Query
pradeepsodhi
(Querist) 24 July 2013
This query is : Resolved
Hello I am 27 years old software professional working in chandigarh. I am belonging from Saharanpur Uttar Pradesh. I got married on 20 June 2013 by a girl whose age is 20 years according to which her parents told me without dowry. On first night my wife said me on bed that her age is below 18 and her parents put pressure on her to do marriage and she is not ready for sex. My wife belong from village she is only 8 pass out. Her behavior against me is so bad after marriage. On 30 June 2013 me and my wife go to one village to attend the marriage of her cousin, there is some quarrel and dispute arises me and my wife , i leave the party and my wife & return back to my home alone. My wife directly return back to her parents home . My wife also take my 6 tolas jwellery and Rs 50000 cash to her parents home. After 2-3 days i go to my in laws home where all her family members and my wife behaved me very badly and strong armed me and said she did not go my home and did not return anything to me. I give an application of the above circumstances in my police station and police did not help me. I also had a copy of an application stamped by the police station. On 12 July 2013 i again go to my in laws home to return my wife and again all of them behaved me very badly and physically and mentally harassed me.On the same day my in laws call panchayat of there village and put pressure on me to give divorcee to signed on the 10 Rs stamp paper wilynily .I signed the paper under pressure. On the next day i make a suicidal attempt to finish my life and hopitilise for 2 days because all of the above scenario very much harassed me physically and mentally.
I am not able to understand what can i do to return my wife and my jewelry and cash . I love my wife very much but my wife does not understand my emotions ,feelings and love and she is not ready to leave her parents home.I am deeply desperate because all of the above scenario happens only in one month of my matrimonial life and all of the laws are in the favor of woman.Please please please help me...............................
Thanks
Pradeep Sodhi
Dr. Jyothi Vishwanath
(Expert) 24 July 2013
First be cool. As you said that you love your wife very much, then you wait till she understands things. Right now she is too young to understand all this.
Admit that you have problem in marriage but don't lose heart that you go for committing suicide.
You are a professional. Pay attention to your work. Improve there. She will return some day. Take help of your elders at home to mediate.
No use going to police station or court since you want reconciliation.
pradeepsodhi
(Querist) 25 July 2013
Sir how long I wait to return my wife in my life. Sir i have a so much dreams about my wife but all my dreams are totally mashed. Is there any law under which i appeal in court to return my wife in my life.........
prabhakar singh
(Expert) 25 July 2013
A petition of restitution of conjugal rights can be filled by you but even then none can force her to live with you if she does not want.
Dr. Jyothi Vishwanath
(Expert) 25 July 2013
You dont want divorce. So you have to wait for her. Restitution of conjugal rights case does not really work if the party does not want to stay with spouse. These are human relations. Law cannot do anything here.
