Being blackmailed by ex.
Neha
(Querist) 27 October 2013
This query is : Resolved
Hi.Needed an advice of what can be done.well my friend is being blackmailed by his ex since a year or so.she sometimes even demands money.he cant tell his family because they sought of are orthodox and are family friends too.it may create a very big problem in his life and might even ruin his career.he is being mentally tortured by her.and now she even tried to hurt herself in front of him and her sister.she says she wont leave him and wants to spoil his life totally.what can be done?she is 23years old and he is 25.now the problem is he needs to get rid of her without getting families in between.should he lodge a police complaint against her?but don’t want the cops to go to her house because end of the day she is a female and her reputation will get spoiled.well what if she tries to harm herself again?is there anyway that we can file a complaint against her and keep it to be on a safe side.so if she harms herself ever he wouldn’t be questioned?he has all the screen munches of her blackmailing him hope they can be of any use.please suggest something.he sometimes feels like killing himself because he isnt able to focus on anything in life.Thank you.
M.Sheik Mohammed Ali
(Expert) 27 October 2013
WHERE ARE YOU FROM ?
your query is not answerable because, either one loss than one get, as per your query you wont loss and get.
Neha
(Querist) 28 October 2013
bangalore sir.what can be the solution then?file a case?
Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 28 October 2013
What are you to him? How and why you are so scared/concerned about him?
prabhakar singh
(Expert) 28 October 2013
Often we do not find solutions for things anticipated unless they happens.
Answer to queries raised by Dr J C Vashista
and tell facts more clearly .
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 28 October 2013
Fir blackmailing you can always lodge complaint with Police which would take necessary steps.
It is really curious as to what may be factor of blackmailing out of a love affair.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 28 October 2013
It is not possible to lodge any FIR and police does not visit the house of person or does not ask any thing, against whom FIR is lodged.
Some common family friend can be tried for solution.
Neha
(Querist) 28 October 2013
Dr J C Vashista he is a good friend of mine.and im concerned and thought this would be a better place for an advice.as he is clueless of what can be done.:) thank you all for the replies thanks a bunch.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 28 October 2013
it appears your friend had an affair with her must have promised her marriage now has ditched the girl .
record her conversations when she threatens to black mail you or commit suicide
malipeddi jaggarao
(Expert) 29 October 2013
It is rare that girl blackmails the boy in love affair. What do you mean by blackmail? She must be insisting for marriage for which your friend might have promised her. In love, it is common that if the other party refuses the aggrieved will threaten to hurt himself/herself. If you are really interested in your friend's welfare you should come with full facts. Unless you present full facts any advice is of no use.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 31 October 2013
query is resolved as querist has not bothered to clarify issues raised by experts
