allow both of us to take food from their kitchen.what should i do to live in in laws home???my husband supports me.plz give me suggestions.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 08 August 2014
Who is the owner of the house? if your father is owner of the same then he has every right not to allow both of you to stay there.
Ask your husband to arrange for separate accommodation.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 09 August 2014
I DO NOT AGREE.
If there is dowry demand then let your father-in-law be in Jail and you live in this house.
I am sure the house is located in some thana jurisdiction and is covered by dial 100. When one beats or even threat s to beat you you should dial 100.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 09 August 2014
"now they harass me by my caste and they abused me regularly"
reply urgently.
what cast you are and what cast they are and where the casts are categorised.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 09 August 2014
Please visit thread
http://www.lawyersclubindia.com/experts/father-s-threats-to-evict-me-and-my-family-out-of-house-87871.asp#.U-WIjaNvdG0
Is it from your husband?
Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 09 August 2014
Both of you (husband & wife) have posted same query in different name, which donot change my opinion/advise, same reply be read over here also.
I agree with experts.
malipeddi jaggarao
(Expert) 09 August 2014
You both are too clever to mislead the experts by posting two queries individually! Now I change my opinion given to your husband and believe that you are framing a concocted story against your in-laws with an aim to get your husband separated from them. Afterall love is blind. But we are not blind.
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 09 August 2014
Repeated query from husband.//
With changed STORY!!
Pooja Chetan Kaura was married on 29th march 2014???
IF YOU MARRIED AGAINST THE WISH AND WILL OF
YOUR FATHER IN LAW, QUIT HIS HOUSE..
YOU ARE NOT WELCOME .
THEY TOO HAVE THEIR LIKING & PRIVACY..
THEIR FEELING IN THEIR HOUSE IS TO BE RESPECTED.
LET THEM LOOSE THEIR SON...
LET YOUR PARENTS GET A YOUNG, GROWN UP AT YOUR FIL COST, EARNING, SON IN LAW FREE OF COST!!
NO ONE WILL HARASS YOU HERE IN YOUR HOME !!SO ENJOY YOUR LIFE...
TAKE YOUR HUSBAND TO YOUR PARENT'S HOUSE..
EQUALITY BEFORE LAW..
LET YOUR FIL LIVE PEACEFULLY WITH YOUR MIL...
DO NOT INTERFERE..
YOUR COMPLAINT OF DOWRY DEMAND, IS FALSE, CONCOCTED, AS YOUR HUSBAND DID NOT SAY SO IN HIS QUERY....
Guest
(Expert) 09 August 2014
Two different issues, "threatening to evict" and "demanding for dowry" makes your query hyothewtical to most of the extent. First of all, just think, if you try to arrange a separate kitchen in a joint family, who would tolerate and why?
To me, it seems a case of your not being able to properly mix-up with the family.
However, if that be not a case and by living separately from the family you can get relief from the dowry demand, better opt for that in the interest of mental peace of both sides.
T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate
(Expert) 12 August 2014
A question repeated painted in a rather different color in the name of wife this time. I appears to a hypothetical query, so let the reply to the first query remain and no reply to this.
Guest
(Expert) 15 June 2018
An expert wakes after four years to agree with another expert.
