Need Divorce

Querist : Anonymous (Querist) 03 February 2011 This query is : Resolved
The lady am married to ( i do not consider her to be my wife anymore) has completely ruined my life..We're married for the last 9 yrs..but we dont have any physical relation for d last 8 yrs or more..She & her mother has been torturing me & my family by all cruel means i.e: insulting us anywhere and everywhere, she leaves the house without informing my mom, stays back wid her mother for weeks or maybe more than that..As if now i've moved out of my house & living alone for the last 4 yrs..she visits my house once or twice a month just to check on her stuffs..no contacts with me or my family..yesterday when i went home i saw @ my place..she asked me wat have i decided..i told her my decision is the same wat it was 7 or 8 yrs back..DIVORCE..but she is not willing to divorce me at all..in her words "jaise chal raha hai,waise hi chal ne do"....there are lot more to this story,but the bottom line is i just want to get rid of her anyhow..no matter wat it takes..So i seek ur help in lettin me know wat are my rights as a hindu male in india..If possible pls explain the procedure as much as u can..

Hope to hear from you soon.

Thanks & Regards,

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Amit Minocha (Expert) 03 February 2011
file a divorce petition in the Court against her on the grounds of cruelty.

Ganesh Chavan (Expert) 03 February 2011
As per the provision Of Section 13 Of the The Hindu Marriage Act , 1955, you have only hope to win Divorce Petition is Not to go straight way show the Court that Cruelty or any thing stated in this Section on part of Your Wife.

Querist : Anonymous (Querist) 03 February 2011
Many thanks for your above suggesstions.
Just few qsnts on that:
What are the grounds of cruelty??
How do i claim that when we donot live together..
Just to mention again, she lives with her mother.