Anonymous
15 May 2011 at 16:08
Dear Sir.,
My name Santhosh I am from Bangalore from past 2 years I was facing lot of problem in my family my wife was having affair with someone, I have discussed for several times in polite way it doesn’t worked our parents discussed with there parents and finally came to a conclusion to pay maintenance charges as 7000 per month it was documented in a white paper and finally I started seeing my root I got married with other girl and I applied divorce to my ex wife now she and her parents started acting smart they placed complaint in the police station. I have submitted to my lawyer all related documents as discussed in my divorce notice please guide me how to close this issue.
Detail on my first marriage
She is my Fathers brothers Daughter
She, my sister nithya & my Grand Mother came to Bangalore; I have not seen her before, I have taken them to a big temple including my brothers wife & my mother. If some relative come to ur home the way how all treat the same way we also treat, they where stayed here for more then 15 days.
I dint found any kind of wrong attitude way from her after that they gone back to there place, I was started getting calls from her once in a month, Even that time I dint find any different way from her talk. The last Call which I received she told that I am affair on u, I am leaving house on this day ( Some Day ) , I will b reaching here to other part of tamilnadu u need to come and pick me r I will b not able to go back and I will b not able to reach searching u in Bangalore. When she started saying this I on the speaker call my friend Padayappa was with me and she suddenly disconnected the call, I re tried for the same number but it was from the std booth and she was not there.
We (Friends) discussed and came to a conclusion to go to the place because she is a girl. Second time I am going to that village in my life and this my first time going alone and I met a accident in namakal, I reached there 4 hours late due to bus accident, when I saw her first I gone to a std booth I called my friend he seed try to convince and drop r send her back if not possible bring her, I tried a lot to convince but I am not able to do it and I asked the reason y the things like this there was no replay she blackmailed me, suddenly she scared me she seed some one can reach here searching me we both will b in problem, I scared and brought her.
I stayed in my friends room for more then three months total 13 peoples was staying there every day we I was fighting with her for reason, there was no more options, there was no other way – come to know I got fucked.
I stayed in my friends room for more then three months total 13 peoples was staying there every day we I was fighting with her for reason, there was no more options, there was no other way – come to know I got fucked.
Then I started my life with her for past 3 years
I was working for out stations and started getting calls from house owners and Nabors saying she is having affair with some one please vacate the place I dint believe and I dint take serious the house owner started calling my parents and I forced to change my house in every places the problem continued finally I shifted with my parents she was not there for single month also she came separately I advised her a lot but she dint take it one day I myself saw the things that I decided the above paragraph.
PLEASE I REQUEST BEG HELP ME TO COME OUT OF THIS
Today I am not able to prove all house owners are her side I don’t know what she did now I am standing in middle of the road and I have a girl kid she is effected because of this and I married a loved girl she is effected her parents are not accepting me they r very clear asking me to close the issue and then take my loved wife…………
I like to keep my parents happy they have suffered a lot because of these things
I need to come out of this please help me
Please help me to Wipe My tears
Anonymous
15 May 2011 at 10:51
hello all,
i am in love with a girl of Brahmin cast and my cast is kayastha.
we both want to marry.we are adult and working in IT company .
but the main problem is girls father is not agree to this .
But my parents are agree.Her father is threatening me that he will create fake case on me with the help of his lawyer brother .i am very afraid please tell me what to do .
i want to merry her .
Advocate Abhijeet singh
15 May 2011 at 09:44
sir
greeting of the day
my query is
if any person died with out any will tell me who will be the next owner of property . (under hinu )
who are the legal heir sir
Anonymous
15 May 2011 at 00:17
I was married 6yrs back. Her mental health was not disclosed at that time and she suffered from acute psychosis. Her behavior was never good with me and my family. We tried to get her treated in the initial stage at hospital but she refused to go to hospital. When i told her parents about her behavior towards me and my family her father threatened me that his younger brother is a lawyer and will put me behind the bar if i think of divorce and one and half year back she left my house and started staying with her parents and we are not in touch since than. Last year mid i filled for divorce in court under sec 13 (1) (ia) and 13 (1) (iii). After which she filled a case under 498a and 406. I could get anticipatory bail for my parents from High court however on returning her articles during interim bail as ordered by High court, my anticipatory bail was rejected. Presently i have got interim bail of 8 weeks from Supreme court and anticipatory bail may be granted after hearing both parties for which notification has been sent to other party. In divorce case first notice was returned to court stating that she is not at home. after which two more dates have gone but nobody from her side is appearing in the court. On 21 May 11 is the fourth hearing date. It is requested to advice what should be done if nobody appears in the court from her side and after how many hearings if other party doesn't turn up, ex-party decision of publication/fixation decision is given . Please advice in regard to ex-party decision/publication/fixation. I and my ailing parents have already suffered due to all this. Please advice
Anonymous
14 May 2011 at 15:00
Dear Sir,I whole heartedly thank all of you for giving your valuable advise.
This incidance of physical relationship happened in various resorts.
This boy is staying in a district & the girl & the mahila sangam is at city.
Kindly advise me where to lodge F.I.R.
In city or the district where the boy is staying.
Once again I thank all of you & request you to extend your kind co-operation as & when needed.
With respects & regards,
Venugopal.
venu
13 May 2011 at 19:40
Dear sir,my freiend's son is 27 years old & he is a doctor. He was in love with a girl for the last 4 years,inclusive of physical relationship with the girl with mutual conscent with necessary precautions. before 4 months girl refuse to marry him & last month she called him again & he was taken to a local mahila sangam. There in presence of 10 onknown people,he was forced to sign on a 10/rs non-judicary paper that he will give assurance to marry her. My queries are as follows. 1.Since both of them belong to differant communities boys parents are not willing for this wedding. 2.In case they force him to get married i think this would be a troubled marriage. 3.After marriage can the boy seek for divorce with out performing the consummation ceremony officially. 4.in case he files a for a divorce,can he get a divorce.What would be the time frame. 5.With out performing the marriage,can he escape paying her some compensation. His whole family is in distress. Please advise me what can be done. Intimate relationship of both of them was with mutual consent. Please send your valuble advise. The case has already gone to mahila sangam. With regards, Venugopal.
g h thakkar
13 May 2011 at 17:08
Can any huf transfer it's property to the eldor son(individual) of son's huf
Anonymous
13 May 2011 at 12:24
Dear Sir,
My Name is Md Ibrahim, working as AM in a reputed bank. Recently I got transferred to Hyderabad Dec 10. I used to work at Adilabad, as my father expired recently Nov 2010; there is nobody else to look after my mother & sisters, so I got transferred to Hyderabad in December 20.
My parents solemnized my marriage on Nov 2009, with a girl residing at Adilabad. After marriage she too used to stay along with me at Adilabad. My parents used to stay at Hyderabad due to my sisters education. My in laws deceived me & my parents by providing wrong age of girl, which I came to know on marriage night. I did not disclose this matter in front of my parents. She did not establish physical relation with me. after my repeated counseling to her; she pleaded & said not to reveal anything to my or to their parents. Though I did not got any satisfaction with her in married life still I adjusted & compromised with her &wanted to maintain good relation as this marriage was solemnized by my parents.
One late night in November 2010 I received a call from my mother, that my father`s health is serious & I rushed to Hyderabad along with her in a car. After a week my father passed away. I & my mother used to stay in hospital along with my father. Before commencement of my father`s funeral rituals she left my home on 8 Jan 11 saying she would like to visit their parents for couple of days without seeking me / my mother`s permission and staying till date. She has been called on several occasions by me & my mother, still she did not turned up. I have sent a letter stating to come back by Register post also, and also stated that if any complaints regarding my behavior can keep in front counsel. After 1 month I started receiving calls from my In laws stating that I & my mother tortured her, never offered food and started threatening to me saying that they will lodge false complaint at Police station against me & my mother and even said they will kill me.
On day I called up my wife & their parents to meet at my residence for reunion. They called up my grandfather to their residence & said that I am impotent & they wanted me to stay away from my mother with my wife & also started threatening him that they will kill him & lodge complaint at WPS Begumpet.
I never had any intention to leave her, but now at this situation what shall I do, kindly guide me. I can`t leave my mother & sisters in this position. There is nobody else except me to look after them. It is my responsibility to take care of my mother & sisters & I have to do their marriages also.
I am scared if I call her where she will lodge false complaints against me & my mother at Police station.
Kindly guide me.
Md.Anwarul Haque Danish
13 May 2011 at 11:13
Is this true ??
Few Highlights of the Bill
THE EMPOWERMENT OF WOMEN BILL, 2010
If this bill passes India will not even have budget for MP salaries.
Some highlights (well, every line in this bill is a highlight)
43. A married woman shall have the following rights, namely:
(a) she shall have the right to live in the house of her husband whether owned
by him or by his joint family or owned by him, solely or jointly, as a lessee or
licensee:
Provided that such right shall not be void in the event of judicial separation,
divorce or death of the husband:
(d) she shall have the right to claim an equal share in the gains of the
business of her husband or in the family business of her husband or in any other business in which her husband is a partner.
Widow shall have the first claim and absolute right to the property of her
deceased husband;
16. The appropriate Government shall appoint a Special Officer, who shall be a
woman, for every district to deal with cases arising out of this Act within the
territorial jurisdiction of that district.
Provision of pension to destitute women.
(e) destitute woman means a woman who has been separated, divorced or a
widow or an unmarried woman who has no source of income;)
Govt shall
(a)provide free and compulsory education upto graduation level to all women;
(b) open adequate number of educational institutions exclusively for women;
(c) reserve fifty per cent. of seats in educational institutions for women till
adequate number of educational institutions exclusive to them have been set up;
and
(d) provide scholarships to women for pursuing higher education.
Explanation.In this section, free education means uniform, books and
stationery, nutritious meals during school hours and transportation free of cost and no fees for admission or for taking any examination shall be charged.
* to ensure cheap, safe and quick transportation facilities for women
employees;
23. The appropriate Government shall provide a pension at the rate of rupees one
thousand and five hundred per mensem, to be revised from time to time, to all
destitutewomen till they are gainfully employed or facilities for self-employment have been extended to them or accommodated in womens homes .
(c) she shall have the right to claim an equal share as a coparcener, in the
gains of the family business of her parents; and
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Divorce
The query is regarding Divorce. One friend got married in 2006. She has a child of 6 months and want to file divorce. Her husband is threatening to claim the baby, if she files the divorce. Currently, she is not into the job and will be staying with her parents only. Both have been staying away from last 9 months. Her husband stays alone in Mumbai. She has mother-in-law, who is again not in speaking terms.
Her husband does not want to give divorce.
The queries are:
1) What are the chances of getting Divorce on the ground Harrassmant by husband and mother-in-law.
2) What are th chances of losing baby to her husband.
Please advise.