somesh
12 November 2013 at 17:29
Dear Experts,
i am very much thankful to your expert advise i am living in peace now, but somewhere i have some queries.
My wife is staying with her parents since sept 2012
i, my family, her family(excluding her parents) and some relatives of both the families tried hard to convince girl and her parents to send her back but in vain.
i personally went 5 times once stayed at her house as it was her condition to come back to me but she failed to her commitments.
she speaks to me daily and always commits me that she will come back soon.
As per the earlier advise from experts in this forum i waited for her but now things are getting out of my hands.
now query is her exams were to start and end in sept 2013 but till now her exams has not started and my parents & relatives are pressurizing me to ask her if she is not interested to come back let us know we will look forward in the matter because i advise my parents to leave the matter till her exams are over.
What should i do now? her exams are nowhere nearing or is it just an excuse.
i am unable to understand should i wait for her or just ask my relatives to act upon.
Thanks in advance
Mrunmai Deshpande
12 November 2013 at 05:15
How much are the financial expenses in India for
1. Mutual Consent divorce
2. Wife has deserted but not prepared to give divorce
Sir,
In Indian law, can a father disown his son for his ill behaviour towards father.
Mrunmai Deshpande
11 November 2013 at 19:54
I am of 40 years of age. My wife had deserted me 6 years ago. The divorce case under cruelty and desertion is going on for last 3 years. During the progress of the case my wife had made false allegations of physical and mental torture to her by me and my parents which could not be proved. Now she is requesting me to withdraw the case and she wants to come back to me. Knowing her attitude and the agony she had caused us by false allegations, we are really scared of her coming back to our home. I have few queries.
1. If I still go for divorce, is my case still strong ?
2. If I withdraw the case how can we protect us against such false allegations in future?
Please advise !
Kalaivani
11 November 2013 at 16:46
Hi All,
I got register marriage in the year 2009 Dec 18.Me and husband has been waiting for his Parents approval for out love to do formal marriage.But His parents didn't accept our proposal.Meanwhile my husband stayed in his home and I stayed in my home.In the year 2011 my husband was not stable and hence applied for divorce with joining with his parents, he also stated in the year 2012 Feb that he has applied for divorce because of his parents compulsion, but still he was in connection with me and stated whatever happens he will marry me.So i do not know anything legally so i kept quite.Before that in the year 2011 september his parents seeked bride and everything was set for my husband to get married and since that girls house came to know that he already got register marriage and hence that marriage like that so many proposals was stopped at the last moment.and last year in the month of Nov 2012 my husband took ne to his lawyer and his lawyer helped me in arranging his junior lawyer and with that i appeared in court on Nov 8th 2012 where I had counselling and stated i want to live with him so the counsellor gave the time perioed of two months to join my husband.Since his parents were angry on me, I thought to wait for some more days for their approval and i didn't go for next hearing in court.(Main problem i never received any court order notice for divorce once also).In the year 2013 in the month of June my husband stated we are divorced, but still since i believed him anywhich way he will marry me so i was quite, meanwhile His parents seeked bride for him to get married and all the proposals will not happen. I explained this to one of my cousin who is a lawyer and when he asked for case no i stated nothing I know. Then he found the case# and now filed set aside as i want to live wit him where my next hearing is going to be in Dec2nd 2013,even then my husband is going with his parents to seek bride.My question is I want to live with him. Though we didn't had any physical relationship he stayed in my home for one month.Also I gave him huge lacs for his share market investment.I don't want any settlement from him.All I want to live with him.Also I found the divorce reason which he applied was that his parents called me to do reception where I denied is totally false.Now how do court will proceed this case.I want to live with him.As everyone knows that i got register marriage with him.I am frustrated help me.
Amit
11 November 2013 at 12:49
Hi,
My wife filed DVC and while it's going on, the magistrate has passed interim residential order asking me to pay rent.
This was challenged by wife in Sessions court by an appeal.
Frustrating thing to me is that the arguments (for appeal) are over, judge did not give orders for next three dates (just kept giving dates) then he asked for reopening and for arguments again which also are finished and now three more dates are wasted without passing any orders.
What can be done regarding this? When asked by advocate, the judge keeps giving some reason or the other (late for today, just came from vacation etc).
Any pointers on how to deal with this?
Thanks
Mrunmai Deshpande
11 November 2013 at 07:09
I am a young man of 40 years of age. After marriage I developed neurological ailment and hence became physically handicapped and so had irregular income. Due to this my wife deserted me 4 years back, carried my son with her and started staying with her parents at Pune. She started working there in a school as a regular employee. In the mean time, I also recovered fully from my physical disability, though I am still under medication and medical observation which according to treating doctors has to be continued for years. I have started earning regular income as well. I am now divorced and since my wife has source of regular income, I am exempted from giving her any alimony though I am giving child maintenance on monthly basis. I have the following query ----
If there is a relapse in my neurological ailment, which the treating doctors fear, and could not earn, can I demand financial support from my earning ex-wife? Please advise !
anamika saha
10 November 2013 at 22:55
I am 29 years old.married house wife.& I have 9 months old child.From 5th february 2013 onwards I am staying with my parents due to domestic problem with my husband.For the last 3 years I suffered many physical torture from my husband & during my pregnancy time he also tortured me.But I didn't lodge any police complaint because I hoped that we will be able to solve this problem through family discussion. But now I am seeing that it is not possible because my husband is not in a mood to settle this matter.He doesn't respect me & I know that he will not stop torturing me. Now my question is If I file a divorce case against my husband will i get alumni for me & my child ?? & if my husband files a divorce case against me then in this case will i get the alumni for me & my child?? & also one more question, how much alumni will i get??
Kaniksha
10 November 2013 at 21:31
I have filed for divorce after suffering severe torture from hands of husband and M-I-L but my husband is dead against it.He wants me to be a servant all his life.My cross is over and husband`s cross is to begin.I want to submit some emails when husband admitted he hit me and apologised.But my lawyer says I cannot submit it now and I should have submitted it before my affidavit.What should I do?
Mutual consent
Respected Seniors!
Please i seek an advise from you seniors that, a couple who are well settled and financial with a good sound wants to take mutual consent divorce and was got married in the year 2010 and have no children.
so which is the best and quick method to take M.C. Divorce as the guy wants to leave Australia by Feb, 2014. before that they intends to finish the matter as they cant leave together anymore.
Please advice.
Thanking You all,
Aditya.