M Chaturvedi
09 October 2013 at 13:03
Dear Experts:
Thanks for your suggestions & advices on my query of "Complaint" - Against PP.
It is shameful that our system has become such that even when a person is right he is at the receiving end of corruption. The people who are corrupted from within their minds are free to do anything.
Anyways, as suggested by our few learned experts - that It would be of no use to waste time in complaining about the PP & instead finish the matter by fulfilling his demands. His demand is 10L. Should we fulfill it? How much will he come down from 10L? Any idea?
But, what about the party (my brother's ex-wife & in-laws). They are hungry too. Even after the matter is already settled in Divorce Court a year ago, DV Act withdrawn by them a year ago, even we had withdrawn a case of cheating filed against them a year a ago. The Ex-Wife have even signed in the consent Terms of Divorce wherein it is stated that there is "NO EXCHANGE PENDING BETWEEN THE PARTIES".
I do understand that 498 A is non-compoundable & it has to be pursued as if the case is still going on and we (both the parties) have to portray a picture in front of honorable judge that the case is hopeless wherein it couldn't be proved where does the streedhan lies or dowry claim stands - thereby Not harming the ex-wife as well as us in the court and somehow the case gets cleared for both the parties.
But, here the other party (ex-wife & her parents) are hungry for money - if what the PP did in last hearing is to be believed.
For PP, Whatever rude behaviour he is doing with us, we might take it in our stride. what about the opposite party's hunger?
While settling for Divorce, we didn't need to pay a single penny to them. Yes, ITS TRUE - Not a Single Penny... And they have signed on the Divorce papers, MOU, Consent Terms. And Divorce Granted....
But, now since they are the complainants in 498A and we have nothing left to do against them. They are taking the advantage (may be taking a chance) by pursuing the 498A case.
EVEN THOUGH WE ARE RIGHT............
Should we still meet their unreasonable Demands ? Should we still succumb in front of them ? Should we still show them that anyone can come & bully us ?
One of our respected experts had replied in response to my previous query that -"How do I do my business?" He had questioned me about the fairness in my business taxes, etc... etc... But, here everything cannot be looked from business angle. The opposite party, to extort money from us can do anything & we keep on thinking & doing business way.
A person abuses you 1st time - You let go of it. Again, he abuses you - You think that such things doesn't suit us so you don't fight against it & you let go of it. Again he abuses you - Again you think positive & let go of it. How many times will you let go of it ? That person is abusing you again & again because he has misunderstood your patience or your goodness as your weakness.
The above has & is happening with us. We have on several occasions (even though we were right & reasonable), succumbed to their unreasonability. We have let gone of several abuses they have given on us.
Their Demand is 10L. Our lawyer had spoken to their lawyer & their lawyer conveyed this amount to our lawyer.
Now, their demand & the PP's demand is one & the same or separate is still under wraps. Our lawyer is trying to find out.
Most Importantly, here I would like to ask our experts - The Chargesheet is filed in Nov, 2011. Can we go for Quashing in HC ?
Since my brother is Divorced - Can he get married even though the case of 498A is still going on ?
Requesting the learned experts to suggest & advice on law basis not on business basis - I've been into business since 16 Years, my Father is in business since 36 Years & my brother is in business since 12 Years. And its our business acumen that we didn't pay a single penny to them and got my brother Divorced.
Thanks & Regards
rishi
09 October 2013 at 13:02
i want to make will and do the registration in mumbai.pls let me know charges and contact number of lawyer.
jwalamukhi
09 October 2013 at 12:57
Q 1)Can an interim maintainance order under dv act be appeal to higher courts without paying?
Q2) can an final maintainance order under dv act be appeal to higher courts without paying?
rohit
08 October 2013 at 22:33
If attesting witnesses and will writer as well as registrar of will,all are dead then how to prove validity of such will? please give me case laws of Supreme court or High court.
Vishal Mal
08 October 2013 at 21:47
Me and my wife have decided to move on and decided to dissolve our marriage with mutual consent divorce.
We have a joint property which we plan to sell and the property also has a joint home loan.
Please advise how the money will be divided after it is sold and what happens when one person has invested more in the property than the other individual.
Sayan Poddar
08 October 2013 at 18:03
while Child custody case is going on,
me and my wife agree and submitted joint petition on
visitation of child once in a week for 2 hours, court allowed it
But one month have not passed , my wife file petition to reduce visitation right to twice in a month(each 15 days)
as she is a nurse in a govt hospital,she can not get leave each Saturday
My question
1)is visitation right can be reduced after joint mutual petition ?
2)How to protect , that i can meet my son each week
anil Kumar
08 October 2013 at 16:03
Dear sir /mam According to muslim law if the parents are divorced or separated to whom the responsibility of the child goes either father or the mother.? If father at what age the child can be taken.
if mother takes the child upto which age of male child she is responsible for custody.
if she remarries than to whom will get custody of child (male)goes..?
pls gv clear details regarding d issue
Arjun
07 October 2013 at 18:38
Dear Experts,
A filed 125 petition against B along with an application for interim. B filed his reply. after reply B now he wants to withdraw/modify the reply. can he do so? if yes, under what provision? please clarify.... Thanks to everybody in advance
bhuvi garg
07 October 2013 at 13:08
r/sir
what is the status of girl and man, man aged 40 yr kidnapped a 15 yr young girl and married her and during the currency of kidnapping a child is born.
what is status of man and girl in these situation.
thanks
raj subramani
07 October 2013 at 10:45
Sir,
Please help me in the following by giving suitable advice.
I am married 37 years women having a male child aged 15 and for the last four years i am living independently because of family problems and living for my kid.In these last four years i never met my husband and he also not bothered about us .
now i came to know that he married to a women within a year time and having male child with her.
He never got my consent on divorce he somehow managed to get divorce without my knowledge and on investigating the things recently i heard that he claimed that i am deserted and got divorce.
Is it possible to get such type of divorce?
is there any grounds to take actions against him?
Please suggest me suitably
with regards
Complaint...
Dear Experts:
Thanks for your suggestions & advices on my query of "Complaint" - Against PP.
It is shameful that our system has become such that even when a person is right he is at the receiving end of corruption. The people who are corrupted from within their minds are free to do anything.
Anyways, as suggested by our few learned experts - that It would be of no use to waste time in complaining about the PP & instead finish the matter by fulfilling his demands. His demand is 10L. Should we fulfill it? How much will he come down from 10L? Any idea?
But, what about the party (my brother's ex-wife & in-laws). They are hungry too. Even after the matter is already settled in Divorce Court a year ago, DV Act withdrawn by them a year ago, even we had withdrawn a case of cheating filed against them a year a ago. The Ex-Wife have even signed in the consent Terms of Divorce wherein it is stated that there is "NO EXCHANGE PENDING BETWEEN THE PARTIES".
I do understand that 498 A is non-compoundable & it has to be pursued as if the case is still going on and we (both the parties) have to portray a picture in front of honorable judge that the case is hopeless wherein it couldn't be proved where does the streedhan lies or dowry claim stands - thereby Not harming the ex-wife as well as us in the court and somehow the case gets cleared for both the parties.
But, here the other party (ex-wife & her parents) are hungry for money - if what the PP did in last hearing is to be believed.
For PP, Whatever rude behaviour he is doing with us, we might take it in our stride. what about the opposite party's hunger?
While settling for Divorce, we didn't need to pay a single penny to them. Yes, ITS TRUE - Not a Single Penny... And they have signed on the Divorce papers, MOU, Consent Terms. And Divorce Granted....
But, now since they are the complainants in 498A and we have nothing left to do against them. They are taking the advantage (may be taking a chance) by pursuing the 498A case.
EVEN THOUGH WE ARE RIGHT............
Should we still meet their unreasonable Demands ? Should we still succumb in front of them ? Should we still show them that anyone can come & bully us ?
One of our respected experts had replied in response to my previous query that -"How do I do my business?" He had questioned me about the fairness in my business taxes, etc... etc... But, here everything cannot be looked from business angle. The opposite party, to extort money from us can do anything & we keep on thinking & doing business way.
A person abuses you 1st time - You let go of it. Again, he abuses you - You think that such things doesn't suit us so you don't fight against it & you let go of it. Again he abuses you - Again you think positive & let go of it. How many times will you let go of it ? That person is abusing you again & again because he has misunderstood your patience or your goodness as your weakness.
The above has & is happening with us. We have on several occasions (even though we were right & reasonable), succumbed to their unreasonability. We have let gone of several abuses they have given on us.
Their Demand is 10L. Our lawyer had spoken to their lawyer & their lawyer conveyed this amount to our lawyer.
Now, their demand & the PP's demand is one & the same or separate is still under wraps. Our lawyer is trying to find out.
Most Importantly, here I would like to ask our experts - The Chargesheet is filed in Nov, 2011. Can we go for Quashing in HC ?
Since my brother is Divorced - Can he get married even though the case of 498A is still going on ?
Requesting the learned experts to suggest & advice on law basis not on business basis - I've been into business since 16 Years, my Father is in business since 36 Years & my brother is in business since 12 Years. And its our business acumen that we didn't pay a single penny to them and got my brother Divorced.
Thanks & Regards