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28 December 2011 at 12:44
I and my lover registered our marriage in sub registrar office (SPecial marriage act in February).I want to live with my parents and they say that they would suicide.I am only 19 years old.My lover was true to me but i for my parents going to leave him.We have lived as husband and wife in secret and my parents and the society do not know.How can I file for this please.
He was not fraud to me then how can i prove that
What about consummat.Shall i say that our marriage not consumated (But consummate.will he can prove this in any other way.
baburao vitthal lohakpure
28 December 2011 at 12:22
I MARRIED ON 27/03/1976 AS PER HINDU MARRIAGE ACT AT MUMBAI. MY WIFE DIED ON 24/02/1995. I HAVE TWO SONS,PRESENT AGE 30 AND 27 RESPECTIVELY.
I HAVE ONE SISTERINLAW AND ONE BROTHERINLAW.MY FATHERINLAW DIED IN 2009. BEFORE DYING HE DISTRIBUTED HIS OWN EARNED PROPERTY TO MY SISTERINLAW AND BROTHERINLAW.
CAN MY SON CLAIM THE SHARE IN MY FATHERINLAWS PROPERTY.
IF SO WHETHER MY SONS CAN SUE MY BROTHERINLAW AND SISTERINLAW IN THE CIVIL COURT TO GET THE SHARE FROM THE PROPERTIES THEY RECEIVED FROM MY FATHERINLAW BABURAO LOHAKPURE PUNE MAHARASHTRA 09158004855
Prakash123
28 December 2011 at 12:10
I was married on 8 Feb 2011 & On 20 July 11, I got my marriage certificate. After that some normal quarrels happened and on next day morning my wife doesn't responds for any question to me and my family. She only said that she will not live with my family. I beg her lots but all worthless. Well.... She is ready to live with me only not with my parents else she wants divorce.
Then I replied as usual that I will not leave my parents as they are aged and suffered with various diseases. Then she told me drop her at her father’s home.(In Pune). I replied that I will not drop you & will not allow traveling you alone. Ask your father to come and bring you.
As a result her father came and after lot arguments & quarrels they told if she doesn’t match with your family, he will get her back to their home. I asked her once not to go, but she denied leaving with my parents. Then her father asks her to bring her bags. Then he asked us the Golden chain (Given at marriage time). Then my father got angry & said that they will give it at the time of next meeting in presence of relatives & will talk on transaction made at marriage time. But he got angry and threatened us. Finally my father gave him a Golden chain (5 tola chain + 5 gram ring + 3 gram ear ring all worth 1.5 lakh) and said now we also not wish to keep your daughter at our home. I will signed blank paper that I will not trouble you any way (Just tolerate not did).
Now 5 months passed to that incident. She is with her father’s home. In between her father realized that I'm not taking imitative so send some mediators and also call to me any say " Either resolved issue by accepting my daughter (without condition) or ready to separate (just to afraid us )". But we replied with calm them our mentality not well. We can't say anything now. Then they are threaded us that will do something bad which will ruin me forever. We will forcefully enter his daughter into my flat. Will come to my work location and will make kiosk or something wrong.
In between me, father & mother was self-harassed a lot. But all of our family relatives are with us and ready for divorce.
1. What should I have take action if she forcefully try to enter his daughter in my house? I don't want this relation any more. And one can guess that, we have not called each other not a single time. She is also not interested in this relationship any more. Now she is agreed to come to my home without any condition but under her parent’s pressure.
2. If I send any notice to her to avoid any forcefully entrance. Should it be considered as I am asking for divorce and I have to pay all expenses back to them + compensation till she got job?
3. I am expecting that as we separated from 21 July 2011, If both parties anyhow become ready and try to file a Separation on around 15 Feb 2010 (after completion of 1 year to my marriage on 8 feb 2012). How will it go?
4. On any extent I will not want her in my life and not wish to pay her any single rupee as she herself leaves my house on her parent suggestion. She is BE (Electronics). But not able to find job due to her arrogant nature and Lack of Knowledge.
5. Should I filed any Suit against her that she should not enter my house as she left my house since 5 months
6. Plus She has one elder brother to be marrying (looking for girl), so I guess her Father should become desperate to break this as soon as possible (it’s my guess) and marry her soon.
7. I’m looking for Mutual Consent …. then can file Separation suit after 8 feb 2012. That’s why I ‘m not dare to send any legal Notice(RCR) which will defiantly include our separation date as 21 July 2011 and I have to wait another 6 month (July 2012 )to file separation suit….. and again wait for 6 month after July 2012.
8. I have not filed any suit / RCR notice against her. And they also not on me. If I send RCR to call back her she will happily enter in my house.
9. They are already trying to enter my wife into my home by sending lots of relatives to convince us. By this are they collecting proof that girl is trying to enter in house and we are not allowing her to do so. 9. Is it possible to avoid permanent alimony and prefer onetime maintenance?
I can pre-assume one of your suggestions that “Try to resolve the problems amicably”. But things are gone beyond that & minds are broken and it would possibility cause of suicide from me and my parents, if she came in my house I can’t stay with her in any situation. Not at all
I have little fear about 498-a of I.P.C and it will trouble my job. As I’m only breadwinner in my family now with 10 Lakh home loan on my Head
a. Our society watchman is the proof of her leaving of house on 21 July 11.
b. On 15 Aug 11, we called her maternal uncle that my wife left my house on 21 July 11. I have recorded that call too.
c. On 12 Dec 11, I have recorded call of the threading & convincing me by her parents.
Anonymous
28 December 2011 at 11:45
thanks for you reply .my first husband passed away in 2005. befor the 2nd marriage my husband had promised to adopt my daughter its been 3 yrs and he has still not adopted her.In a onother 2 yrs ahe will be 18 yrs i am worried about her finincial security as i am not working if any untoward incident happens to me what is her security that is what is bothering me. and were money matter is concern though we are legaly married all the money matter & policy the nomee is my mother in law .. i am going to face a lots of fincial security problems. i just want to know how do i deal with all these complicated sutition.
Anonymous
28 December 2011 at 11:26
I have applid for divorce. My wife has applid fr RCR and Section 24 and litigation expenses. But she is hearing more than me. I have a xerox copy of her payslip. I produced that i court. But she has given statements in next hearning that "that is not her payslip. I was working earlier but since my husband mentally tortured me, I was not able to work and I resigned my job" . But I am sure that she s still working there.
How to proceed fr it?
Note: we dont have kids.
Anonymous
28 December 2011 at 11:15
Me and my wife are living separately. My wife has applied for RCR. I am not willing to join her. I am not willing to appear to court also.
My lawyer said that she may apply for dowry case and suspend my dad who is a govt. employee.
Is t ? We havenot askd any dowry from her. Hows to proceed for it?
Aatif Khan
28 December 2011 at 10:15
Dear All
i have read enough about the dowry act misuse and the poor husbands lodged in jails for no reasons. Until today(as i am typing this)when i am back after spending 19 days in TJ(Tihar Jail). In Short Story is that i did a love marriage(Nikah)at Nizamuddin Dargah in delhi July 2009.It was a simple love marriage with no dowry taken-not even a single paisa.After that some stories happened and my wife left me and filed a case against me in Delhi under 498A 406 & 3/4. I acted as a stupid and myself went to the I.O as he called me to give a statement. From There he sent me to jail from where i got interim bail and court forwarded the matter to mediation center.I also have a gut feeling that my lawyer has join hands with my wife. I belongs to Bareilly UP. Now my humble requests to the Experts is to answer my few points. I will be really obliged
1-My lawer says that the bail provided to me is till 16th of January 2011.Is it ture that court gives AB till a specific date?
2-After my release my inlaws called me at their home for out of court settlement and there they beated me and snatched my 50k which i carried as a token money. My lawyer sayin not to report this to police about this incident else my wife can ask the court to reject my Ab on the grounds that i am trying to make false allegation on her family.
3-What are the chances of getting regular bail?
Waiting for an earnest reply
Anonymous
28 December 2011 at 10:00
My husband has applied for Null&void under the grounds - We have forced him to marry me. which is not true. I have all the record proofs, marriag regtr certificate, reception conductd by them etc etc,
In the first hearning the petitioner (himself) didnt appear. And for 2nd hearning also he didnt appear. I think next time also he wont appear.
Now can i raise defamation case for it? To make me roam around the court and for mentally tortured me to state the rgisrd n
Anonymous
28 December 2011 at 09:40
Repeated query but i have not gt the answer. So pls explain.
My husband deserted me and I am staying alone now. I, the petitioner have applid for RCR in Additional Family COurt, Chennai. He has recieved the summon but didnt appear in court for 2 continuous hearings even from the first hearing. Tomorrow there is 3rd hearning. But i heard thro his frnds that he is in other location n wont come to court tomorrwo also.
If he didnt appear tomorrwo also, what will happen?
Note: I have not applied 125Cr.P.C since i am workin women.
Answers what i got is : I may get exparty for RCR
My question is: If decree is passed for RCR. wats the use for me. Anyways he s libing separtly. Please explain me wat wld happen?
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I am illtreated by my in-laws n husband after getting lot of money from me. We r just 8 months married too. And its love cum arrangd marriage. Owing to his parnts words he is cheating me and deserted me.
I have given a complaint on my husband, father-in-law and mothr-in-law on dowry, harrasment. But in police station they closed the case and directed me to see the case in family court. I dunno why the police officials are not botherd abt to file teh FIR. I have given proofs also for dowry given to them.
I have just got the CSR copy.
1. My In-laws are govt. employees. Now with this CSR, can i atleast request for suspension? Or do i need FIR?
2. If so, wher shld i send this CSR? (In-laws are workin in shcool and bank)
3. My lawyer has made the petition for pirivate case and direction case since the police officials have closed this case. Whether this petition will help for thier suspension?
4. What are the other document that i need to send to make thier suspension?
4. Do i need to send the proof for dowry also ?