Anonymous
25 November 2010 at 19:23
i want to continue my marriage but iam not able to do so, as my husband is not supporting me at all. we lived in a joint family & my mother in law is very jealous of me, and she ill treated me, so i wanted to shift with my husband,but my husband didn't allow me and asked me to leave his house. I have tried reconciliation and counselling but it didn't work. so now i have filed a case of section 125 crpc, because my husband is not supporting me at all, i love him and want to stay with him but not with the joint accomodation where my mother in law lives. I have sent so many emails to mu husband but he doesn't respond me. i have no demand for property etc but now iam afraid that they will put false charges on me to get divorce. i don't want to go for the reconjugal rights as it has already failed. so guide me, i have filed section 125 crpc for maintenance, and iam expecting their will be some kind of counselling in court, i don't want to break this marriage, and iam trying my best to convince my husband through emails which he doesn't answer at all & i have already filed a case, so i want to know my whether my emails can create any problem or so in court??? that i want maintenance and at the same time iam trying to convince him to keep this marriage and not to break it. can it make a problem ?????
Anonymous
25 November 2010 at 19:11
I have filed a case of section 125 crpc maintenance on my husband, my case hearing is dated in december last week. But my husband in punjab and iam in gujrat. so i want to know,that if my husband doesn't appear in court on date of hearing, and how many hearings he can skip in section 125 crpc ??? Court gives how many chances,and still if the person doesn't appear then does court takes any action ??? and if yes what is it ???? Basically i want to know how long my husband can restrain himself from apprearing in court at gujrat for this case ???? Please tell me ?
Anonymous
25 November 2010 at 18:58
i have filed a complaint 498a against my in laws and d.v. further but due to some problem both time many contradictions in my own statements are given but now its come to my knowledge that my husband is planning to file criminal cases against me i know that i cannot prove my allegations because its all false. court has recently allowed me interim maintenance. my husband has given statement that he is ready to take me for home. but such word did not worked on court view.
i know that it is total false case i regret for this but my lawyer forcing me to run the case and i will win the case.
if my husband gives complaint against me what can i do where lawyer has written that on oath all information is true and correct.
honest jai12
25 November 2010 at 18:37
Hi,
The judge has granted divorce based on a compromise decree with the father-in-law because the wife has permanent unsoundness of mind.
Based on that terms
the husband needs to pay a specified amount of monthly maintenance.
Also the husband needs to maintain a security deposit in Husbands and father-in-laws joint name till the death of the wife. This is to cover-up for the default of above maintenance. After wife’s death the amount will go to the husband.
In this case the consent terms is silent about the interest on the FD, though while discussing with the counselor, the husband mentioned that let the interest flow directly to the father-in-laws account and balance of maintenance he will pay by way of credit to father-in-laws bank account. The father-in-law agreed to this and was also happy about it. Also the father-in-laws lawyer said that it is a good idea since it will even reduce the husbands burden.
To this the counselor mentioned that both of you decide about this and no need to mention it here.
Question as below:
- Can there be confusion and dispute about the right of interest amount in future?
- In case of bank and post office deposit, interest is which holders legal right ? does only the first holder have the legal right to interest?
- Will it be possible to add an additional term before the final order in this case? This term will clarify that the interest will flow to father-in-laws account and the husband’s burden of maintenance will reduce to that extent. How could this be done. Will the judge get annoyed by this and may not allow the change? It is a compromise decree...
This will also help from tax point of view.
Kindly consider this urgent..
Anonymous
25 November 2010 at 13:56
I am a mid-level professional and got married a year back with a girl of village background. The tone of my wife got changed a lot after she became pregnant.
I never ill-treated her for anything and live separately from my parents. She got all the comforts of life and never put her under trouble. I shop for all the grocery, clothes, medicines and entertainment after I found she is a spendthrift. I am also providing her some decent pocket money. Now she accuses me of being a miser and demands me to give her large amount of money everymonth. She troubles me by thinking herself that all the money I earn is given to my parents and she feels highly insecure about her life. She blames my old parents although they do not have any role to play here - indeed they visit very few times every month to my house.
She started propagated bad about me to her family members, neighbors and now threatens to leave me after child birth. I am suspecting that she has some ill-intentions as I am a successfull professional and of straight forward nature.
In case if she throws me a case, what I need to do to protect myself? Is it compulsory by law that I need to provide wife some portion of salary everymonth by demand? In case if I file a divorce petition, how much maintenance amount I need to provide to her? I do not want to go to the last solution, but I am in deep mental agony by the daily humiliation caused by her since an year and need some decent remedy for the same.
helpjusticewin
25 November 2010 at 00:00
Respected Sir / Madam,
The question i am asking is to save my marital life
I have been appearing as party in person in the family court since the last 1 year
Even before the expiry of 6 months of marriage, my husband filed permission for dissolution of marriage, which subsequently was dismissed as not maintainable
I have so far not filed any counter
At this stage, 2 months back fresh petition for divorce has been filed by my husband's counsel
I have evidences to prove that the case is baseless and ficticious and it was at the insistence of my in-laws the same has been done by my husband, also i have prepared extensive counter for the same
The pre litigation process of counselling, special psyciataric counselling etc has been attended by myself and my husband during my pregnancy , and after that too..
Now given the scenario, i have asked the hon'ble judge to give me time for filing the counter.
How soon will the case be called for trial once my side counter is filed
What is the process?
Since 11 hearings have already elapsed and 9 counsellings are over, i want to know answers for my 3 below mentioned questions:
Q1. How soon will the case be called for a trial for me to prove my statements mentioned on the counter
Q2.Is there any procedure for expediting the process.
Q3. What exactly is the procedure for filing the counter as party in person - which forms or any other documents do i have to submit at the court for the same?
Thanks for your time
Regards,
Help Justice Win
Gaurav
24 November 2010 at 20:42
Hello Sir,
Today, I had first date at CAW cell. There my wife started putting all false allegations on me & my family, regarding dowry and physical torture.
I also clarified to them that she is putting false allegations.
There the Inspector asked me to give whatever I am saying in writing. I refused to give in writing.
Pls suggest I did right or wrong.
Anonymous
24 November 2010 at 20:32
Dear sir,
My wife filed DV in Dec.2007, on the first date of hearing, during proceeding, judge sahib asked me that your wife has claimed Rs.1600/-PM in her petition for the child, now your tell me what can u do for your son. I told that i am ready to pay the complete amount but i should be able to meet my son on every date of hearing in the court. The judge sahib has passed that order that petitioner has to brfing the child on the next date of hearing and the order was repeated. But after that hearing the judgesahib could pass any order because of heavy rush as he stated in order. From that day onwards, she didnot turn up in the court for a year till Sep.2009. But in between i filed a petition for custody of my child as well as visitation rights in Dec.2008, but respondent reply only for the custody case that to after nine months and for visitation till date she did not reply. Even then i put up an application for the deceision on my application. Since last six months , she didnot replied for that and i met my child only twice a year before that too on my request and even after the order dated 14-12-2009, she dnot brought the child till last order not she replied for my application. She came on 20th of this month with the child with reply to my application, asthe new judge sahib was there, she told him that child donot want to meet his father who is hardly 8 years old, even after my many request i met the child for only ten minutes and after that judge sahib also told i canot compl the child to meet you, as he is not agree. When i told that she has not repled to my application since last two years. Now he told it is not required. and passed the order accordingly
Kindly advice me what i have to do now, can i appeal in the hight court , will it liston to me as i cannot live without my son. I got too much love and affection for him and i am paying his complete school fee , stationery as well as his uniform and transportation charges. One way court has put this responsibuility on me and other hand they are refusing my right to meet my son.
With regards
sabnamzadi
24 November 2010 at 15:11
Sir,
Our two case is running in Aligarh due to pressure & threatening we want to transfer our case out of Aligarh.
I would like to know that how much fee will be required in case transferring of both case i.e. 125 & DV & what type documents required for tranferring the case and also request kindly quote an advocate address who can tranfer our case out of aligarh.
Thanking you sir
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need help regarding divorce
Respected sir,
Can a person file divorce petition in trial court as a layman/as a person
undeer section 13(a)