Sandeep Pandey
20 October 2012 at 21:55
Hello Sir,
This is Sandeep Pandey, from Mumbai, requesting u for ur help, as My elder brother was married on 6th June’10, with a girl from our old relatives in Jamshedpur (Jharkhand), as it was his second marriage, first was over through a mutual understanding from both the sides. The suffering is the second marriage, everything was fine but after 2-3 months the girl was not living happily here, I should remind u that before marriage we got a strange call from a boy from Jamshedpur “that the girl whom we are marrying is already engaged with another guy from last 6-7 years and will always be with him and will ruin your life, so don’t marry that girl”.
We were shocked and called her parents, they said these all are rumours from their enemies but still we were not convinced but before 2 days of marriage, 5 people came from her side and Brian washed our mind, pressurise us emotionally and requesting to marry as social pressure.
They got married, the main point comes Sir that the girl was not happy here so she forced us to convince to move to her mayka at Jamshedpur, we send her, after 6-7 days the whole drama started, she and her family said that she don’t want to come again and did not receive my brother’s call as well as my family’s call ever and started doing Job as she used to do before.
After some time we came to know that she is having an affair, as Sir we have some voice recording of her colleague saying that she has already her husband over here in Jamshedpur. Many times I have contacted her and her family also relatives to send her back or tell me what’s the reason behind this but she and her family was not responded anytime, we went there twice to take her home but she and her family do not face us, there was not any communication at all from their side.
we filed a case of Conjugal Rights U/S 9 of The Hindu Marriage Act 1995 on 25th Jan’12, but she didn’t came at any of the dates and send her medical reports and now we came to know that she did a stay order from Supreme Court and to transfer her case to Jamshedpur also she filed a case before 1day(24th Jan’12) of us as “406/498a/506 of IPC and Sec 4 of Dowry Prohibition Act”
Sir we are scared as some Advocate says that Police will come and arrest our whole family, first thing that we have to do to take Contisipatory Bail, so sir please provide some help… Sir will voice recording works in court as evidence..??? and how can we get through all these process, Sir I am requesting to u that please provide some suggestions as soon as possible.
Regards.
manno
20 October 2012 at 21:39
Please help. I don't want to lose my husband. whether i win or lose the case he's Filed, either way I end up losing my husband. is there a way to make him stay? He's alleged
cruelty on my part. But I have doctor's reports stating that it's the other way round. however can I ask the judge to make him stay with me?
ravi xyz1234
20 October 2012 at 21:25
Sir,i am a married person and having one children,my estranged wife is staying away from me since last 12 years and various court cases is in progress in different courts.
As a matter of fact i have married her divorced sister and have a son from her although the marriage is null and void and dont have any ducuments,still i want to give my second child all the legal rights which he expect from me.
My question is how to get my child admitted in school as it will require father name as well as mother name and in that case i will clearly implicate me in ipc 494 as my first wife will get those documents through RTI.Although IPC 494 has been dismissed against me.Please help me to get out of this problem.Ravi.
Rashid Ali
20 October 2012 at 19:43
hi expert i am muslim. my second wife married me without taking Talak from her earlier husband.looking her cruelty ,extorting habit and affair with her previous husband i gave her talak .And i filled a case u/s 386,387,389,120b against her,her father,mother and brother.The Evidence in this case was only call recordings. but Io did not investigate properly and submitted final report in political presure with the sanction of 182 ipc.Now this cruel wife has filled false 498a,3/4 DP against me and my family members.Once again police is ready to chargsheet me and my family members in political presure. what should i do ? i am from saharanpur UP west.in an another case this exwife has been chargesheeted with the section 420,467,468,471,120b ipc alongwith her mother, father, brother and now are on bail from allahabad highcourt .498a,3/4 is ongoing with her previous husband . it means this lady running 2 cases of 498a ,3/4 at a time one on me and my family members and second with her previous husband and his family members. she is staying in my another house and do not want to vacate my house.what should i do .
jagdish
20 October 2012 at 14:57
Dear All,
Divorce Case was filled on dec 11 in family court. now both the party not attending the court from last 10 months, can case already cancelled by the court. what is the way to find out to case is ongoing in the court.
please advise
Member (Account Deleted)
20 October 2012 at 14:45
Q)how to prevent my father property from my greedy wife and son who had filed domestic voilence against me?
Member (Account Deleted)
20 October 2012 at 14:40
Q)i had filed divorce against my wife for last 1.5yrs.what will be my future?
Rajan
20 October 2012 at 08:46
Dear Sirs,
Can you kindly advice on Christian Divorce,
Pending the Divorce Petition filed by Husband, the Christian Wife claimed for maintenance and reported on the record that she is starving to death and is under huge debt. But the wife was travelling to UK every year for 6 months stay at London.
1. Can the wife travel to UK while the divorce petition is pending in the Court
2. Should she obtain permission of the Court to travel to UK every year
3. Travel to UK indicates that she is self sufficient with her finances, should the husband contest to stop the maintenance
Rashid Ali
20 October 2012 at 08:43
hi expert i am muslim. my second wife married me without taking Talak from her earlier husband.looking her cruelty ,extorting habit and affair with her previous husband i gave her talak .And i filled a case u/s 386,387,389,120b against her,her father,mother and brother.The Evidence in this case was only call recordings. but Io did not investigate properly and submitted final report in political presure with the sanction of 182 ipc.Now this cruel wife has filled false 498a,3/4 DP against me and my family members.Once again police is ready to chargsheet me and my family members in political presure. what should i do ? i am from saharanpur UP west.in an another case this exwife has been chargesheeted with the section 420,467,468,471,120b ipc alongwith her mother, father, brother and now are on bail from allahabad highcourt .
False case by wife
Hi - my wife and I recently had an argument. After a while my wife started physically abusing me by trying to strangle me, later trying to stab me with a knife, throwing ceramic jug at me and beating me with water bottle/bare hands and then slapping me. In my defence I had to twist her hand once, and kick her away when she was trying to strangle me. Then she took our children and left for her parents house. She has now registered a case against me under sections 323, 504 & 506, with all lies in the FIR. What should I do know and how do I protect myself? The cop says he can come and arrest me anytime, and is asking for bribe to wait for 3-4 days. Please help