Please advice
Guest
(Querist) 09 August 2013
This query is : Resolved
wife has been tortured mentally and physically for dowry. she is in depression state now. consulting some saying proofs are required how to prove that in-laws used to slap and beat her because for jst slapping and beating she was never taken to hospital. even when her sister in-law try to cut her wrist with knife she saved although cut was there but she was given medical aid at home only ,still there is mark left of cut on wrist but no medical slip. husband, sister in-law, mother in-law, brother in-law tried to kill wife by gripping her neck tightly but luckily saved as phone call comes and she shouted but that was her uncle call whom after knowing come and warned them but they apologized at that time. but after few days again there behavior same. now wife has been thrown out of home they tried to reconcile but they said money or divorce. wife is from poor family and don't want divorce jst 1 year of marriage??also in the 100m area of in-laws house there is no other house as in-laws house is in the lonely area so no witness.so no neighbors witness how to prove torture by in-laws??????please advise
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 09 August 2013
Without corroborative evidence the torture is hard to be proved in court.
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 09 August 2013
Even if no neighbour is witness, the statement of the wife and her family members shall be sufficient. Generally neighbour do not come forward for their evidence.
prabhakar singh
(Expert) 10 August 2013
I think courts do take notice of facts that in matrimonial causes it would be only people in family and relatives who would witness things first and not the strangers,then theory of "interested witness"should be overlooked when a matrimonial court is examining a fact of assault by one spouse on the other in night in the bed room or in noon by mother/sister-in law when none other were present in the house.Single testimony should, if not found manipulative,be sufficient to prove the fact.
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 10 August 2013
IN PAST YOU CLAIMED
"actually situation is that there was guy whom she chat online for 1 year as a friend, during this period that guy started liking her and soon the guy proposed her she said no and disconnected from him.after this she got married although she informed about this whole incident to her husband ""
NOW YOU CLAIM "wife has been tortured mentally and physically for dowry."
WHAT IS THE REAL CAUSE OF MATRIMONIAL DISPUTE, AND STRAINED RELATIONSHIP??
Try to clarify with your husband and in laws , and adopt the method of forgive and forget.
Humans make mistake.
If u charge Dowry, u r otherwise also breaking Marriage.
Instead, confess and see, if situation improves, or separate under 13B. peacefully.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 10 August 2013
Such vague, conflicting and repeated queries should be avoided.
Had I noticed it I would have refrained from replying.
Guest
(Querist) 10 August 2013
yes sir very true i asked for that in earlier query,actually she was tortured for dowry from the day of marriage because in-laws want to buy some property in delhi but wife thought with passage of time it will be ok. But after 1 years torture when they get to know that wife parents can't give more money so they are asking for divorce and when wife approached women cell then husband is showing those chats to blackmail her to take case back and give him divorce as maybe husband consult some lawyer whom saying that without valid reason husband will not get divorce so he is making that chats as ground so in earlier post asked about that because husband don't want to come to women cell and want fast divorce so that as his mother is saying he wants to remarry his son. but now situation is that husband don't want reconciliation so wife as advised by all decided to put case there again lawyers asking for proofs. as her sister in-law tries to cut his wrist but saved although cut mark is still there but lawyer is asking for medical slip. wife never thought of situation to come to this point i.e. she never try to collect the evidence so asking for this although this is true that she was tortured to the hell..
Guest
(Querist) 10 August 2013
i'm sorry sir if made mistake but actually sir when ever i seek advice i ask. if it is disturbing you then sorry but actually earlier that situation arises so i asked that one only. but now when situation reaches to peak and left with no other option so told the whole situation. sorry again if i have spoiled your precious time. really sorry sir...
ajay sethi
(Expert) 10 August 2013
better consult a local lawyer
prabhakar singh
(Expert) 10 August 2013
A HUMBLE PRAYER OF MINE TO EXPERTS IS THAT
we should also REFUSE to respond to(Account Deleted).They do not have any moral sense to remain here further after deletion of their account.
i do not remember by time i answered he was deleted or not as idea of refusal just flicked in my mind.
Guest
(Expert) 10 August 2013
OK, Prabhakar ji.
Adv. Chandrasekhar
(Expert) 10 August 2013
But Prabhakar Singhji, I have been immensely benefited by the lucid advice you gave in your first post. Thank you.
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 13 August 2013
One has no moral right to dictate others not to address query of an author whose account has been deleted but the same expert is thoroughly and repeatedly addressing the same query/
prabhakar singh
(Expert) 13 August 2013
The answer was written before appeal and clearly reads"i do not remember by time i answered he was deleted or not as idea of refusal just flicked in my mind."
MOREOVER IT WAS SIMPLY APPEAL.NOT A MANDATE.
NOR DO I HAVE ANY RIGHT TO ISSUE MANDATES.
BUT IT IS MORE THAN ENOUGH TO COMMENT WHAT IS MORAL AND WHAT IS IMMORAL AS THAT CAN BE TESTED ONLY IN PERSONAL COMPANY OF A HUMAN NOT ON A BASIS OF ANY APPEAL OF THE KIND I MADE HERE.
prabhakar singh
(Expert) 13 August 2013
HERENOW MR. MAKKAD OR ANY OTHER HON"ABLE EXPERT DISAGREEING WITH MY APPEAL IS FREE TO
ADDRESS ANY QUERY HE LIKES IN WHATSOEVER MANNER HE CHOOSES.
prabhakar singh
(Expert) 13 August 2013
HERE NOW I UNDERSTAND THAT I AM ABSOLUTELY FREE TO ADDRESS ANY QUERY OF ANY NATURE WITHOUT ANY COMPULSION.
Dr. Jyothi Vishwanath
(Expert) 13 August 2013
Cool down experts. We are here just advising the aggrieved parties. Why should we raise our blood pressures for a non-issue...
