Amit
04 February 2011 at 15:01
Can a husband drag his wife's friend to court alleging that his wife has been s*xual relation with her friend after marraige? (Because it's an ground for the husband to filling a divorce petition against his wife.)
(The friend stayed out side of the girl's state & not meet since 4/5 years)
In the same time, can the wife drag to her friend alleging that her husband and friend together mentally depress & showing any type of ground?
Please help that friend to escape from the husband wife.
I wait response.
ankit
04 February 2011 at 14:48
Dear Members,
I am a businessman from Jaipur.
I got married 8 years ago and have a son of 4 years.
My wife has been getting some Psychiatric trouble since last 3 years which included abnormal temper on myself and my son. We tried to consult a doctor, but she is not ready to go to the Doctor.
Now it has really become impossible to live with her. But my real worry is that in case i declare this intent to her she may use the current laws and regulation against me. I tried checking with few layers and i was suggested following
Financial Implications -
1 - She can not allege dowry against me and my family since it has been more than 7 years since we have been married.
2 - She cannot claim any part of my or my family's wealth/assets
3 - She can only demand 50% of my income as maintainance, but since she also has some sources of income it will be reduced by that exent.
Non-Financial Implication
1 - She can allege physical harassment against me and my family.
However i will have to produce evidence of her abnormal behavior like doctor report, teratment etc (which i dont have as she is never ready for this, we have been just once to a marriage counselor but not sure we have any record of that)
I seek the guidance of learned members as to how i should proceed further and what defense i should use in the case.
Thanking you all in anticipation
Regards
Ankit
Anonymous
04 February 2011 at 12:11
R/Sir,
The lower court has ordered maintenence as Rs. 3000/- & Rs. 2000/- in respect of my wife & daughter respectively. I have challenged the order in Dist. court and got relief as the maintenence in respect of wife is cancelled by Ho'ble court. As my wife is qualified ENT surgeon with degrees like MBBS, MS(ENT)& DNB. I want to challenge the order in High court for complete cancellation of the Dict. court order.
Kindly let me know should I file writ or Cr. Rev. Ptn.? What is Limitation period for the same? What is merit in the case?
Warm Regards
Waghmare
kangkan
04 February 2011 at 07:22
SIR,
I HAD DONE A REGISTERED MARRIAGE UNDER SPECIAL MARRIAGE ACT 4 YEARS AGO WITH A GIRL. BUT HAVN'T STAYED WITH HER SINCE THEN. I REALISED THAT MY DECISSION TO MARRY HER WAS WRONG AS FOUND MANY DISISSIMARITY IN THINKING AND HABITS BETWEEN US. I JUST CANN'T START LIVE HER BECAUSE EVERY TIME WE MEET, SHE QUARRELS WITH ME AND SHE HAD MAKING A GREAT HAMPER IN MY PROFESSIONAL LIFE. I DO SERVE INDIAN RAILWAY AS AN ENGINEER, AND MY DUTIES ARE VERY LABOURSOME. I JUST CANN'T REPLY TO HER QUESTIONS ALL THE TIME AND SHE THEN STARTS HARASSING ME AND EVEN THREATENING ME TO COMMIT SUICIDE. I JUST CANNT LIVE WITH HER AND NEED DIVORCE. SHE HAS TAKEN AWAY MY PEACE OF MIND AND I CANNOT DEVOTE COMPLETELY TO MY SERVICE. PLEASE HELP ME . I ASKED HER TO APPLY FOR MUTUAL DIVORCE, BUT SHE DENIED. NOW PLZ HELP ME HOW CAN I APPLY FOR DIVORCE FROM MY SIDE?
Dear Experts,
Often we can hear the words "court-marriage" either in movies or on TV and even from some people also.
Since only way to marry is to solemnize the marriage according to one's custom and also get it registered before the Registrar of marriages,then
1.What does "court-marriage" mean?
2.Or is it just a misconception?
With Regards
Husne Mubarak
vivek
03 February 2011 at 18:17
sir/madam,
my brother had got married to a IT girl in chennai.
with in 3months there occurs a problem between them and they are now in court.
my brother had applied for restitution to the court,but she is not interested in living with my brother and she asks for divorcee.
and as per the court counsellors,we were adviced to give her articles and she should provide our articles,and we had provided a list of her articles with us,but she had provide an amount of 3 lakhs as marriage expense in the article list,so problem occurs here as we were sayong that we too have marriage expenses.
so atleast four times we had went to court for this problem,but we had applied for restitution only.
we dont no what to do.
to note we are roman catholic and her wife is CSI.
PLEASE PROVIDE ME DETAILS.
VIVEK
vivek
03 February 2011 at 18:12
sir/madam,
my brother had got married to a IT girl in chennai.
with in 3months there occurs a problem between them and they are now in court.
my brother had applied for restitution to the court,but she is not interested in living with my brother and she asks for divorcee.
and as per the court counsellors,we were adviced to give her articles and she should provide our articles,and we had provided a list of her articles with us,but she had provide an amount of 3 lakhs as marriage expense in the article list,so problem occurs here as we were sayong that we too have marriage expenses.
so atleast four times we had went to court for this problem,but we had applied for restitution only.
we dont no what to do.
to note we are roman catholic and her wife is CSI.
PLEASE PROVIDE ME DETAILS.
VIVEK
Megha
03 February 2011 at 16:15
one of the my friend's husband got exparty divorce from her and got married (second), after this marriage my friend came to know that he got divorce from her and she suit an appel to high court, the high court set aside that divorce decree and revert it to lower court again,the case is running now but still his husband is living with his second wife and two children (born by second marriage). I want to know is his second marriage is valid while divorce decree is set aside and divorce case is going? is my friend can take any action against second wife of her husband?
Husband needs help - decieved by newly wedded wife
One of my relative got married in a hurry as he had limited holidays. On the marriage night, bride told her in-laws that she is in love with someone else whom she cannot marry for quite some time. When her family forced her to marry she could not say no (out of several reasons) and that she could not remain with her new husband as a wife either. She wanted to run away next day. Her family was informed of the matter. But because of society, girls family don't want to take the matter to the court. What can this boy do when he won't get the divorce or annulment. This boy is NRI. If he don't come back to India or contact this girl's family for one year and neither this girl agrees to compromise or contact this boy - what will happen then?
This girl is stubborn and said that If she will be forced to go back to her in-laws she will commit suicide. I don't understand her frame of mind at all. Bride's family at all costs want to hush-hush the matter. Girl wants to buy time and she will get that and she don't like this boy either. This boy cannot trust her anymore now. Before marriage when he asked her she completely gave different answers. Later she told him that she don't have any passport or don't have any intention to go abraod also. He even talked to her family later, then they agreed to write mutual consent of annulment on stamp paper that this marriage never existed. marriage took place in village where they have reputation. But this annulment is not valid lawfully. They said that the boy is free to marry again. This boy is very innocent and excepted that as true. But later he came to know that this annulment is not valid.
If this boy file for divorce - then brides family can get furious, as they don't want people to know about this. where he can file for divorce if their relatives or friends should not come to know?
What if they will force this girl again to compromise. Then she will tell lies to this boy and make her in-laws life a living hell out of revolt. This boy wants that she should divorce him and wait for this other boy to marry her later.. but then her own family don't want that. how complicated this is.
Latest development is that the boy who abroad now, cannot come back before new vacation is assigned. that can be 6 months-one year. When he contacted the girl family on phone. They told him that the case is closed from their side. He is free to marry abroad. how can this be possible. If girls of indian origin for marriage were available abroad before he would never had married in india. Girls abroad perfer white man or indians with large bank balance.
How long can he wait if this family refuses to go for mutual divorce? We know that this girl is living alone somewhere and not with the family.
Can waiting will weeken the case or strengthen the case? The boy never deserted the girl, it was girl who left the boy and told everyone that she will never go abroad. she never wanted to. Nobody can force her to that either.
Boy's life is screwed now - he cannot marry again in India and neither there is any hope of compromise from girl's side.
Can he apply for ex-partee divorce now or after some time without marriage certificate or anyother proof in the world. All the proofs like photos or video are with the girl's family.