Anonymous
01 August 2018 at 17:11
Hello Eyeryone
before asking for help, I try to picture the whole secenario.
Raj
origianally from State Haryana, city ABC, living in France since 2002, Raj got married First time in his Life in Year 2005 in France with a French woman, They had a son(born 2006). in 2012 Raj and his French wife had some issues, but they keep living together in hope that things would go better as any marriage has its ups and down. but in vain, Raj started to search for new partner, and through Family in India he met one girl "Ria"
Ria
Ria was First married in between year 2004 - 2009 with Brij. Brij died in Year 2009. they have a daughter together. born in year 2008. Brij was Govt. Employee, and Ria is getting Widow Salarey. This full salarey is paid by dep., in every six month cycle She has to give a affidavit to Dep. that she hasnt marry again. She lives alone in her hause with her daughter
Raj and Ria
Raj and Ria got engaged in 2013, Before getting engaged Raj and his Family told whole situation to Ria and her Family, both parties were agreed that both of them will get married as soon as Raj's Divorce will be done. but just after 3 months of engagement Ria started pressurising Raj to get married as soon as possible because she doesnt want to live alone. when Raj told her that He is not divorced yet and it will take some time so they should wait. She confronted that when she havent any problem with His first marriage why Raj is saying to wait for one more year. Her argument was that they can go in a social marriage and will get this registered later when Raj is divorced. So Raj agreed to this. They got married in feb 2014, and it was a proper Hindu Marriage with all rituals.
After Marriage
After Marriage Raj returned to France and in 5-6 months he applied for Divorce with his first wife, both got seprated in sep. 2014. and had divorce was final in march 2016.
Ria has changed just after marriage totally, and refused to come to Raj's Hause in India where Raj's Parents live. She was in between for some months at his hause but spent most time in her own hause (not her parents). Meanwhile Raj has asked her to collect all papers which are required to bring her to France. but She didnt do it. She kept taking her Salary as widow, and kept producing affidevits to Auth. that she is not married. She refused to live with His Parents, and wants that Raj should take her with him, but when no marriage cert./other necessary docs are available He cant do anything. in this scenario 4 years has gone, Raj has visited 3 times to India and She was at his hause Only when he was there. Raj and Ria now stopped talking for more than one year. Ria has sold her hause, and bought a new hause where she is living now.some other place, and enjoying full salarey(80000INR) of her dead First Husband.
Raj has asked Ria to close the relationship. Ria agrees to this(as she is already living seprate for last 3 years) but denies to divorce, or any written agreement. They dont have any Children together.
Now Raj is in this Situation, If he goes to court, They can put on him charges of second marriage. and can be sent to jail. but if he dont and get in Any relationship he will be Blackmailed by Girl as He dont see any other reason why dont she make a sattlement with him. and for him it will be always like ticking B.. if he come to India and Ria file a case on him/ or his parents.
Raj know he did something which shouldnt have happened, And there are not any excues which could have make it better. He just trusted a widow girl who emotionally told him that, "her daughter needs a father and She want that it should As soon as possible", he was so sure with Ria that they will continue this marriage till death. but it happened other way round.
What should Raj do to come out of this. I thank you for reading this, and for helpfull answers. Have a Nice day.
P.S: Raj and his Family didnt take any dowery, Money, Gifts from Girl or her family. Neither he or his family ever ask Ria to handover money (her salarey).
Best Regards
Raj
Anonymous
01 August 2018 at 12:16
Hi,
My litigation on dowry act n domeatic violence going on since more than two years. Just six months ago things were went on settlement way to rejoin matrimonial house. I settled and gone to matrimonial house. Some days spent well, after few days again the mental harrasment started.
My husband denied to take responsiblity of me and my child. He used to quarrell always and says you are working so manage your things your own spent your money on child. I will not give a single things.
On weekends he used to go out for two days n never spent time with ua. His family also ask for my salary either to leave job or give money.
Due to all these mental trauma i decided to leave that place.
Now i would be filing for divorce , it will take time to get rid off.
I want to get my belongings bacj from matrimonial house.
Can u pls suggest me how can i get my things back from matrimonial house on urgent basis through court orders.
Anonymous
01 August 2018 at 11:25
My sister husband did second marriage even they have one child who is 11 year old. from Last one year he did not give any money and left them last one year. He always post his new wife pictures on social media and he says to my sister he will not Give any money and not take any responsibility towards her. Please suggest what should i do?
Member (Account Deleted)
01 August 2018 at 09:32
few years ago my wife filed a case sayingt that i was threatening to her life. i got bail. but i didnt receive a summon after that.
so i thought my my wife withdrew the case . So i didn't worry much. I recently came to know that she didnt withdraw the case also didnt want to run the case..I was told that she is not ready to spend any time for this case. i have to handle the case and close it on my own.
I checked and came to know the status is NBA. Do i need to appear in the court ?.. or arranging a lawyer is enough.
How to close this case.please advice me.
RAJWINDER KAUR
31 July 2018 at 22:52
Hi sir ...mine is love marriage.i have no support of my parents but in-laws support me.i have been married for 11 years.i have 1 daughter and 1 son.recently I came to know my husband has an affair with someone.i have seen there pics together in not to mention poses. Trusted him .but he cheated me.he deleted those pics .I have no proofs.from past one year he is cheating on me.that girls is not married.plz help what can I do....
Manpreet Singh
30 July 2018 at 21:21
Dear Experts, What if a person does not appear on the 2nd meeting of mediation? Would the other party get any benefit out of it who was present ?
depressedbyall
30 July 2018 at 08:07
1. Wife deserted me and after seven years wants mutual consent dicorce at zero settlement amt
2. my age today has become 41years mairraige lasted for just 4 months and
3. although she havent filed any kind of false cases too any where but i had filed rcr where i got exparte decree in my favour a year back but i spent around 2lakhs in litigating only and most important lost my precious age and also spiilt my status in our society
4. now her lawyer says she dosenot want to appear in mumbai for contested divorce hence wants me to return her all belongings before first date so that she avoids lawyers fees and further complication as she is from gujarat
she is working and drawing salaryv18000 pm i have all her salary details has her own flat ans
5. she is stsying alone she has even left her own parents she is very adamant kind of nature
6. Learned advocates please suggest i want to teach her lesson and want her to be imposed with heavy fine or seek compensation for ruini g my name , time and money so please suggest is there any way or judgements which can help me .
Anonymous
29 July 2018 at 12:30
Dear Sir/Mam,
How can we use High Court, Supreme Court Judgement to Lower Courts (District Courts, Family Courts).
Specially in Matrimonial cases. In which section , CRPC , IPC we can show this and asks Judge to follow/refer that judgement in such cases.
Regards
Anonymous
29 July 2018 at 09:52
Recently brother got mutual divorce. But her ex wife took away some gold jewellery from her matrimonial home. Not returning them. Purchase bill is in mother in laws name. What legal options are there?
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