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Anonymous   21 August 2018 at 23:13

Can i prove my marriage in the court with priests ey witness

We are get married without informing to our families in a temple later we stayed in our homes, because we wanted to convince our parents and start our married life. No photo proofs are there, only two priests are there and two temple workers are evidence to our marriage. The priest given marriage certificate, chaultry booking receipt with his signature and he is ready to tell about our marriage in the court. Six months back her father expired and their family shifted to other town. After that I went to foreign but we both are in phone contact. Before we married, her family members not accepted our love so we decided to marry and married on 28th February 2017, but we didn't stayed together after our marriage, when I was in abroad one day she called and said she told about our marriage to her uncles then they told her to not to use phone and never contact me. After that I didn't get any call from my wife. I came to india and enquired about her with her friends, finally I called to her brothers but they didn't responded and they scolded me rudely. They given police complaint through my wife that I am giving torture to her family members. I went police station and explained everything but the police told it's women's case, you don't have evidence about it marriage don't spoil it life, give written letter that you won't contact any of her family members. I given written letter and came. As a husband, lover it's not possible to live without her so after 3 months again I contacted her brothers to spoke with my wife. But again they filed complaint on me. Now I am not getting what to do. I want to meet my wife, I want to live with her. As I guess, Her family members emotionally blackmailed her that they will die if she won't give complaint on me and also they might be readied her that she don't want to stay with me, So she given complaint and her uncles are politically very influenced person's. Is our marriage is valid or not? Can anyone suggest what should I do now?

kavkaz   21 August 2018 at 22:59

Domestic Violence and Right to information

Can a wife seek help of RTI (Right to information) act in a Domestic Violence court case, to collect income related information, or any other information pertaining to husband?

Mohmmad Manzoor Alam   21 August 2018 at 21:21

Property which is buy in the name of wife and son

First of All i am very thank full to alla experts here to give right advice to the very poor and help less peopple like me.
My query to any one how really know about this type of matter.

Dear , Madam , Sir
My is Mohammad manzoor Alam i am a Bihar Based person who working here In Gulf since 1993 till now
1, i was buy a build home in Bihar where some part registered in my wife and some of my name.
2, One free hold land i was buy in my wife name and some of in son name (when i was buy this plot my son wa minor)
so, now they sold my property and buy a new property In Delhi (on power of atornny)
My question is , do i get my property back or the amount which is sold by them
do i get out my only one son from my both house or do i declaired my son from my property.
if any experts have right solution about this matter please advice me, or contact me,, i am here in Suadi Arabia Right now my contact details. Alam. Mob.+966548165912 whats app,, or mail: alam419967@gmail.com
Note: i can fee if i get right answer....

Anonymous   21 August 2018 at 16:33

2nd Marriage

Dear All,

This Syed Ghouse, my wife not staying with me from past 5 Months, and iam having 1 kid 2.6 years, she register a complaint in Women's police, regarding Domistic Violence against me and my family Member's, after 2 months know she asking Kula through Qazi. And iam willing to give kula, already so many time explain this is not issue to shortcut our problem. Can I do 2nd marriage, without knowing her. Plz suggest me

Anonymous   21 August 2018 at 11:51

Maintenance for kid

Respected Sir,
main ap sabhi se ye janna chahti hu k agar husband apni wife aur 2 sal k bachhe ko chhor de.tb kya krna chahiye.maine aur mere husband ne 07.05.2014 ko love marriage ki.mujhe huband kabhi sasural ni le gaye.wo bihar se hai aur main kanpur se.hmara ek beta hai.abhi 2.6 year ka hai.husband bahar rahte hai job perpose se.january 2018 me unhone ye kah kar chhor diya k main dur rah kr demand puri karunga.but tere pas ni rahunga
rahi bat rahne ki to itna batna kafi hai k mera beta apne pita ko pahchanta nahi hai.4 month ka tha jb job k karan bahar gaye.Dec-15 me hua tha beta .tb se lekr aj tk 4 tym aaye wo.last time sep-17 me aaye they.meri koi job ni h .mummy papa ki financially condition thik ni hai.bache ka admission mama ne karaya hai.
mujhe apne liye kuch ni chahiye kya bete ke prati bhi koi farj nahi hai ?????
please reply

Vijay Patil   19 August 2018 at 12:05

Regarding obc certificate and domicile

sir/madam,
since my grandfather's time (1963) our family is settled in rajasthan but our ancestral village is in maharasthra. We fall in obc category in both maharashtra and rajasthan.
My father's paternal cousin's son has got his obc certificate so can i use reference of his obc certificate to get mine here in rajasthan and what's the procedure to do so ?
Please help

Abhinav   18 August 2018 at 22:10

False information by girls family before marriage

My marriage happened through online matrimonial site, the girl family concealed her medical condition and given us her false detail regarding age and employment. The girl is diagnosed with Epilepsy and she is born in different month and i am not sure of her employment either but before marriage she said she is working as a govt employee.When I recovered the truth the girl’s family simply told me that if you do not accept we will put you under various cases. Now being influential they have put me under false DV case, what should I do? Girl lives with her parents in different state and we only lived as couple for 35 days only on a span of 5 months.

Now i have applied for divorce in my State, but the girl had also applied for the divorce in her State , district but after i have filed for divorce . As both divorce cases can not continue simultaneously, which divorce case will run. Do i have to inform the the girls court regarding divorce filed by me. How to do that

Kamranmulla   18 August 2018 at 14:33

Divorce

I got married on June 30, 2018 it was arrange marriage; She is the cousin of my sister-in-law.

Summary:

The engagement happened in the month of November 2017 wherein sister-in-law exchanged numbers; my work location was Saudi hence we started talking and chatting on what�s app during all the conversation she confirm me her future plans and how she will stay after marriage she had promised me she will be understanding partner after marriage and used to send me videos and photos of her house hold work and cooking habits. Her family and She was assured me that she knows all house hold work and a good cook, and wish to be a good house wife.

In the discussion of engagement we learnt that girl is pursing MBA, me and my family declared and confirm marriage only after her studies are completed. Through the mutual discussion with both families it was decided to keep marriage in December 2018. During my interview of her parent and relative its was informed to them that due to present situation of Saudi groom (I) will leaving the Job and will settle in India.

All of a sudden her parents started showing so much of urgency in keeping marriage early try to dominate us. We tried to explain them that it is too early and we require time to prepare, even we request and scheduled a meeting at their location. In the meeting we again tried to convince them that let girl complete her study and till us also get the time to prepare. We also requested her family that girl finish her exams and give her some time of own to understand responsibilities as marriage is bigger step in life. Her parents then came up saying exams will be finish in may itself and they want to keep marriage after Ramadan to which we again clarified will her exams be finish they said yes and everything will be completed .They forced us to keep marriage on June 30th 2018 since they were too pushy we agreed I applied for leaves which were rejected so for marriage I resigned and came back to our country in May .The girl family demanded us to be present from 26 June since they want perform some rituals we agreed booked tickets and also return tickets sent both to them which included brides ticket while returning they acknowledged it as well .

We reached there on 27th June evening the bride�s mother came to us and said we will not be able to send the bride after nikah as her last vivah is balance and scheduled for 4th July we were shocked told them we had specified while agreeing to date of marriage her exams are finished to which they said yes now how all of sudden this vivah came in to the picture and if it was balance what was the need of hurrying so much for marriage it could have been scheduled after Vivah as well as far as leaving bride and going is concerned we cannot allow this as after nikah it should be on her husband�s concern whether or not she should be staying here and as far as exams go we will see what we could do and when you guys knew the Vivah is balance why kept mum even after looking at the return tickets we had already shared with you guys well in advance a week back why were we not informed why this was kept complete secret and brought like a shock to us .Her mom after listening to this left from there .

One more shock is that they have expressed that after Nikah bride and me will stay in hotel and were dropped in a hotel without our consent we allowed as they were too pushy and adamant .we were dropped there in night at 3.30AM and the brides brothers came in the morning to pick her .they took the bride to her parents� house not even bothering to ask me or my parents and by keeping me waiting in the cab outside their house .I was neither invited nor given glass of water I was later on dropped on a road nearby the hotel wherein my family self-arranged for their stay .Then after reception of our side my wife insisted she wants to be dropped to her parents� house for getting ready for mumbai to which I agreed and dropped her to parents house .Our leaving time was informed her I called up 2 hours prior to leaving time and requested her join . A shocking answered received from her, she disagreed to join us for matrimonial and informed is that she would stay until her exams are over here only, even though I promised her that it�s my responsibility to do arrangement for her exam and insisted as its not good to stay after marriage like this to which she kept on repeating the same statement in hindi it goes like this �main nahi Aaogi Nahi aaongi main nahi Aaongi nahi Aaongi �after which myself and mom went to girls parent house to convince them to send the bride along her parents refused to send her stating her study will be affected and they don�t want to send her so with most disappointment me and mother expressed our feelings�It is so disheartening the girl after marriage is not ready to accompany groom first day of marriage at our house � and left from there .after Coming back to mumbai we kept on waiting neither the girl nor her parents called or messaged about her exams they kept mum 10 days passed no info and after one fine evening all of a sudden to our surprise we were in receipt of ticket send by her and said that she is coming to mumbai. We were surprised by this type of act however still welcomed her and picked her from the airport .The girl from day one started acting over smart her way of living completely came as contrast from what she portrayed she was not able to perform any obligation of wife and it looked from her she wasn�t ready for marriage and parents forced her into it .If I ask for a cup of tea she used to fight and angrily come to hit me .I had performed my obligation of providing a shelter comfort and food. She was only had interest in going out and staying at home at all it was not even two days of her staying in home .She never used to care of listen of anyone at home in my absence she used to go down in buildings garden alone and talk to someone for hours even she didn�t give her ears on my objection .after week again her parents asked her to come stating the date of exams have been released as per her request I booked flight tickets from my expense and dropped her to airport as I was not getting leaves from work .after she left from house only once she called and messaged and after she stopped messaging or calling her parents were least bothered from the start only .after week a messaged her asking her how she is and how were the exams instead of replying to that she started fighting and arguing after this the call from her stopped and her mother called up my mom stating whats the issue my mom said very politely when there no issue or problem why you guys insisting there is one we don�t have any problems .after this for week no call no message and suddenly one day her mother called 10 times and mentioned in a message I was out with some work so couldn�t answer as I had forgotten the phone at home .I replied politely her mother read the message but didn�t reply for a week she again called on working day Monday while I was driving and called only twice and she was mentioning about problem and was asking us to come to Hyderabad all the way from mumbai to their house I replied politely y couldn�t pickup call and why they didn�t try calling on Saturday or Sunday I also meniotned we never called and told them we have a problem they are the only one finding issues so if they have issues they should only come and sit unnecessarily keeping bride at their house they are making issues then for a week again her mother didn�t respond and then directly she messaged asking y we were not answering call to which I replied she was blaming her daughter has completed all the obligations to which I replied with correction I replied and ever since there no response from them I am mentally getting harassed by this and wanna end this marriage what should I do

Amit   18 August 2018 at 08:11

HMA 24 Maintenance

Kindly advice that if maintenance under HMA 24 is being decided for application filed by wife in divorce case filed by husband & later if husband withdraw divorce case then will that maintenance will also stop & wat reason to be given to court to withdraw case if OP want to contest it on merits

Kamal   16 August 2018 at 13:57

Name change in old property documents

Good Day Experts,
Myself Kamal Triloksingh settled in Virar Maharashtra for the last 30 years. All my documents, house etc. are in the same name.

However my parents had named me Kunwarjit and the 'Kisan bahi' in my village(Pauri Garhwal) bear the name 'Kunwarjit'.

I now wish to return to my village. Kindly advise what should be done to change the name in 'Kisan bahi', because when I submitted my aadhar etc. there was great confusion. There are no issues from my brothers, relatives etc., only the different name is creating issues.

Thanks for reading my question.