Unofficial remarriage
Guest
(Querist) 28 December 2011
This query is : Resolved
Ours is love cum arranged marriage. But after marriage my husband's charactr turned and along with in-laws illtreated me and he deserted me. Its just less than a year f marriage. We r married 11 months back. He has applid fr divorce. I ve raised RCR, Litigation, DV act.
I stayed alone for 5 months. Now one of my colleagues approachd me n proposed me and he want to marry me. I explaind him all these cases to him. He told me he will suport me for all these cases and let it go along. We ll marry unofficially and will not regsiter our marriag untill u get divorce. He tells I can stay in his home with his parents. His parnts are suports him for me. I thoughmy husband can raise bigamy case against me which may endup without alimony also. But he stelling that since we are not registrin the marriage, he cant prove our marriage. He says that In the court I can tell that I am staying as a Paying Guest in his home if he proves that. So not a problem like that he s telling.
WIll it create any further prob? If the path correct?
sharad raghav - 9990549475
(Expert) 28 December 2011
if you really want to marry that other man and divorce proceedings has already under process as were initiated by ur ex husband then why don't u divorce him and live happly with ur new husband.listen to me very carefully law is not a game to play.......suppose in case if ur ex husband get succeed in proving bigamy than u know what u will get a chance to see jail.......
Nadeem Qureshi
(Expert) 28 December 2011
Dear Querist
if you want to live with you collegues as wife then firstly you should got divorce from him & leave your ex-husband. if you have filed complaint under section 498A Ipc or 3/4 DP Act then no need to withraw cases.( if you want to give him a lesson then)
feel free to call
Deepak Nair
(Expert) 28 December 2011
Wait for the divorce proceedings to complete. Since you have decided to remarry, there is no harm in waiting for some more time. Withdraw you RCR and give consent to divorce for speedy result. Regardign DV, i would suggest to wait for the divorce proceedings to complete and thereafter, you may decide to go ahead with it or to settle the matter out or court.
Please note that you cannot claim any maintenance if you remarry.
prabhakar singh
(Expert) 28 December 2011
No bigamy case would attract unless you marry him but in case of proof of living in his house your older husband may charge you of unchaste life,then when cases are going take the divorce contest only on alimony and let a decree be passed early.
Sanjeev
(Expert) 28 December 2011
Forget the legal part its unethical to get into such relationship. Even if legally you may get safeguarded but this would be a big mess if the colleague you thinking with withdraws later than you would feel used and would have nowhere to go.
Do the second marriage socially that is valid what if the second person backs out of this relation.
Sankaranarayanan
(Expert) 28 December 2011
All of my learned frds r given good suggestion so follow according to it
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 28 December 2011
Soon you can see your "collegue" in jail for adultery, if yr husband has a sharp lawyer. You are likley to get divorce but avoiding it and interested to hve illegal cohabitatin with stanger. In case your husband finds any proof of marriage (even if yu do not register) the you also go to jail. Do not play wioth law.
mahendrakumar
(Expert) 29 December 2011
please dont try that. Once you both leave together like husband and wife,there is every probability that he would loose his interest on you.
it is going to be a highly risky gambling of your life.
Deepak Nair
(Expert) 29 December 2011
Act prudently. If your colleage loves you sincerely, then he will wait till the cases are finished.
Take some time to decide, since you alrady have faced a difficult situation.
Shonee Kapoor
(Expert) 02 January 2012
you have been rightly advised.
Regards,
Shonee Kapoor
harassed.by.498a@gmail.com
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 02 January 2012
Your path and thinking both are wrong in the eyes of Law.
You cannot reside in closed room with another man. Paying Guest excuse do not work.
Do Legally, consulting advocate in your locality.
