Want divorce in very quick time
Onlinework
(Querist) 26 November 2013
This query is : Resolved
Hi,
I am Mahindra from Mumbai. I got married on 1 year & 6 month (18th May 2012). this was an arranged marriage and we were engaged till 6 month before marriage. We don't have any children right now. We stay together in one flat but she sleeping in my bedroom and I am sleeping in hall. We don't have any physical & Sexual intercourse (unjustified separation of 5 month).
I am not working now since last 6 month. There was some issue was in my last job so I was quit that job and I told her before quit job. Last 6 month I am searching a job. She was also working but after we start little problem she also quit her job and she without inform me and my family she quit and she told us after given resignation and she given us reason there was some problem that’s why she given resignation. After quit job she as home only and she was watching on me. What I am doing. With whom I am talking. Where I am going with whom etc.…
Last 6 month some issue going on with us. My and my wife nature is not match. She always doubt on me. And she follow me every wear. She has problem if I am talking with any one either that my sister calls or any client call or any friend call. She has complaint about me to her family that not giving her my full time and care. You have time for your family and friends only. She say last 1 year I have not full fill her requirement I have not given anything to her. But whatever I can do for her I have given everything for her. She also said that this all happened as I was not a good person, used to drink and going to beer bar and having sex with that girl etc.
Always fighting and doubting, ask me take her also everywhere I go for official work or going to meet any friends etc. She used to be busy in chatting with her friends on phone. I ask her with whom you are chatting entire day she say with my sister. Morning 7.45am to mid night till 12am she is chatting continuously. She has started fought with me and always arguing with me. I was always crying in the day & night.
She is very rude and doubtful. She starts blaming me too like you love another girl or you have affair you sleep with another girl. Day and night she fight with me. Without my permission she is checking my cell and my call history and etc. She talks daily 30 minutes - 1 hrs. with her family and she is getting wrong directions from her family and my big brother & Bhabhi. My big brother and bhabhi they both are supporting to her. She is not cooking for me & not doing at house work.. And when my parents asked her to do with care or whenever they gave a proper advice, she burst in to anger and start fighting. Now she even stopped working at home, I have made her understand so much but in vain.. She put whole my family matters to her family and friends with wrong clauses added. My family and her family we seat 4 to 5 times and we discuss & convince her mutually about the same that time her parent and she say she will not do such thing again she remains good for some 2 to 3 days then suddenly she starts these issues all over again, she has started treating everyday that I will called police and all shit. Her parent also given me dhamki we are launch case against you. Etc. she and her family told me they call some 3 or 4 man to TEACH YOU A LESSON properly. She has started going to by brother house and doing her own bad activity. I really want to get separated from her and tried to convince her mutually as we both are not happy. But she says I will not leave you but ruin your life if you will not act as per her and her family. Its a kind of blackmailing directly, All Family and relatives are also proofs of her bad behavior. She fighted in front of all of them.
She is doing mental torture, physically harassment, beating etc. she is torturing me by yelling, crying, everyday.
I have Audio recording she was fighting and shouting with me. This audio can be help?
I am not earning now and I don’t have nay property in my name. My father has property his name and he is earning. My Parent who never stayed with us since marriage. Can she claim for money or property?
Please tell me can I get divorce from her, I know she will not leave me anyhow but I want to do it by law, I made our marriage certificate too and joint bank account. She is not ready to give divorce.
Pls advice or give your suggestion what is my next step. How I will get divorce with my wife.
Thanks,
R.K Nanda
(Expert) 26 November 2013
consult local lawyer.
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 26 November 2013
If Mutual consent divorce is not possible then better to file contested petition but none can comment about the time to be be consumed in the final decision of such petition.
basavaraj shiromani
(Expert) 26 November 2013
Please contact local advocate as Mr. R.K.Nanda, because your case is very sensitive
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 27 November 2013
file a suit for divorce whi9ch would not be quick unless sit turns into mutual divorce.
malipeddi jaggarao
(Expert) 27 November 2013
First of all you have to eak-out your livelihood. You can not sit idle in the home without any work or without any earnings. Money is the route cause for all the problems especially all our relations depend on this point. Once you start earning money, you will be able to face the problem and found out solution.
Second, why there is no physical relationship between you people? Your marriage is only one and half year old and you abandoned physical relationship on what count? Couple do fight in the whole day but in the night to become together. One way you are telling that your parents are not residing with you. Who else are living in your house. What is the reason that your elder brother and babhi is supporting your wife? That means there are deficiencies in you also. What will you do after giving divorce to your wife. You are young, you do not have earnings, how you will get married again? Don't jump into conclusions and first rectify yourself and expect the same from your wife's side.
malipeddi jaggarao
(Expert) 27 November 2013
First of all you have to eak-out your livelihood. You can not sit idle in the home without any work or without any earnings. Money is the route cause for all the problems especially all our relations depend on this point. Once you start earning money, you will be able to face the problem and found out solution.
Second, why there is no physical relationship between you people? Your marriage is only one and half year old and you abandoned physical relationship on what count? Couple do fight in the whole day but in the night to become together. One way you are telling that your parents are not residing with you. Who else are living in your house. What is the reason that your elder brother and babhi is supporting your wife? That means there are deficiencies in you also. What will you do after giving divorce to your wife. You are young, you do not have earnings, how you will get married again? Don't jump into conclusions and first rectify yourself and expect the same from your wife's side.
Onlinework
(Querist) 27 November 2013
Thanks for your reply.
Any expert Lawyer give me good opening.
Mr. malipeddi jaggarao Thanks for yr reply.
I have mention clearly i was working but there is some problem in my x Company that's why i have resign. now i am searching a job but not getting as per my filled. i didn't say that i am not going to ear money.
Me and my was has sexual relation before. since my marriage. we was had sex last 1 year but after issue going on and She is doing mental torture, physically harassment, beating etc. and that is to much over flow me, i don't want to continue with her that's why I don't have any physical & Sexual intercourse (unjustified separation of 5 month).
My family and her family we seat 5 to 6 times and we discuss & convince her mutually about the same that time her parent and she say she will not do such thing again she remains good for some 2 to 3 days then suddenly she starts these issues all over again, She always doubt on me. And she follow me every wear. She has problem if I am talking with any one either that my sister calls or any client call or any friend call. She has complaint about me to her family that not giving her my full time and care. You have time for your family and friends only. She say last 1 year I have not full fill her requirement I have not given anything to her. But whatever I can do for her I have given everything for her. She also said that this all happened as I was not a good person, used to drink and going to beer bar and having sex with that girl etc.
She is very rude and doubtful. She starts blaming me too like you love another girl or you have affair you sleep with another girl. Day and night she fight with me. Without my permission she is checking my cell and my call history and etc.
she has started treating everyday that I will called police and all shit. Her parent also given me dhamki we are launch case against you. Etc.
me and my family very fed up with her now. i decided i don't want to continue with her. i don't want my entire life going to heal. my family they also want me to give divorce her.
Pls advice or give your suggestion what is my next step. How I will get divorce with my wife.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 27 November 2013
you both need to consult a marriage counsellor . if situation dosent improve file for divorce on grounds of mental cruelty. please note that in mumbai contested divorces take years to be disposed of
Onlinework
(Querist) 27 November 2013
Mr. Ajay sethi.
Ok but now i don't want to continue with her. i have seen her rude and such behaviour she is now doing to much. she say her friend and my all friend i have relation with any other. with girl or may be boy etc. she don't have respect for me and she is doing over now. i don't have any felling with her also now.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 27 November 2013
good . then file for divorce .
T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate
(Expert) 27 November 2013
Even before you ask a query you have an answer for it with you. If you have decided not to listen to any one and bent upon on divorce alone and have determined to go for it, why waste time asking queries here, consult a lawyer and proceed soon.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 28 November 2013
some authors want reply which suit their intention only.
Onlinework
(Querist) 28 November 2013
Mr. T. Kalaiselvan I didn't say i don't want to listen to any one. i was reply on Mr. Ajay sethi question nothing eles.
Still i have not received any proper reply still now.
All expert Pls advice or give your suggestion what is my next step.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 28 November 2013
it is advisable for you to contact local lawyer . have detailed conference with him . pay his conference charges . then proceed .
