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Isha
(Querist) 02 August 2013
This query is : Resolved
mine is love marriage (8yrs) with 5.5yrs son.
i working woman who is juggling between office home. i stay with my inlaws.. initally everything was very much..ok.. 2-3 yrs post marriage whenever we had fight on petty issues.. my in laws took side of my husband and they all used to fight with me, my husband started abusing me, beating me.now he started humilating me that he married me just because i was earning and he dont want to care, spend money on me just because i m earning...he has started insulting me very badly..i m feeling cheated and deprssed. pls suggest should go ahead with this mariage or end it. but i m worried about my sons future....
Nadeem Qureshi
(Expert) 02 August 2013
isha
ending of marriage is not a solution try to settle the matter amicable or consult with a family counselor.
feel free to call
Adv Archana Deshmukh
(Expert) 02 August 2013
Do not take any abuses or beating, protect yourself. Take the help of some relatives who can understand you and give some understanding to your husband so that the situation can calm down.
Advocate M.Bhadra
(Expert) 02 August 2013
Try to restore the relation by interfering close relatives of both side,failing which you can file a Divorce Suit as well as a Maintenance Case.
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 04 August 2013
As 8 years of your maried life have alredy passed and you have also a kind of more than 5.6 years so better to settle the things with the intervention of respectable and eelatives between you.
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 04 August 2013
Legally speaking, you have many legal remedies.
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 04 August 2013
Instead of Divorce, go for Legal separation, demanding mtn & residence from ur husband , or simply file DV case.
That will protect ur son, u be out of daily quarrel, and u mtn status of his wife, so in future, he may change his behaviour, u will have opportunity to live together , as and when u feel so.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 04 August 2013
you have a husband who humiliates you and does not shy away from physical abuse . file fro divorce . you can also file complaint under DV act . since you are working you may not get maintenance but you can seek maintenance for your son
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 04 August 2013
The remedy of divorce is available but hundred times think about future prior to moving i that direction.
Isha
(Querist) 05 August 2013
Thanks a lot..
i m staying at my mothers place now... my brother is saying let the time pass.. let my husband and her mother realise there mistake.. and we will sort out this with mutual understanding across the table with two families... but my concern is.. is going back to person who is not emotionally bound to you is worth.?. or should i forget about the past and just concentrate on upbringing on my son...
ajay sethi
(Expert) 05 August 2013
it makes no sense in continuing a relation wth an abusive husband who does not respect you and beats you at slightest pretext . better opt for divorce .
