madanlal pande
07 January 2014 at 14:58
I was married in Jan 2011
separated in may 2011
she is BE chemical but currently not doing job.
I’m Mechanical engg doing job but not admitted in court. Also they even not provided any evidence abt my job
she expecting maintenance = 10000.
Before marriage she was doing job. After marriage to separation she was not doing any job.
After separation, she joined one job and left job after 6 months and before filing crpc 125
During her cross she was admitted that before marriage she was doing job. But denied of after marriage. (she lied in court)
I have submitted both of her job proofs in my cheaf....
During my cross her lawyer lady asked me
__whether petitioner was working before marriage? Yes
__After marriage till separation was she in servicing No
__Do you have any documentary proof whether she is working ? NO
she lied in court abt doing job after marriage. But after providing my evidences about her past two jobs. She submitted her resignation letter of second job in court during my cross .... even if her evidences was closed earlier.
My question My argument was she lied in court... came with unclean hands But her lawyer had already ask me that “After marriage till separation she was not in servicing
So is it mean that she is not lying ? her lawyers is argued that milord “after separation she was servicing” not after marriage till separation. Petitioner was not lied.
aryan
07 January 2014 at 11:09
Hi, there's a dispute going on about the property being divide in our family,but our grandad doesn't want it to be divide equally to the female children and only wants to pass it on to the male children and has almost abandoned his wife and doesn't want to take her responsibility.Incase she files a complaint on him what are her chances to have a secure life ahead?grandad is well to do gets 30000 pension every month in which he doesn't give anythin to her.what can she expect if the compalint is filed and what are the ways to get the property divided equally between all the children?
Bhagyashree
06 January 2014 at 10:42
I had file for interim maintenece for me and my minor child in march 2011. maintenance awarded in march 2012 from the date of y application. my husband then went to high court to reduce maintenance for me but had didnot oppsoe paying for the child. he has not taken a stay order from high court. matter pending in high court. Meanwhile my lawyer went in for execution petition for which there was no reply from the other side. The judge then issued a arest warrant in first week of nov2013. our next date was 5 dec2013. The judge has got transferred and the bench is vacant till date. The arrest notice is in awaiting. The clerk gave a date of 7 march 2014. for evedence he gave a date of jan 2014. The cases have been tranferred to other bench as the bench of family court is vacant. there we tried putting an application for reissue and take a closer date, but the other judge refused.
My query
1) in general how long does an arrest notice take to be executed and there after what is the procedure
2) what else can be done to speed up the process.
3) by march 2014 he has to pay a maintenance for 2 years. can the corut give him relief? if yes in what way
He is staying in Bangalore
amit
05 January 2014 at 14:51
can anyone suggest a few web site for case study related to false dv case ?
Dear Sir,
We are from a Gujarati (Hindu - Jain) family. My elder brothers' daughter was in a friendship relationship with one muslim boy since 2005. Afterwards they loved each other. Now they want to marry. However, considering the background of both family, none of my family member has agreed to this marriage. This marry may spoil the life of a girl sooner or later. They both are working in one public limited listed software company. In spite of our opposition, they remained sticked with their decision which will cost a huge social damages to us.
Please advise, is there any legal way to prevent this marriage and to safeguard our family interest ?
Thanks.
Y P Sharda
05 January 2014 at 14:09
My daughter got married in October 2012. It was a love marriage and she has lived with her husband for barely 10 months in her matrimonial house. She was thrown out of her house after an argument with her husband. The husband was verbally abusive and in the past has attempted to drop her at our house 4 times during the period. Post the incident mentioned above that she was not allowed by him to enter the house. Since the house was on rent, within one month of the incident he vacated the house without informing us about the same. Since the time she was thrown out of the house we were requesting him and his family to give us the house keys so that my daughter could go back but they kept on giving excuses and finally one day he sent her a message saying the hose lease expired so he had to vacate the house. He ran away with everything that was there in the house including her everyday wear and other things. He and his family completely seized any contact with us even though my daughter was regularly calling him and messaging him and emailing him.
We lodged a complaint with the CAW cell after 2.5 months of frantically chasing the family. Its been 2 months since the case is with CAW cell. He refuse to take her home.
We had complaint about the domestic violence meted out to my daughter but now we have learnt that CAW take complaints regarding 498 which falls under Dowry Act. But in case we do not want to pursue Dowry case and instead Domestic Violence, what should we do? Kindly advice on the same and the justice we can get.
FYI: The husband after vacating the house is very much staying in Delhi with a relative of his while he has told us that he is going back to his hometown leaving everything behind. He has 2 established businesses here in Delhi but says earns just 12k a month when the rented accommodation was in Vasant Kunj and the rent alone was 27k per month.
ranjeeta
05 January 2014 at 13:33
marriage date; may 2013
arrange
caste ; hindu
reason:in laws n husbands physical violence, dowry, mental torture, treatment like maid,badwords about my parents. threats etc..
thrown out of in laws home on 12 aug in mere three months
proceedings done:
1)Bond on rs 500 stamp paper stating we cannot adjust with each other so separating.And they have returned my ornaments n dads money given for the furniture n other.And we cannot file any cases against each other in future. And i will not ask for maintenance n any kind of compensation.
2)Memorandum of understanding:
3)notary registor sign
In spite of being harassed i was told to agree for mutual divorce by my advocate as other proceedings are time consuming, and also it leads to stress n affects mentality of family.
Query:
1)Do i have to wait for a completion of 1yr to complete marriage that is upto may 2014 and for 6 months of separation?
2)When can i file 1st petition?
3)How much time will it take to complete the entire process?
4)my husband has a good job of the 8lakh package annually.can i ask for marriage expenses nw?as Memorandum is ready, we hv signed on registration?
4a)If yes what is the procedure?
5)I have heard dat after filing 1st petition there is a waiting period of 6 months.
5a) Can dat period be waived off?? If so how?
below is the problem and help witch is still incomplete need complete solution :
I am From MuMbai :suggest the name of Criminal law, family law lawyer of this location :who i can get in touch . ,
below is the problem and help witch is still incomplete need complete solution :
the matter : is
i had met a girl 4y ago . when she met me the first day she said she loves me wants to marry me , and in 2 weeks she said she is going to USA and she will newer forget me , after she went there she use to to call me every day , atleast for a 2 year to marry me .
finally i gave up and said yes i will , BUT she had a condition that she will only get married in the court , i said no i will not , marriage will happen in the church, she said yes she will in front of my and her family , but for now she wants the marriage certificate from the court because she has some paper work . for she need it for some filing that she has to do for me .. my family denied and me too. but she convinced me and my family , that she will marry traditionally once we get her married to me in the court . we agreed for she was really looking genuine in saying it . she said she always use to say she needs court certificate and pictures of us together for she has some paper work in USA for me . and finally we got married in the court . her family and my family was there in the court as witness for it . that day was the biggest mistake of my life . it was 05/10/2011 . and she went to USA , and till date she did not come back . she use to fight with me for every reason, avoiding my calls .and started saying she will never come to india and she no longer wants me .cos her work is done and she is an NRI now .... and from last 1 y she has blocked me on all social web site. blocked my calls changed her address in USA . i tried to call her mom in usa, she says search her if u can , and her family in india say we don't know any thing dont come to us . i don't know what to do now and where to go . recently i found out that she is in a relationship with some man , my friend informed me and sent me PICTURES of her with an other man with whom she is in relation with being cosy and very comfortable . i feel cheated and for marriage and for she having an extramarital affair .... PLEASE I NEED HELP .... HELP ME . I AM CHEATED AND MY WIFE IS HAVING AN OTHER MAN . in a country where i cant go or even do any thing to her ..
Answer i got is : from Expert : T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate is
matter is This is one way of getting benefits illegally in a foreign soil as per the prevailing law of that land to marry some one for the namesake, get the marriage certificate and avail of the benefits based on such facility, this type of fraudulent acts are not new, it was the fault of the author for hurrying up his marriage on some passions/compulsions without verifying the entire details, veracity, authenticity, antecedents of the girl who proposed the subject issue. However, instead of repenting or lamenting over the past mistakes, it is better to file a divorce case on the grounds of desertion, non-cohabitation and mental cruelty due to frauds played upon in the name of marriage and fled away.:::
Change of adopted daughters surname
Myself and my ex husband had adopted a daughter in the 2007. we applied for a divorce in 2010 and in 2013 we finally got the divorce, As per the decree I am the custodian and he has the visitation right and a temporary custody whenever he stays in India. Now as she is an adopted daughter I don't want her to stay out of the house without me therefore want to revoke the temporary custody from his part. My daughter also doesn't want to go. its me who every time put pressure on her to go just to abide the rule . My question is
1) Can I appeal to the court so that she uses my maiden surname?
2) Can I keep only the visitation right for my ex husband instead of temporary custody
thanks for your help