Anonymous
06 March 2011 at 21:21
I'm contesting Annulment/Divorce petition filed by wife on my impotency as main ground just one month after marriage. I've also filed RCR and filed counter just denying all allegations. Counselling failed, and in her evidence session, which is going on, she somehow submitted virginity test report. Now,ater two years, rcr has been posted for lok-adalat and divorce for settlement. After all these developments I don't want to continue this relation but just want to negate her impotency allegation in court by medical checkup. In this context, please help me to clear the given below doubts.
a) Anything wrong, if I refuse to go for impotency test without order from court on application for the same from her side?
b) Does submitting virginity test result on her own, gives her right to force me to go for impotency test on my own?
c) If impotency test result favours me, can she change her stand and be ready to come back? If yes, how should I move to get divorce in such a situation?
Anonymous
06 March 2011 at 15:20
Dear Experts
Thanks for advice but my husband has not even spoken to me in last 2 months even via phone,my inlaws have conveyed there intentions in family meeting that they want seperation only and husband has filed complaint against me with SHO,cc ACP,DCP stating that i have tried committing suicide many times and may register false and frivilous cases against him and his parents ,now should i sit silent in case i dnt want to fight cases in court or it is necessary to take some action to safegaurd myself.Will this complaint which he has filed have any negative impact on me???
and also suggest is it necessary for me to appear in court where he has filed divorce,is divorce granted on petition of 1 party even other party doesnt attend court
Member (Account Deleted)
06 March 2011 at 13:24
I (male)in big trouble that my wife made false case without knowing me.
So when I came to know I am going to put vakalath and also appeal.
My question is what next step should be taken?
Anonymous
06 March 2011 at 11:08
In August 2010, my wife went to live with her mother for sixth or seventh time in twelve years of married life.
After one week, I went with my parents and relatives to her mother and brought back my wife and 10 years old daughter.
I came to know that in that one week, one of my SAALI (sister in law) took my wife to an NGO and gave written complaint against me .
I had said sorry to all in house of my mother in law when I went to take my wife and daughter back.
But, seven months have passed. Three councelling sessions have been done at NGO office FOR me and my wife . Last session was before DIWALI in 2010.
They are sympathetic towards me and angry by attitude of my wife ( MY WIFE HAS SIX SISTERS AND THREE BROTHERS).ALL OF THEM INTERFERE IN MY MARRIED LIFE BUT DO NOT ADMIT IT but it is an open fact to whole society.
On first councelling session in NGO, Me and my parents signed on the draft paper made by NGO, but my saali ordered my wife not to sign.
My wife did not sign saying her once divorced, now secondly married DIDI has read draft agreement . It says husband will not do this and wife won't do that in future.
She concluded that signing that paper will mean that in past she was doing those wrong things.
Case is still open before NGO for domestic violence.
NGO staff appreciates me on each councelling session for not beating my wife.
Then they start giving lecture to my wife for one or two hours. They have told me that if I tell minus points of my wife, dispute will increase. So they ask me to sit silently and make my wife feel ashamed by giving lot of lectures.My wife does not like them any more and does not dare to contact them anymore.
BUT THE CASE IS STILL OPEN IN NGO.
They did not give any complaint copy or any paper, just said that when dispute will be finished, they will give every thing to us which will make us feel ashamed.
For how much time can the case be kept open by NGO ? They are of opinion that husband is like female nature and wife is like male nature .
Anonymous
06 March 2011 at 01:46
Dear Experts
I got married 2 years back ,though mine was arranged marraige inlaws were never supportive and started provoking my husband to get seperated just after fewmonths of marriage ,my inlaws are greedy fellows running only after my husbands money and have no emotional attachment with him also.somehow i managed to stay wiht him for 2 years even after constant interference from his parents and all relatives but he has left me with any info 2 months back and has my parents dnt provide me his contact no,though they are in constant touch with him.He has also filed complaint with SHO mentioning false allegations.Also i have heard he has filed case of divorce.What should i do to save myself???
S.B _Kolkata
05 March 2011 at 23:49
Dear All Advisor.
I got married in June 2008 and stayed 01 year with my wife but separated from my parents. I have only daughter of 1.5 years old and since from the last 1.9 years they are willingly staying at her parent's house. Already she has started to accused us by sending false fabricated sms. After our several request she doesn't want to come back and stay at her matrimonial house.
Her parents are also very keen to be isolated me from my parentsa as their greedy daughter wants to be. During our togather stay it was carefully observed by me that she is not fit for family life in every ways and means. How ever as on today my basic aim is to save my old poor parents from any kind of harasment by the gender biased law. And also to get rid of this relationship.
But I'll have to loose my daughter and that is my only weakness. Please advise me that how to get start fight with them. Though every month I am sending her money, sent her 03 nos letter with AD for her comeback, but they are here only to extort money from us. What are the step to be taken immediately, please advise....
Anonymous
05 March 2011 at 21:22
u/s 13 a case was filed for divorce after that was amend u/s 12 on the ground that before marriage the respondent was a psychiatrist patient (schizophrenic,strong medical documents are in support) and the disease seems not to be curable the petitioner give the respondent a treatment of 5 years but which has no result.in this case does the respondent is able to get maintenance if the marriage declared void & what responsibility become to the petitioner.
ashish arora
05 March 2011 at 12:23
i got married in Dec 2009, and everything was fine. after six months my wife started to tell me that she does not want to stay with my mom. My father expired in 2006 and my mom is 62yrs old.
her parents supports her and also put pressure on me. finally they called her home as they told me that her friend is getting married, so she took some cash, jewellery and I have booked her on air through card as she was carrying valuables. On reaching there she filed a complaint against me & my family 498a and 406. We got a call from their Police station. please advise what precautionary methods we should take.
please revert
Shujjat Ali A Khan
05 March 2011 at 11:36
Hi,
My name is Shujjat and am from Mumbai.
I had a divorce in 2008. Me and my wife setled the case with a joint custody of my child Sami who is now 7 yrs and 9 months old with the physical custody with my wife as he was a minor then in 2008. I had access on alternate weekeneds from Friday eve till Sunday eve to pick and drop him from his soc address along with halfof all school vacations and muslim religious festivals only. Till mid 2010 things seemed ok with not much challenges in meeting my child as soon after divorce my wife said that she wants to come back and tat she is starting her own nursery and i need to help her. I did everything for her right from investing time and money in setting up her place. Once it was done she denied coming back. Till Aug' 10 things semed ok with not much challenges to met my son hwever there were a lot of times i had to lie low but suddenly she got married to another muslim without her moms consent in March' 10. Since then i was having difficulties getting access as according to her mom her hubby does not want it. She has stopped talking directly with me and all correspondence happens through her mom. In between she changed her residence and also changed her cell number without informing me but i some how managedto track her new residence. Now since late Aug' 10 i am not allowed to meet the child at all till date. I did try to speak with her and i took local police asssitance to intervene to avoid any false allegations as i went to talk to hwer at her new rental residence. She denied speaking to me and told the constable to ask me to file a case if i want to meet my child. She also made her hubby visit to the local police station to address our complaint. I know for sure that my son is not atall happy there and she is very well aware about it and so she want to disconect this attachement of my son from me.
I spoke to her mom and she said that she cannot do anything and she would advise not to interfere in their life as his hubby may get you killed or get you locked up in som false criminal case as either his father is in police orthey are not the right type people.
I am not worried about my life but yes am very worriesd for my sonwho is forced to live in a place where he doesn want to be coz he used to keep tellig me that he is very unhappy as these tw keep fighting always and even wen they are out he is made to wait alone in the car as they shop out together and he is very scared that time.
Please advise wat and how should i tackle this and wat alternatives do i have.
Thanks
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