Rocky
01 March 2016 at 00:56
Dear sir
My wife filed 156(3) u/s498a, 144,34,125,107,406,494, along with 307 which is fake and fabricated as the time she mentioned she was not staying in her parental home. It's just the reparkation of the divorce suit file by me on cruelty ground. Can me and my family members get arrested though I already applied for anticipatory bail nd police also investigating properly my neighbours given mass pitition to police station. As its 156(3) not a direct FIR by Police so whether can we get arrested?
Nd after filling all this nonsense cases in kolkata she came to Mumbai in my work place with help of local political goons forcing me to withdraw divorce pitition.l informed human rights commission nd all police headquarters of Mumbai navi Mumbai about this illigal unlawful trespassing into my private life. Now can I get any relif from law to stop them comming into my privacy. How to restrict them legally? Is there any legal aid available for me.? I tried to complain to local Ps but not entertained. So I wrote mail to all top cops of Mumbai, navi Mumbai. Is there ny other suggestions to stop this nuisance.
suganya
29 February 2016 at 20:01
i got married on feb13 2014 and it was an complete arranged marriage.I have a 1yr old boy baby.all the informations about my was an lie ,his education,job,salary,family background etc more than all these he and his family members giving me and my family lot of mental torcher and they abusing me very badly .my life is like an hell right now..can anyone pls help me out with this problem.what kind of legal action can I take against him
S S Ali
29 February 2016 at 15:22
Sir,
My sister who is a govt employee got married (nikaah) on 14/10/2012. It was an arranged marriage. Her husband is also a govt employee. Her father is a retired govt employee. As she is the only child of her parents, her father gave her to his level best in her marriage including gold jewellery, furniture and valuable gifts. Although during negotiations, no dowry was demanded, but after her marriage, her husband and in laws asked her to buy them a car taking loan. But she refused. After this, their behaviour changed drastically. Although they did not demand for the car directly to her anymore, but they started to ignore her and treated her like an outcast. Her inlaws did not want her to live with her husband. Inspite of this behaviour, my sister did not say a word to her parents as they were aged and she didn't want to trouble them. Her husband is completely under control of his family and strictly said to his wife that she should obey his family members and never protest or object. Her in laws always plotted to influence her husband against my sister and her family and always tried something or the other to cause their fight. My sister ignored their rude and harsh behaviour and tried to be good to them in the hope that things will change one day but instead of getting better, the situation got worse. My sister gave birth to a son on 10/02/2015. But after this, they started behaving very very badly. They humiliated, insulted, harassed not only my sister but also her aged parents. Her husband is an alcoholic and chain smoker.He always uses abusive and foul language against her and her parents. Her in laws never stopped him from using such slang words. They even told her to leave his house when her son was only 3 days old. But she could not leave then as she was unwell post delivery. Due to their bad behaviour, she was compelled to leave the house with her 2 months old child and live with her parents.
In these 10 mths of her stay with her parents, her husband has never stood beside her financially or emotionally in his son's upbringing. All her son's expenses have been borne by her. He never even called up to know about his son's well-being. Whenever he did so it was to threaten and abuse her and her parents. He even threatened to snatch away her son and harm them using power and money. Meanwhile her husband,mil,brother and friend came to their house and misbehaved tremendously and also insisted for mutual divorce.
After 3 mths of her leaving the house her husband got engaged to a girl but now is saying that he did not and wants my sister to go back. But still now his behaviour has not changed and he does everything according to his parent's orders.
On 26th Feb, he came to my sister's house at 1 am at night and asked her to let him in for he wanted to see his son. He said that he came alone by train. My sister doubted his intention and asked him to come in the morning. After a while she heard that stones and bricks were being thrown at their house by her husband, brother, a friend and about 6 to 8 other men who came in 2 cars . By the sound of breaking glass panes her 1yr old son who was then sleeping woke up and started crying. Her father who is a heart patient was also feeling unwell. She and her family got very scared and called the police. Her husband broke the lock on the main gate and was about to enter when the police came in and due to their intervention they had to leave.
Now, she is very scared about her, her son's and aged parent's safety. She is confused about what she should do now, whether to file an FIR or go for a court case ? Does an FIR also mean a court case ? If so, then what should be the allegations and respective IPC sections. We would be grateful to you if you would guide us on this with your valuable advice. As we are laymen regarding this, your advice would be of great help for us. My sister and her family is very upset, completely shattered after this incident and her parents are really worried about her and her child's safety.
Waiting eagerly for your advice,
- A worried brother
Alpesh Makkampara
29 February 2016 at 13:36
I have applied for child custody under GWA with interim application.I am a father. In interim application judge passed order that pick child from opposite party home 10:00AM to 02:00PM of last Sunday of every month. And after that opposite party had filed objection and judged had refused objection. After we had gone to take my child as per order but opposite party was not present with child.I had also called child help line and informed them same.I had invoked child help line officer by saying that my in-laws had locked my child in home and they are not at home. And my child is crying.They(child help line) will report within two days.My queries are as below.
1>Can this be considered as contempt of court?
2>Can law of injunction be applied?
3>Can i ask for cost from opposite party through court?
Kindly advice accordingly.
Thanks in advance.
Anonymous
29 February 2016 at 12:20
Sir,
My sister who is a govt employee got married (nikaah) on 14/10/2012. It was an arranged marriage.Her husband is also a govt employee. Her father is a retired govt employee. As she is the only child of her parents, her father gave her to his level best in her marriage including gold jewellery, furniture and valuable gifts. Although during negotiations, no dowry was demanded, but after her marriage, her husband and in laws asked her to buy them a car taking loan. But she refused. After this, their behaviour changed drastically. Although they did not demand for the car directly to her anymore, but they started to ignore her and treated her like an outcast. Her inlaws did not want her to live with her husband. Inspite of this behaviour, my sister did not say a word to her parents as they were aged and she didn't want to trouble them. Her husband is completely under control of his family and strictly said to his wife that she should obey his family members and never protest or object. Her in laws always plotted to influence her husband against my sister and her family and always tried something or the other to cause their fight. My sister ignored their rude and harsh behaviour and tried to be good to them in the hope that things will change one day but instead of getting better, the situation got worse. My sister gave birth to a son on 10/02/2015. But after this, they started behaving very very badly. They humiliated, insulted, harassed not only my sister but also her aged parents. Her husband is an alcoholic and chain smoker.He always uses abusive and foul language against her and her parents. Her in laws never stopped him from using such slang words. They even told her to leave his house when her son was only 3 days old. But she could not leave then as she was unwell post delivery.Due to their bad behaviour, she was compelled to leave the house with her child when he was 2 months old and live with her parents.
In these 10 mths of her stay with her parents, her husband has never stood beside her financially or emotionally in his son's upbringing. All her son's expenses have been borne by her. He never even called up to know about his son's well-being. Whenever he did so it was to threaten and abuse her and her parents. He even threatened to snatch away her son and harm them. Meanwhile her husband,mil,brother and friend came to their house and misbehaved tremendously and also insisted for mutual divorce.
After 3 mths of her leaving the house her husband got engaged to a girl but now is saying that he did not and wants my sister to go back. But still now his behaviour has not changed and he does everything according to his parent's orders.
On 26th Feb, he came to my sister's house at 1 am at night and asked her to let him in for he wanted to see his son. He said that he came alone by train. My sister doubted his intention and asked him to come in the morning. After a while she heard that stones and bricks were being thrown at their house by her husband, brother, a friend and about 6 to 8 other men who came in two cars. By the sound of breaking glass panes her 1yr old son who was then sleeping woke up and started crying. Her father who is a heart patient was also feeling unwell. She and her family got very scared and called the police. Her husband broke the lock on the main gate and was about to enter when the police came in and due to their intervention they had to leave.
Now, she is very scared about her, her son's and aged parent's safety. She is confused about what she should do now, whether to file an FIR or go for a court case ? If so, then what should be the allegations and respective IPC sections. We would be grateful to you if you would guide us on this with your valuable advice. As we are laymen regarding your advice would be of great help for us. My sister and her family is very upset, completely shattered after this incident and her parents are really worried about her and her child's safety.
Waiting eagerly for your advice,
- A worried brother
Anonymous
29 February 2016 at 12:12
Sir,
My sister who is a govt employee got married (nikaah) on 14/10/2012. It was an arranged marriage.Her husband is also a govt employee. Her father is a retired govt employee. As she is the only child of her parents, her father gave her to his level best in her marriage including gold jewellery, furniture and valuable gifts. Although during negotiations, no dowry was demanded, but after her marriage, her husband and in laws asked her to buy them a car taking loan. But she refused. After this, their behaviour changed drastically. Although they did not demand for the car directly to her anymore, but they started to ignore her and treated her like an outcast. Her inlaws did not want her to live with her husband. Inspite of this behaviour, my sister did not say a word to her parents as they were aged and she didn't want to trouble them. Her husband is completely under control of his family and strictly said to his wife that she should obey his family members and never protest or object. Her in laws always plotted to influence her husband against my sister and her family and always tried something or the other to cause their fight. My sister ignored their rude and harsh behaviour and tried to be good to them in the hope that things will change one day but instead of getting better, the situation got worse. My sister gave birth to a son on 10/02/2015. But after this, they started behaving very very badly. They humiliated, insulted, harassed not only my sister but also her aged parents. Her husband is a chain smoker and alcoholic and chain smoker.He always uses abusive and foul language against her and her parents. Her in laws never stopped him from using such slang words. They even told her to leave his house when her son was only 3 days old. But she could not leave then as she was unwell post delivery.Due to their bad behaviour, she was compelled to leave the house with her child and live with her parents.
In these 10 mths of her stay with her parents, her husband has never stood beside her financially or emotionally in his son's upbringing. All her son's expenses have been borne by her. He never even called up to know about his son's well-being. Whenever he did so it was to threaten and abuse her and her parents. He even threatened to snatch away her son and harm them. Meanwhile her husband,mil,brother and friend came to their house and misbehaved tremendously and also insisted for mutual divorce.
After 3 mths of her leaving the house her husband got engaged to a girl but now is saying that he did not and wants my sister to go back. But still now his behaviour has not changed and he does everything according to his parent's orders.
On 26th Feb, he came to my sister's house at 1 am at night and asked her to let him in for he wanted to see his son. He said that he came alone by train. My sister doubted his intention and asked him to come in the morning. After a while she heard that stones and bricks were being thrown at their house by her husband, brother, a friend and about 6 to 8 other men. By the sound of breaking glass panes her 1yr old son who was then sleeping woke up and started crying. Her father who is a heart patient was also feeling unwell. She and her family got very scared and called the police. Her husband broke the lock on the main gate and was about to enter when the police came in and due to their intervention they had to leave.
Now, she is very scared about her, her son's and aged parent's safety. She is confused about what she should do now, whether to file an FIR or go for a court case ? If so, then what should be the allegations and respective IPC sections. We would be grateful to you if you would guide us on this with your valuable advice. As we are laymen regarding your advice would be of great help for us. My sister and her family is very upset, completely shattered after this incident and her parents are really worried about her and her child's safety.
Waiting eagerly for your advice,
- A worried brother
vishnupriya
29 February 2016 at 10:06
Hi Sir,
I did intercaste marriage on aug 2012. I didnt claim any govt concessions. Please let me know whether i can claim the amount now?
then, Is there any advantage for my girl baby? any government scheme to get the amount for girl baby?
pankaj kapoor
28 February 2016 at 19:20
Hello sir
My wife had been living with her parents for last 4.5 years and 2 month back we had a meeting with her elders and our elders participation.we decided to take mutual consent divorce.now we are asking them for first motion and they are saying that they have filled dowry case on us and it was filled before meeting.but we did not receive any notice ,no phone call from police station till date. I have two queries...
1)Can dowry case be withdrawn by my wife?..
2)Now how to resolve this issue? kindly suggest....
3) should we start first motion and give them first cheque of settlement amount?
Kindly help please...
chandan
28 February 2016 at 19:13
Last one year se meri bibi ko kuch galat fahami ho gai hi jiske karan mera ghar tute rha hi divorce tak baat aa gai hi pls me counselling karvana chahta hu jise uska brain me jo bhi galat baat aa gai hi sab dur ho jye. Pls help me
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Neglect to old parent and remedy,if any
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