Rcr (sec-9) filed but i want divorce due to dv by my wife & his family
ashwani
(Querist) 26 August 2013
This query is : Resolved
Hi friends
i am married on 27th November 2012 after this my life going in trouble. she is belonging to rich family from me, so she is demanding. and i couldn't able to complete his demands from my salary, she demand standard bike, house. but this things are out of my earning limits. She is behaving me badly, abusing, beating with her nails. told me about her relationships before marriage. And told me she don't live with me. she live only for her family. She living only for 2-3 year after some year she don't live with me. and don't care of me & my younger brother. not making tea/breakfast, lunch & dinner. also properly maintain house cleaning. If any relative come at our home then she don't talk/respect to my relative, also not giving tea/water. i complained to my mother-in-law for this but she also not listing me and told me that she talking samajh jayegi, abhi karne do, hum samjha denge,. she destroyed my important papers, computer system, wrist watch & many other things in house. few jewelry lost by her as per her word but i doubt on her due before this it didn't happened in our house. She called on mobile to her family and told that i am beaten her. his brother giving me warning to murder/beaten me and also distroy my life by the blaming of demand of dowry case. on 24 july 2013 she went from my home(matrimonial home)with her brother and told me she never return back and taken all the jewelry with my jewelry also (without knowledge of me). So, I submitted a complained on 25th July 2013 in our area polic station written on normal paper. Also filled RCR Section-9 of Hindu marriage act on 3rd Aug 2013. After this i am trying to found the reason of her cruel behavior. and searching the details about her. One mobile no. provided her by me after marriage, and i found a contact no. from her itemised called detail she talking on this no mostly & maximam call duration near about 1 hour. I called on that no and talk to the person and asking about him & my wife. firstly he didn't talk to me but after talking that he talk her near about one hour and u told me your don't know her, then he tald me about her phyiscal relationships(when my wife is 15 year old girl) & abusing me. So, now i don't want to live with her. And her family talking in society that i beaten her/ not giving house hold items, they filled case against me of DV & demand of dowry.
I feel that Her family already know about her behavior & relationships, So they married her with me (i am lived single without My family). I think may be she is Mentally weak but how can i found.
Please suggest what can i do to save my life & talking divorce without paying mintanance.
Ashwani (Male)
ajay sethi
(Expert) 26 August 2013
contact a local lawyer . you have to wait till November 2013 ie one year after marriage to file for divorce .
as far as maintenance s concerned if your wife is working she wont get maintenance
ajay sethi
(Expert) 26 August 2013
contest the Dv case on merits . deal with all the allegation made in complaint .
R.K Nanda
(Expert) 26 August 2013
take help of lawyer personally.
Nadeem Qureshi
(Expert) 26 August 2013
Dear Ashwani
as per my opinion you should contact a lawyer personally or over the phone for better advise
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 27 August 2013
Wait till Nov. After completion of one year you may file case of divorce. Consult a local lawyer.
ashwani
(Querist) 27 August 2013
Hi friends
thanks for better reply
i want know that my wife can file any case against me of dowry & DV at this time, it is posible or not?
ajay sethi
(Expert) 27 August 2013
yes she can file DV case and dowry harassment case against you
Guest
(Expert) 27 August 2013
Agree with experts.
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 27 August 2013
You have good case for divorce but shall have to wait till Nov 2013.
ashwani
(Querist) 17 December 2013
Dear Sir,
my wife came to home on dt.29 sep 2013. so, i withdraw the RCR on dt 22/10/2013. She had been doing good behavior with me in first two week but after this 15 days she converted her behavior as past. she abusing me & my family. saying she love any other person & she dont want to live with me by .now again she has gone to her home & also taking all jewellery & photos with marriage video/photo albums on dt.11/12/13. And i have not any evidence against him of DV what can i do for prove her cruel behavior in court. and she have also my current co. ID card. She said me he taking Maintenance from me. please help me for talking divorce from her.
And i want know that if husband has responsible for maintenance that wife has not any responsibility for husband Like making food any other household work in our house?
ashwani
