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25 May 2013 at 02:38
Respected Experts,
Please explain that memorandum of family settlement is required to be executed on stamp paper or is it valid on plain paper also.
Please also explain that does it requires compulsory registration to be effective for being admissible in evidence in court of law or it can be admissible without being registered.
Can it be given name of compromise deed to prevent use of stamp paper and registration.
Thanx
yuvarani.M
25 May 2013 at 01:45
Am an hindu and my husband is a muslim we got married in 2011 sep 21st through special marriage act and later we disclosed it to our parents he was thrown out of his house stating that I need to be converted.my husband pleaded me to just sign the papers as a formalities there after followed by nikka for which I told himclearly that I was doing it for his sake and I had no idea to convert.after marriage my husband got a job in gujarat and he shifted from chennai I was told tat he will take me with him after his sister marriage years went by and he visited me once in 3 mnths.after all these days I lost my patience and started questioning him abt our life and future but now my husband is threatening me to convert or he would divorce me also I was tortured badly by his parents for conversion.he would abuse me sexually am being used upby him and he would withdraw himself suddenly saying that his father did not like us getting a child.i feel that my husband is a psych but am not in a position to prove it my in laws are threatening me thatif I go to legal advice they will take me to task.my very life is in trouble now I kindly request people who read this query to help me to comeout of my husband legally please......
nandini
25 May 2013 at 01:29
Hi am nandini..born and bought up in hyd. Am from a middle class family. Like evey normal girl..i loved a guy who is also from a middle class family. Once am done with my graduation i introduced him to my mom and dad though my mom initially supported me later she got influenced by dad and she also stopped supporting me and later my dad got a proposal for me and that guy is from bangalore.... As i didnt wanted to hurt my parents with heavy heart i said ok to marry that guy....we got engaged in the month of july and marraige date was fixed for the month of november. There was a gap of 5 months and i seriously wanted to go according to my parents and marry with the guy whom they selected.
I started building a wrapo with that guy, but some where in my heart i was crying like hell because i loved someother guy and was not able to forget him and even he loved me very much and he was also suffering a lot which i came to know from his friends.
Marraige date was nearing finally i couldnt control and i bursted out and started begging my dad and mom to stop the marraige but they reacted very rudely and started blackmailing me that they will kill them selves later i tried to tell everything to the guy with whom i was engaged he also started loving me very much till that time.....as soon as i told this to him that i dont want to marry him and i love some other guy he also started crying and beggig me not to stop the marraige..... He initially told that he cant foret me later next reason he gave stating that his dad is a heart patient and if this marraige is stoped his dad's life will be in danger...15 days left for the marraige and i was in a such a pressure that didnt know wat to do....one side the guy who loved me was crying like hell and begging be not marry other side my parents pressure and on the other hand the guywith whom i got engaged was literally crying..... I came to conclusion that i should make the guy with whom i got engaged should only cancel the marraige from his heart and one day infront of my dad i told him "see i will marry u but on few conditions 1) i will not stop speaking to the person whom i love neither i can forget him sorry that i didnt tell all these things initially but still its not too late alsowe will stop this, marraige
2) Untill unless i forget him i will not be able to accept u as my husband in all ways....it may take 1year or two years.
If these conditions are ok for u then im ready to marry you.... He agreed for everythng i was blank and didnt know wat to decide and said ok for marraige.
We got married and didnt stop speaking with the guy whom iloved. Daily my husband used to suffer a lot because of this and many disturbances started
The main mistake that i did again here is as i was also not able to see my husband suffering and i was also not able live without the guy whom i loved i wanted to solve this. So i told everything to my father-inlaw everything. Iexpected some sought of positive support from him but the situation got completely changed and finally it lead to family wise disturbances..my in laws family insulted me and my parents like hell. It creared more hatred in my heart against my husband and my in laws....i was kept in my in laws place for a period of a month(it was like house arrest for me) later with great struggle they sent me to my husbands place. He thought everythng is fine and i will start loving him and will give him the husbands position which i couldnt do from my heart. But yes physicall relation ship started btweem me and my husband from that time. I concieved but faced miscarraige. I didnt stop talking with that guy i was not in a position to forget him i hided everything abt my pregnancy and miscarraige and we both used talk.... Myhusband didnt know abt this secret contact. We used to talk daily on phone. With all the past experience and family disturbances we frequently used to fight a lot and there was hell lot of disturbances in our family life later for more than a year i didnt allow my husband to touch me which again created friction btween me and my husband we were never happy and finally both decided to take mutual divorce and it happend and now i am leaving with the guys family whom i loved and their family also accepted me as they dont know anything abt me...also my husband doesnt know that i am staying with that guy...he has now started calling me and now he wants to patch up with me... But now i dont know wat to do....frankly telling i would have been very happy withmy husband if i could have stopped my contact with the other guy and now i am staying with the guy whom i love along with his family but not able to adjust with his moms mentality. As i am already in a depression not able to able to adjust with his 55 years old moms mentaliti.. I also need some happiness in my life and space in lie....i have faced soo many difficulties and want a peacefull life and now again my husband wants to cum back in mt life...... Plssssss suggest me the correct way.....
Advocate Abhijeet singh
24 May 2013 at 17:59
respected sir ,
the query is that my friends who is working in MMC solomly marriage with a girl in the march 2007 , from the very begging the girl was not good in manners, her mother always interfere of my friends house hold decision and her wife also did all type of work according to her mother. in oct 2007 her wife was pregnant and due to some mis understanding the wife went her mother home with her brother and asked I will come tomorrow . in this concern she had not came next day so my friend mother called her home regarding this her fatter refused to sent her daughter .
in June 2008 a son was born and they also refused to sent their daughter . my friend tried a lot for settlement at personal regarding his marriage life but always negative response. now in last 2009 her wife came my friend home and she was going weakly to her mother home when my friend went her home some time she came but some time she refused .
one weekend when he went her home that she refused to gone so he came back home and suddenly that night his father my uncle expired by heart attack . He inform her and she came only for a single day and went her home now from the January 2010 she is her mother home and my friend has not any contact her. tell me in this situation what should he do.
also tell me is there is applicable 498a or other domestic violence after a long gap
sir my friend want to live with her because if he will take divorce he have not money to give to her wife.
one main point is also here my friend's brother in law's marriage also same time and her wife (bhabi of friend wife ) file divorce petition in Jaipur court
Priyanka
24 May 2013 at 15:48
My husband and I got marry before one year. my husband never told me that he had an another wife and two children. after passing one year he told me this. His first wife left him 4-5 years ago and never turned back, their marriage was forcibly by their parents. children were living with my husband's parent. I still love my husband too much and he also love me too much. He want to divorce his first wife but he feel scary that will she divorce me or not. when she left my husband she threaten him to spoil his life. Plz advice us how can he got divorce from his first wife.
Maitri Gda
24 May 2013 at 11:25
WE COME TO A CASE OF ADULTERATION OF WIFE, KNOWN TO HER HUSBAND. WHAT CAN BE DONE BY HUSBAND IS THEIR ANY NGO TO PROTECT HIM. WHAT IF CLAIM ON PROPERTY OF HUSBAND IN FUTURE.
INDIAN
24 May 2013 at 00:53
All Respected , I have filed 125 and Husband HMA13 and then I gave complaint to commisioner for dowry demand . In that I stated that I w as 6 month pregnent and my husband and inlaws kept my elder son (who is of 2.5 years) forcefully and I have to come back to my parents. I have given the complaint after 7 months of my returning to my parents. IO called to my husband for reconcilation but my husband refused to do so . Now I want to know that Will the police help me to get my child back to me as my son is too small ? To whom I should meet to get my child back ? Can I meet to higher police officers of my husband residing city to help me ? Or in DV case will the hounerable court can help me to get my child back ? I heard that Mahila Ayog can help in this and to register the FIR in 498a against my husband and in laws . If so How I can approach to Mahila Ayog. Kindly help me.
Shanthi
23 May 2013 at 20:24
Hi am shanthi..
I need to help my brother who is been arrested as his wife killed her 10months daughter and killed herself today morning. My brother works and stays in bangalore. He got married forcefully by his parents and finaly started a gud life with his wife...its been 4yrs they got married. He tried his level best to make his wife happy..due to financial situations he sent his wife for delivery to his hometown UP. They got a beautiful daughter by gods grace. He used to stay in a one BHK with his colleagues..after delivery he bought his mom, wife and daughter to bangalore n took a house for them.4th day of reaching Bangalore she is not happy with the atmospher and one night she gave sleeping pills to his mom(62) and left to bangalore without informing any one with the kid. He works in BPO and h came back to home by 2:00 in the night. She went to mumbai to her ex boyfriend!!!??. Finally after convicing her they took her back to UP. He stopped talking to her..and finally she killed her own daughter and killed herself. Hence her brother filled FIR and got arrested whole family members...Am really very scared about mybrothers future and his career.
What can be done in this situation.
Please help me further to take steps.
priyanka
23 May 2013 at 18:52
hello all respected members! thanks for previous advice..after summoned for 498 and 125 cases my husband showed appearance in the honorable court, that day honorable judge asked us(me and my husband)few questions related to dispute and my estimate for maintenance..and then asked for mediation which both of us rejected simultaneously...now my husband is asked by the court to submit his reply with in three days...which he is going to submit tomorrow. ques:1- what is going to happen next? 2-do i need to sign somewhere in acceptance of his reply? as everything is written in Gujarati cause i am in Gujarat state...so if it is so..i will take someone who knows the language well. 3-the date of nxt hearing is already given to us...which is within 10 days of the submission of the reply by my husband.kindly tell me what is going to happen tomorrow..?
kindly tell me soon!
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