Advice me regrading PWDV
Guest
(Querist) 07 December 2010
This query is : Resolved
My mother in law asked meto leave my matrimonial house due to petty fights between me & my husband.She doesn't like me and wants re marriage of my husband.I have filed a PWDV case,i don't want divorce but i cannot stay in the matrimonial house with my mother in law.I know my husband will say this that my parents are old and ill,so i cannot shift at a seperate house[ in same city] and i know court cannot force my husband to shift at a seperate house leaving his parents. But If i reside in the same house with courts protection orders ofprotection against my mother in law, My & my husband's broken relationship will never heal. Because my mother in law will have to forcefully accept me, in that situation she will never like me, and we both will never have cordial relations. And iam afraid she will again influence my husband to leave me and get divorced, and due to all this me & my husband's relationship will never grow into a happy marriage.
So if i say court that i want to live at seperate house in the same city,near by my matrimonial house,and i won't force my husband to live with me regularly,but atleast 3-4 days or may weekends,or whatever suits him. So in this manner my husband can give time to his mother also and he can live with me also,without any misunderstanding & trouble. Atleast i need a seperate shelter[house] near by my matrimonial house, and iam ready to help my husband financially regarding the house rents.
So can i request such a proposal to court ???? can court support with this ???
Can court grant this ????
adv. rajeev ( rajoo )
(Expert) 07 December 2010
This proposal can be put before the court by way of compromise.
Y V Vishweshwar Rao
(Expert) 07 December 2010
In the given Circumstances , Court will order for alternative accommodation and Rent of it -to you. There is no wrong in your proposal. It is in the interest of all the parties and to avoid unnecessary disputes and mis under standings and to continue marital Relationship ---- You can explain this to the court and pray for necessary orders.
Adv Archana Deshmukh
(Expert) 07 December 2010
It is better you first talk to your husband and arrive at a harmonious solution, becoz, you cannot force him even to visit you by any order of the court.
Guest
(Querist) 07 December 2010
Thankyou all
Uma parameswaran
(Expert) 07 December 2010
I am also supporting Adv.Archana.You can file under PWDV and during counseling you can put forward your suggestion.
Guest
(Querist) 07 December 2010
ok thanx again ! If my husband does not file for divorce, then we need and have to revive or try to revive ou marriage bt every possible way, but if hefiles divorce then i cannot force him any court orders. But till iam his wife, he need to takrcareof me as well as his parents. And if he doesn't want he can file for divorce. In this case nobdody can force eachother, i can't force my husband to stay only with me, he can't force me to stay with his mother. so their must be some balance if the marriage is to be revived.
