Cheated by fiance
Querist :
Anonymous
(Querist) 10 August 2016
This query is : Resolved
I am 31 yr girl , I was to get married in December 2015 but my fiance broke up the marriage before 20 days . He fooled me for almost 2 yeras .I am still suffering because of what he did to me . I am suffering mentally and emotionally . It all started with a arrange marriage proposal in Feb 2014 and in between had too many up and downs between both families and us as well . He pretend that he want this marriage and we were engaged in April 2015 . In this whole duration he exploited me mentally , emotionally and sex**lly . I tried talking to him and make him understand not to do this to me . He cancelled the marriage before 20 days and that day also he keeps on saying he will marry me . But he broke everything . I am broke and still unable to get over things . I wanted to take step but because of being in a society like me , I kept everything with myself and keep on trying to make him understand . But in return I only get harsh words . He says I am mentally ill , I should go and get treated. He keeps on saying he never liked me . He used me sexually , even 20 days before he did the same . I am suffering each day and for the first time in last 8 months I told my sister about everything . I can't live like this . I was very strong person , I have never done wrong neither aLlowed ever . This is killing me the way he cheated me . I feel like kill myself since I am unable to do anything . I want justice and I want him to get the punishment for cheating me . I was never been in any relationship ever in my life . This whole situation has made me emotionally, mentally weak . I begged him not to do this to me .since its been about 9 months and still I am suffering . I was scared how everyone will react and was unable to tell anyone . I have been a good girl in every respect . It was something out of my league . I cried and begged but only got words like shameless , mentally sick , psychological ill . I am letting him go like this is killing me from inside day by day . Please help me . If still I can do anything. I want justice and to let everyone know what he did to me . Everytime I wanted to take a step everyone told me it is India and you will never get justice .you will only be manipulated and only you will be made characterless. These are also the reason , I didn't said anything but I can't take the pain anymore . How I will prove and what I have to say I don't know . But I am in too much of pain . I left my job and my life has become meaningless . He destroyed my self confidence and everything . He literally broke me after what he did to me . Please help me and suggest me what I can do . I wan to stand for myself . Its late , I know but can I have any hope .
Please help me .
Regards ,
GC
Querist :
Anonymous
(Querist) 10 August 2016
mentally, emotionally, physically exploitation I could have beaten but the sex**l exploitation in the name of marriage is killing me from inside .
R.K Nanda
(Expert) 10 August 2016
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R.K Nanda
(Expert) 10 August 2016
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R.K Nanda
(Expert) 10 August 2016
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(Expert) 10 August 2016
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Ms.Usha Kapoor
(Expert) 11 August 2016
Dear Client, File a case for breach of promise of marriage and the court may at least award damages. You are supposed to be mature and about 30 at the time of entering into this relationship and city smart, You must expect that you should never surrender sexually to your man in love s he feels that you are of loose character. Now you are feeling used up and depressed. You should not have left your job which is the moat foolish thing you have done. You can expose the boy and his cheating tactics by filing a suit for breach of promise of Marriage. But you must expect character assassination allegation s from his side also. Be prepared for all this. If you can file BOP suit you can. Otherwise try another job and when the right time comes, you can marry some other suitable boy who loves you for what you are.Tell all this to your parents ans d if they encourage you study further and focus on your career if you get a good job. Time is the bast healer. You'd forget about this boy in no time with your parents love and affection and support.Gradually you can regain confidence in yourself and fight with life's upps and downs.
Adv. Yogen Kakade
(Expert) 11 August 2016
Your query is anonymous.. but considering the nature of query it can be told that, there are many provisions of law for you to get relief in this case. You have to consult a good lawyer with all facts and start legal proceedings against the cheating caused to you.
Adv. Yogen Kakade
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Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 11 August 2016
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