Reg 506a and Divorce
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Anonymous
(Querist) 17 May 2011
This query is : Resolved
My wife filed a 506a case against me and my mother. Police arrested me and i am in bail for the more than six months.
My wife asked us to vacate the house. We didn't vacate. So she filed this case. She wanted me to keep way from her. That is her intention. We have been married for the last 9 years. Mostly we are living separately due to the incompatibility. She is not ready for divorce. Whoever talks to her about our problem, she will blame me for hours and then she will tell them to ask me to live alone. She is also telling that i am mentally not ok. I am working in it field. she is also working in it field. We have a son.
Till now she has filed 3 complaints against me.
1) She filed in cyber crime police and got arrested and lost job. i was not produced in the court. i was int the custody for 3 days then i was released. after some time, she withdrew the case.
we started living separately. After some time i approached her for divorce. She was not ready. i went for compromise. we lived few months together and again problem. again same thing as usual..living together for a few months ..then problem..same thing repeated for several times.
Each time i approached her. She never tried to approach me. But she will tell everyone that she wants to live together.
Again i went to her house, after few months problem started, she filed a complaint against me in the woman’s police station.. Woman police asked me to vacate the house. we(mother and me ) refused. after few days, she went to police station and file an FIR...i was arrested and i am in bail..
we are living separately for more than 8 months. i am suffering due to loneliness. i am loosing concentration and my health etc...it is difficult to explain my sufferings..
i am 40 years old. i want to live a peaceful life. but she is not ready to accept that we cannot live together. Again a lot of people talked to her. She is adamant and wants to live like this and not ready for divorce. she blames me like anything..
I don’t know how to make her understand.
Unnecessarily i am putting my self into trouble by keep thinking about my problem.
She knows my family background that whatever she does, no one is there to ask her. She completely took advantage.
Now my question is shall i go for divorce ? is it possible to get divorce?. If there is any other way please suggest me.
by the time i get divorce i will be 43/45 years old. by considering all these thinks...please suggest me a solution.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 17 May 2011
In absence of consensus , the filing of divorce suit is the only option.
But keeping the time factor involved in such suit in mind, the mutual divorce is always the best bet.
Guest
(Expert) 23 May 2011
SIR,
KINDLY NOTE THAT.
1 A COMPLAINT WAS FILED BY WIFE AGAINST YOU AND YOUR FAMILY .YOU WERE ARRESTED AND ARE ON BAIL.
2.YOU MAY KINDLY BE CONFIDENT AND DEFEND YOUR COURT CASES STRONGLY.YOU MAY FILE A WRIT PETITION TO THE HIGH COURT FOR QUASHING THE SAID FALSE CASE AGAINST YOU AND YOUR FAMILY .
3.IN CASE REPEATED QUARRELS AND MULTIPLE CASES ARE FILED AGAINST YOU THEN YOU YOUR SELF MAY DECIDE AND APPLY FOR DIVORCE .LET COURT DECIDE THE MATTER.
IN THE SAID PETITION COURT WILL ISSUE A NOTICE TO HER AND SHE WILL FILE HER REPLY SO IF ANY CHANCES OF COMPROMISE ARE THERE THEN EVEN COURT WILL HELP BOTH FOR COMPROMISE .BUT IF SHE IS ADAMENT THEN LET COURT WILL PASS JUST AND PROPER ORDER.GOOD LUCK.
