Member (Account Deleted)
09 July 2012 at 23:53
Dear Sir,
I need help and guide from all of you about my family matter court.
My case is in the Family court and filled by my wife in march , after receiving the notice from the court i have attended the first counselling and then i have given next day which i have not attended because i was hospitalized for more than a week due to tension and fever. i have not appointed any lawyer for the my case till date . My wife she is taking divorce from me on the basis of dowry and harassment which is not true and i know that her brother and father are misguiding her against me and the advocate who has taken this cast is also misguided may be or may not be either he is misguiding to my wife. i am not that much educated to reply court notice in the english language because i have received court notice in English and i am unable to understand. Due to financial problem i am not able to appoint any advocate for my case even my wife she have filled monthly maintenance of 5000 Rs. from me.
I need guide and suggestion in this case and i am having some queries and request you all to help me.
Q.1 ) My case is in Bandra family court, can i ask to the court/ my wife to provide me NOTICE COPY (i.e. paper submitted by my wife )IN my mother tongue "Hindi" not in English and not in Marathi.
q.2) Can i give the reply to Notice in Hindi Language?
Q.3) I want to investigation of dowry complaint and other complaints in the my case can i request to court for investigation in the matter. and When i can file for investigation ?
Q.4) if my wife found that she and family have given false statement against me then what kind of action will court take against my wife and her family.
Q.5) How i can take help from court i need advocate and counselling but i dont have money to appoint a advocate for my case.
Please guide me.
Q.6) i dont want to go for divorce in any situation i dont want to breakup please suggest me what i do. i want from the court to counselling to my wife. Does the court help me for counselling at home .
Please reply me. also i need more suggestions from your side.
Thanks.
Member (Account Deleted)
09 July 2012 at 21:44
Dear Sir/ Madam,
I am Nomani N Parwez, from Bokaro, Jharkhand State of India.
My sister died on dec 15, 2010, after delivering a baby boy. Just 2 hrs after delivery she died. Now, I have mother 55 years, father 65+ and a sister (unmarried- studying now in college) 21 years approx.
We took the responsibility of bringing up the boy. The guardian of my brother in law suggested / advised to get marry my youngest sister with my brother in law. It was very sad moment for us that time since we had lost our sister. We told the them that we will think on this later. Indirectly they said that we will take the baby if marriage is not fixed. But due to my sister's graduation exam the decision on marriage got postponed one year.
Now, the baby is 18 months old. My sister exam is also over. My sister does not want to get married with brother in law.
When they heard this then my brother in law said ok we will take our baby then.
We are ready to give him his baby, since he is father, but only at the age of 4 or 5. (baby age). Because we want at least the baby should take care of himself by that time, or he can express his wants or requirements or pain to anyone at home. I am writing this because we know the condition of our brother in laws home. Everyone are concerned about themselves. My brother in law are three brothers and father and mother. He is youngest brother. ALl are having their family. They are concerned only about them. When the baby was born (dec month) nobody asked for the baby. It was very cold. My mother , siter and myself took the pain of bringing up the child. and when the bay is 18 mnths old, they are pressurizing now. When my sister was alive she faced many problems.
Is there any way that we can keep the baby for 3 years more. Other wise my sister will be compelled to get married with brother in law.
Kindly Advise. I dont have any other way to get help, because I m working in dubai, construction company, and I will get leave only after one year.
Please advise. we are ready to sign any promise letter to hand over the baby after 3 or 4 years.
Swapnil
09 July 2012 at 18:46
Sir/ Madam,
One of my cousin, she is married since 1999, She have 1 Daughter,1 Son Age:13yr & 9 Yrs respectively, Her Husband is a Central Govt. Employee but he don't look after their basic needs, he don't come to home for 10-12 days. He drinks a lot & harass them.
What is the remedial action can we take so that we get rid of him & can she is get some maintenance from his salary monthly.
Kindly reply hoe to get help.
Thanks in anticipation.
Elangovan Nagarajan
09 July 2012 at 06:30
An agricultural land was take around 60 years back by the lessee from lessor. after 60 sixty years whether the property lies with the lessor or lessee.
Pls clarify
Amrendra Singh
08 July 2012 at 20:33
Hi,
We are from Bihar, District Ara. My father have two brothers and a living grandfather. One is dead. One of the family lives in Bhopal and another in Patna. Families of both the brothers are threatening my father and us. My father is youngest of all. They have recently come here and had beat my father very badly on 7th July 2012. My mom and dad lives in village.
Reason:-
My Grandfather has transferred HIS PART of the property to our name, more specifically in my mother's name.
He does so because he is very old (he cannot even walk without support) and no one is ready to take care of him. My parents are caring him and so he gave his part to us.
We tried to settle the issue by telling you may take the property but you have to take care of grandpa. But no one is ready for it.
I live in Gurgaon and is working in a software company. Everyday I have started feeling afraid of what shall follow.
My dad today(8th July 2012) filed a compliant to local police under CRPC 107. I just want to know what should we do further?
Should we hire a lawyer or any other action to resolve this dispute forever?
PLEASE HELP! I AM VERY BOTHERED.
Amit
08 July 2012 at 19:03
Hi,
My wife has filed a DV case one and half years after our separation.
Does this hold ground? I read somewhere that DV cases have to be filed within an year. Is this true, if yes, can you cite me the relevant sections and judgements?
Also, in the DV case, she has got the ex-parte order to stop selling and transferring the house on my name (we never stayed there, we used to live in a rented house elsewhere). How to deal with this? Can this case be quashed? Can we ask her what's the justification for filing it 18months after separation?
Thanks
rajiv_lodha
08 July 2012 at 18:15
I have applied divorce 13ia. My friend wants to depose in my favor. Whether his statement should cover general cruelty like "I went to his residence for ccc task & his wife used ABUSIVE LANGUAGE and HUMILIATED HIM"
OR
"I went......& his wife refused to prepare tea, called him b*stard, K*MINA etc infront of me".
Which is necessary to prove cruelty? General or specific quote?
Aditya Sharma
08 July 2012 at 13:56
Respected Forum,
Me and my wife are not willing to continue together and want to get seperated. My next hearing under dowry case in this month but now my in laws are looking for out of court settlement. Now..
1. In their Case,they have shown they spent 6 lakh in marriage however it was not even half of. So what compensation can be charged of??
2. Is it possible to finish all these in coming hearing if both families can agree together at some amount as it has been more than 7 months now since she filed case against us and we still had differences and bitterness.
3. How legally should I proceed..
Please suggest....
K.Ajay Kumar
08 July 2012 at 12:48
Hindu wife has got any right in ancestral property parting with her husband.
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Wife's share in husband's earnings.
Hello. We are both hindus of different caste, married with mutual consent after meeting through a matrimonial site in the year 2002. He is from an affluent family and i am from a lower middle class family. Till date his parents dont accept me as their daughter in law. We have two daughters. Somehow, my husband thinks that I married him for his money. There are lot of other issues like he is constantly scrutinizing me, my dressing, my way of talking, my eating habits..... I used to work in an MNC as Exec. Assistant to MD, had to give up due to pregnancy. My husband didnt complain..After my elder daughter was born, I couldnt take up a job as he travels extensively and there is no support for child care. He used to earn well so kind of hinted that i dont need to work. We bought 3 flats on loan. I supported him in every manner. The money and the signature on the registration would be his, but all the groundwork A- Z was mine for all the three flats. He was keen on buying as he thinks that if money is there in the bank, it would be spent by me. Its been 10 years now and he never bought me any jewellery. He had a severe accident 3 years ago and he was kind of disturbed about the loans and sold off one house to clear some debts. I asked him for one lakh to buy jewellery and he says that I was responsible for the state of financial position. Now he just gives me enough money to run the house, if I save some, he also asks account for that. Now he is asking me to find out legally how much a wife is entitled to? I am totally fed up and think that its better to get a divorce and seek settlement. I am well educated and can take care of myself without his support but I want to fight for the 10 years of my life I dedicated for this marriage. Is asking money for buying a dress or jewellery for self and children a mistake? Isnt buying gold a security for them in the future? He doesnt spend any money on himself nor others. On top of this, continuous nagging about me, my personality, my dressing etc. He doesnt want to come for counselling. Kindly advise.