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Kamal   08 August 2013 at 00:57

My wife dont like to stay with me due to pressure from her mother

I married 5 years back. First one year, I lived with my wife in a rented house. The same city, wife house located. We are both employed. First one year was happy. When she leave to her home for delivery, she and her parents invited me to live in their home. Two years, I lived in her house with her parents and her brother.

Problems started soon, when we started living in her home. I could observed that my wife behaviour to me was so rude with the presence of her parents. She started to scolding without specific major causes. She started to sleep with her mother in night. After midnight (1pm) she arrive to bedroom and sleep again. Her parents encouraged her. She was reluctant to visit my home in my native place and bring kid to my home. My wifes mother started to put her nose in our personal matters too. I felt so irritated. I warned her against it, but no use.

My wife got mothers share of property and We build a home there. The property is near to wifes home. We both shared money and build home.

In that moment, I got another job and shifted to my native place. Wife stayed at her home. At that time they rented the home without informing me. They didnt informed me anything about advance amount and rent etc. All things controlled by her parents. I visited two or three times in a week to wife and kid. She started quarrel these days.

After one year her job shifted near to my native place. We started living in my home with my mother and father. Our kid started to go to a school near my home. After one month, she started quarrel by complaining about travelling problems to her office. Her office is 25 km from home and lot of buses to that place. She complained to her parents and they come bring back kid and my wife. She started to stay in a hostel near her office. And stopped all communications. After 3 months, we compromised through a friend. She demanded that, rent a house near her office and stay together. I rented a home near her office and started living. That time she got pregnant and her parents started to visit home to take care her matter. At that time, she again started to hate me in the presence of her parents. I found that, her mother give her lot of mental pressure. As the result, she behaves cruel to me. She aborted 4th month and went to her home by taking medical leave. I visited her home and meet her frequently when she is taking rest. Few months before the end of medical leave, she telephoned me and told that, she will not return to the rented house and asked me to vacate the house. She also asked me to dont try to contact me her again. If anything to talk, contact with her parents. She started to commute from her home to her office (150 km one side by train). She terminated all communications with me last 3 months. Kid (4yrs) also reluctant to call me.

My father tried to talk with her parents when she left my home first time. Then, they used bad words to my father. So he is reluctant to talk with her parents again. I am in a dilemma. I strongly think that, her mother give pressure on my wife so she act according their decision. Her father has no voice in the home. He is a silent man.

I am in a dilemma, what I do?

Kumarsirik   07 August 2013 at 23:06

Divorce petition with civility

If a woman wants avoid humiliation to her in-laws through cases under sections 498a, 406 etc that require arrest or detention or involvement of police, yet, she wants to get divorce, justice and compensation due to her husbands acts that are not very criminal in nature what can she do?

Such as husband mistrusted her, is irregular in performing intercourse, concealed facts from his past that have deep impact on the health of the relationship. Unlike acts of husbands who endanger spouse physically, who should be dealt with harshly and immediately, these issues in marriage do not require extreme measures like police arriving at door steps of the matrimonial house causing humiliation and loss of pride in the soceity in addition to the verbal harassment the bridegroom family shall face in the hands of the police in addition to the remand for few days.

Rakesh Malik   07 August 2013 at 22:32

Maintenance for wife

My wife is mba. I have filed divorce case after one month of marriage. We never consummate the marriage. So I have filed for null and void marriage case.

She was working before marriage and was earning more then me. After marriage she is not working.

In mediation the mediator told me that as I have filed the case, court can ask me to pay 50% of my salary as maintenance to my wife. My father is retired govt. employee. My mother is a government employee. We have our own home. We are two brother sister and my sister is married. Sir I have no liability.

My wife also want divorce but she is asking for 15 lakh as compensation.

How much maintenance she is entited for?

Member (Account Deleted)   07 August 2013 at 20:21

Girl family creating a problem in marriage

ME AND MY FRIEND WANTS TO GET MARRIED BUT GIRL FATHER IS NOT READY FOR IT AS I AM A BRAHMAN AND GIRL IS SRIVASTAVA.NOW SITUTATION IS THAT GIRLS FATHER HAS TAKEN THE GIRL BACK TO LUCKNOW FROM NOIDA AND HE IS NOT ALLOWING THE GIRL TO MOVE OUT OF THE HOUSE.GIRL FATHER HAS ALSO TAKEN HER MOBILE LAPTOP AND EVERY MEANS OF COMMUNICATION FROM WHICH SHE CAN CONTACT ME.I GOT A CALL FROM HER LAST MONDAY FROM A LOCAL PCO OF LUCKNOW SHE WAS CRYING AND UPDATED ME THE SCENE WHICH I HAVE DISCLOSED IN THE BEGINNING OF THIS QUERY.SHE ALSO SAID THAT SHE IS BEEN BEATEN EVERY DAY BY HER DADA AND BROTHER.WE LUV EACH OTHER WANT TO GET MARRIED PLEASE UPDATE WHAT TO DO .MY FAMILY MEMBERS APPROACHED GIRL FATHER BUT HE REFUSED TO TALK ON THIS MATTER.......PLEASE UPDATE WAT TO DO

Sadhana Patil   07 August 2013 at 14:25

Daughters rights in their fathers property (ancestral) when father is alive

Dear Sir/Madam

Mr. Ram was the owner of the property and after his death the property devolved among his four sons Ajay, Vijay, Ravi, Rajesh.

All four sons sold the (ancestral property) property through Development Agreement. According D.A. each son posses 2 Flats on the land in the constructed building, and Rs.16 lacs each.

Mr. Ajay distributed his share (ancestral property) means 2 flats and Rs.16 lacs between him and his two sons and Mr. Ajay is alive.

When Mr. Ajay's daughters came to know about the said distribution, the daughters are demanding their rights in their fathers share (ancestral property) .

My question is when Mr.Ajay is alive can the daughters of Mr.Ajay ask for their share in the Ancestral Property.

Pooja Chopra   07 August 2013 at 12:12

Divorce on the basis of adultery

I have found multiple evidences that my husband has been seeking sex with other men from the time that we got engaged till April- May. I do not have any recent evidences of the same. However all this evidence is in form of Chats and pages that he has visited. He is also registered on a gay site. I know of a couple of instances when he has lied to me.

If I want to file for divorce basis this then is this evidence enough? How do you go about doing this? What is the fees that I will need to pay to the counsel?

TARUN KOHLI   06 August 2013 at 23:12

Right of married daughter in absence of father's will

MY FRIEND IS HINDU BY RELIGION.HIS FATHER-IN-LAW WHO WAS IN HIS OWN BUSINESS EXPIRED IN APR'13. 5 YEARS BACK HIS MOTHER-IN-LAW ALSO HAD EXPIRED. NOW HIS WIFE & HER YOUNGER SISTER WERE TOLD BY THEIR ELDER BROTHER THAT NO WILL WAS CREATED BY THEM. KINDLY ADVICE WHAT ARE RIGHTS OF MARRIED DAUGHTERS IN ABOVE CASE & HOW HE CAN PREVENT THEIR BROTHER FROM MISUSING THEIR PARENTS FUNDS/ASSETS.WE SUSPECT HE IS HIDING SOMETHING, PROBABLY INCLUDING A WILL & IS THERE ANY WAY HE CAN PREVENT HIM FROM MISUSING THIS SITUATION TO HIS FAVOUR-INCLUDING OPERATION OF THEIR PARENTS LOCKERS, BANK ACCOUNTS, JEWELLERY, PROPERTY ETC.

KINDLY ADVICE.

THANKS IN ADVANCE.

Rosy   06 August 2013 at 22:44

498a, 406 & dv act

my brother wife registered FIR against My family. after dsp investigation 4 members released by police. police was arrested my brother. we apply for bail at narwan (Haryana). my sister in law in police at panipat. we have so many evidence. I would like fight against misuse of 498a & others acts in Punjab Haryana high court. plz guide us & suggest me best lawyer in Punjab Haryana high court.

Sujith   06 August 2013 at 17:02

Domestic violence

Dear Sir,
I got married on 08.4.12 according to the Hindu rites and ceremonies in presence of respectable persons of the society of bothsides at Mannurkavu Devi Temple, Mynagapally, kerala.The Behavior of my wife was very violent, Temperament and indifferent towards me and my family members since very beginning, she never tried to adjust herself in my home. After some days of engagement she started sending messages and phone calls to me stating that “Your brother become an engineer and your parents are giving the expenses for the studies. so you ask your property from your parents. So that after marriage we can live separately. This demand is continuing till date.
After marriage my Father-in Law Mr.Radhakrishna Pillai,and my Brother Law Mr.Reji Krishnan started threatening me for breaking my legs by giving Quotation to a guy called “Popular Anil” by paying him an amount of Rs.2000/-If I wouldn’t take the share of my property from my parents. They always tried to trap me. And when I asked my wife to change her behavior towards me then she always abusive and insulted. Some days after marriage my wife remeya started quarrelling with me and told me that “Your brother would become and engineer and your parents are giving the expenses for his studies. Hence you ask your share including the money spent on the studies of your brother so that we can live at with my wives place at Delhi as “Gharjawai” otherwise she will inform her brother and father and they will arrange “Popular Anil” for breaking my legs by paying him some amount. After Marriage she used to make phone calls for minimum 16 hours per day with her parents. I had some doubt and started recording the conversation between my wife and her family members.Thier planning was to kill me by giving poison and after they wanted to take the share of mine. Once her father told her to treat me as mental person and after having two kids they will beat me and keep me side with the help of children and take over the whole share of me so that they can live a well settled life style. once she asked her brother that “Reji jo mein msg tujhe bhej rahi hu wo apne mobile mein save karke rakhna kyonki papane bola hai ki hum sujith ko phasana chahte hain”.once she told her brother that “Reji tu kya sujith ko pitwa sakta hain kya”in response to that reji answered her that”tu bola aj pitwa du lekin phir tujhe bina pati ke rehna padega”The sound recordings are with me. On 05.06.12 she started quarrelling with my family members, there after we took a rented room at fruit garden,NH-V,Nit Faridabad but the behavior of my wife was very cruel and put pressure on me for purchasing cooler,fridge,tv then I told my wife that iam arranging each and everything one by one, please give me some time. On 14.06.12 she told me to finish up the office and come early at home came at the rented house after finishing my office then she became very violent towards me due to the loose temperament she lost her control and putt off her clothes,upon which I receded to the land lady,she came along with me and asked my why she is misbehaving and mistreating with me?Then my wife told to the landlady “Aunty””sujith 10 hajar rupey hi kamata hai or mai dusri shaadi karungi”upon which the landlady told her”jab dusri shaadi hi karni thi to tune kyon kari yeh shaadi”
There after I made a call to to my wife’s uncle Sh.Ashok kumar to come at Faridabad for settling the dispute. Then he came in the late night and took my wife from the rented house. The fictitious complaint has been made by my wife before the police authorities of police post,sector 21-D Faridabad. Where a compromise has been occurred on 16.06.12 and the entire gold articles along with air conditioner etc were taken by my wife in the presence o police and relatives. The copy of the compromise and photographs are with me. The said compromise was duly signed by my wife and her family members. It was also settled in the above mentioned compromise i.e. if the views of my wife and me will not come on a single platform within 3 months then she will file a divorce petion.she made cruelty towards me by concealing the pregnancy of her for two months. When I visited the house of her after knowing about her pregnancy. She herself, her father and brother made threatening calls to me in spite of my repeated invitation to return back.
After that from july’12 onwards she herself, her father, brother and mother started threatening calls to me that they will arrange “gundas” to cut me into pieces. On july 12 her brother made a call to me and told me that”Agar tu apne gharse share leke humare sath nahi rehega to mein tera bache ko remeya ke stomach mein hi khatam kardunga”
On 23.2.13 it was informed by Mr.Ashokan the uncle of my wife that she has given birth to a baby boy. My wife and he parents behaved so cruelly that they never informed about the same neither to me and nor to my parents. But hearing the news of the birth of the baby from Mr.Ashokan neglecting all the threats from my-in-laws I rushed to the hospital satyam medical center katwaria sarai to see my junior along with my 2 friends and took photograph of my baby. After that I told her that I will be back to take her and baby to my house. But she refused to do so and told me that never come to see the baby otherwise she will smash me on my face by chappal.her father told me that”sujith you have to obey as we like otherwise your babies future will be in orphanage”
Now she filed a domestic violence case against me and my family. After filing case also she give me miscalls and when I respond to her calls she along with her parents abusing me and threatening me that they will arrange guys to kill me and my family at saket district court where the case is hearing.Her brother told me that”saket court mein a tu or tera gharwale wahi tum logo ko khatam karunga”My father is a retired person and he is having Bp and sugar.Mr.Reji brother of my wife used to send ugly sms to my fathers mobile and he used to call my father and him due to the behavior of Mr.Reji My Fathers BP and Sugar control is going high due to which my father had to leave to kerala.
On 16.07.13 I got a Miscall from My wife’s cell number 9953497400 and when I call back to that number my wife’s brother and father told me that “we will kill you and your family and we will see you at saket court complex “After that incident also she and her family threatening me from various cell numbers:-9873320892,9654270429,9953497400.My son is also not safe in their hands because her brother and father also threatened me that “we will send your son to Orphanage.
Now on the first hearing the judge ordered me to give her 4000 monthly as a interim maintenance which I didn’t paid yet.
So dear experts pls let me know what happened in these situation and wat will be the verdict for me in court.And how many years will I have to spend in jail.

Amit   06 August 2013 at 11:08

House under litigation by dvc

Hi,

My divorce case, filed by me, is going on. My wife in return filed several other cases, DVC one among them.

I have a house on my name, purchased long before marriage on my own and we (me and my wife) never lived in that house.
My wife got an ex-parte interim injunction against selling the house. Order was sent to me and the sub-registrar.
DVC case started and a residential order was passed asking me pay her rent. The original ex-parte order was set aside since it was never a "shared house" as envisioned under DVC.
My wife appealed against it and the sessions court is about to dismiss it (haven't got the order yet).

If my wife does not go to high court, I'd like to sell this house. How should I go about this?
(1) Do I need to get the order sent to sub-registrar that the original order has been revoked? How will the sub-registrar know that the order was revoked or should I simply sell the house and when questioned by sub-registrar, show him the order?
(2) If I sell the house, can my wife later claim that the house sold deliberately and claim financial compensation?