Anu Bhaskar
29 December 2011 at 18:00
hi...
am writting this for my friend. She is in love with a muslim boy who was our college mate. Their relation started 4 years back and now the situation is really worse. This boy has sexually exploited my friend in the name of love and giving false promise on marriage. After 2 years of their relationship this man left to Saudi Arabia for his job. And since then he behaved in a different manner. In the mean time my friend converted into muslim knowing from the guy that his family will only accept the relation if she converted. She really loved him very much that she converted thinking he should not get seperated from his family because of her. 3 months after reaching Saudi he messaged her saying that he wanted to stop this relation. But at the same time he told his sister the whole story to end it in a good way. The boy love this girl, but he is afraid of his family that they might feel broken. He states this as a reason to stop the relation. my friend really got shattered and she called his home , told his mother the whole story. she clearly stated that she had a physical relationship with him and she cannot drop him. At this point his brother-in-law saw my friend and told her he will manage the family and make them agree. Both my friend and the boy was happy about this. Brother-in-law kept his word, he made the family partially agree for this accept boys father.
Father was very upset about this and was stressed. seeing this the boy again changed his word saying that he fears his father will get sick. The next day his brother-in -law came to see my friend. During that time my friend was not converted. He asked her to follow her decision of convertion and the boy will take another one and a half years to return from Saudi , so by this time he will convince the family again. So that they can get married when he come back. At that time itself my friend clearly told him that if it doesnt end that way she will move forward legally and he agreed to it.
Now the said period of one and a half years is over. She is converted to Islam. But now again those people are not agreeing for the marriage, and so the guy who fear for his family is helpless. It is very clear that boy really loves the girl and he is willing to marry her. But he believes marrying her may cause death to his father.
All i need to know is can my friend take legal actions against the guy for cheating her this long and making her to convert in the name of marriage.
Please do help....
Sanjay Lavu Mungekar
29 December 2011 at 17:30
can father transfer his tenancy rights to one child without NOC from his other children.
Do such NOC is required when one has to take the decesion about his own property.
Anonymous
29 December 2011 at 17:16
I got my divorce 2 weeks before and I had paid my lawyer as and when he has asked. Now since the case is over by mutual consent after 3 years delay , he is asking for 50000Rs just like that. I will not be able to give such huge sums to him.. What options do I have ? He says unless I give him the money, he wont give me my divorce copy. how to deal with this unethical lawyer who is behind my money..
Angshuman
29 December 2011 at 17:03
My Mom ( Age 60) was under treatment of an psychiatrist from 1996 till 2008 after having mental sickness and brain scans.She suspects my father(age 64) is getting involved with other women and is depriving her and which is not at all correct.
She thinks she is fine and does not listen to any one of us.We ,brothers stay in different cities and tried by all means to convince her.She remains fine under medicine and Psychiatrist says she can do anything when she switches from depression to aggression.Only my father and mom lives in house and my father takes all care of her.They are living married life for last 36 years.
Even though she has filed a case against my father U/S 125 in local court which was
transferred to lower court and the her plead for INTERIM is rejected.We did not knew that she is giving put ups and saying as she will withdraw the case.
We want to resume the treatment and we are confident even treatment for 15 days will bring her back as the similar thing happened eariler too.
Problem is:
1.She is refusing to talk to any and all psychiatrist and even over phone as she thinks she is fine and all we are conspiring against her.
2.We have only a few prescriptions of psychiatrist whom she used to visit earlier.
3.She is becoming violent ( keeping Gas cylinder open,threatening of 498A to my father)
Is there any way to give her treatment?
Anonymous
29 December 2011 at 15:29
my wife had filed a false d.v. case on entire family. date for my w.s. is next week.i have proofs to prove their allegations false.i wants to...............................(1)when should i ,submit proofs at this date(my w.s.) or during cross exam of her? (2)is intriam maintainance will be passed after w.s. or after her cross? (3)if i prove allegations are false then still she can take maintaince? (4)if she is taking allready maintainance in my rcr(through sec 24),still she is eligible for maintainance?is it will be same or more as compared to sec 24(decided by session court),while dv case is in lower court of another distric ......reply please.thanks
Anonymous
29 December 2011 at 12:07
hi experts,
since past 1 yr i have been staying with my parents however inspite of telling my husband that to come n take me home he is not ready to come. all my day to day needs & expenses currently are being provided by my parents.my husband has completely washed off his hands from my responsibilty,he is completely under his mother's control under her thumb whatever she says he does accordingly , she is not fit to be called as a women coz she never wanted marriage limitations n husband in her life so at the age of 60 she has thrown her husband out of her home, now she is after my marriage from the day when i got married since day 1 she has problems with me she bad mouths me,abuses me,humiliates me every time n my husband never ever supports me on the contrary he listens to his mother & torchures me more n says whatever his mother says i vil have to listen now also only coz of his mother he is not taking me back home.my mother in law does not want that i shud come back home she is the sole creator of all the problems in my marriage,i have even said my husband that if she dont want me at my matrimonial home v can rent a home where v can live happily bt he is nt ready for that even.plz suggest me what can i do especially my mother in law she has destroyed my life n still she is not satisfied my life is spoilt due to her what can i do to teach her a lesson of lifetime she thinks that marriages are just for fun n timepass n people like her can make or break it whenever they want,so that next time before destroying some innocent girls life she thinks 1000 times n wont treat relations n marriages as her authority.
plz suggest asap.
thanks
Anonymous
29 December 2011 at 12:07
I was married four years back. After the marriage my in laws were continually interfering in my family. My wife created lot of nuisance while staying with my parents for three months. I brought her with me in Noida and stayed there for three months. In between her parents also arrived and took her along putting false allegations against me.She refused to come back. In between we had a daughter. Her behavior was not normal. After two years she came back with her brother. i found her behaviour erratic and took her to a doctor. She was referred to a psychiatrist who diagnosed her with acute mental illness and was on medication. It was disclosed that she was suffering from this problem since her childhood which my in-laws had hidden. Her behaviour was violent at times and was completely out of her senses. I took care of her for eight months and got the medication done. Dr. was of the view that she will have to continue medication for ever as discontinuing it may bring the problem back. Once she became little better she went back to her parents and refused to come back. In between she had conspired with her brother and called police. Her mother had been also suffering from same problem which is visible from her behaviour. They had been threatening to and very adamant during all this period. Her medical problem was hidden from us and still they are not ready to acknowledge it. However I have got all the medical records. Twice she had misbehaved with the daughter also going to the extent of breaking her head which needed stitches. Kindly advice me so that I can file a divorce as they are again threatening me with legal action. There ultimate aim is to extract money from me.
Member (Account Deleted)
29 December 2011 at 11:06
Dear Experts.If my wife's side prove that i forced her to get married under special marriage act and I had met her in her home whenever there was nobody .I was fraud .Will i be punished for this.I did nothing wrong but these doubts always make me tensed so pls reply me.section 25 of special marriage act
Anonymous
29 December 2011 at 02:17
hi sir/mam
i have nt recevd the notice yet whereas i have come to know that my husband has filed divorce case n the date is 12th jan.i want to know
1. how long i have to wait for the notice
2. may b he adapts some foul means so that i dont get notice in time .is it possible then that he will automatically get case in his favour.
3.is my sign nt reqrd for reciept of notice?
4.how can i get the info as to from which court he has applied the case??is there any way out ?
waiting for ur advice
thnx in anticipation n regards !!
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