Urgent getting divorce and avoiding 498a
sandy
(Querist) 27 July 2013
This query is : Resolved
Hi,
I am married in 2011 and my wife mother, grand mother and her aunts are spoiling her by saying to her that i am not allowing her to do job (when i was married she dont have any job and i searched so many jobs for her), spoiling her future, treating her like slave etc. They used call her 5 to 6 time every day when i leave for office. My father-in-law left my mother-in-law when my was 3 years kid because of her mother and her sisters(my wife's aunts) involvement. Now the same thing is happening to me. Two days back my wife left my house when i went to my home and i enquire our security he said she left with bags. I called my father-in-law and i told him. He asked to file a missing case in police station. I went to police station but they asked to come on the next day morning and wrote my name and wife name in the register they have. she came back to my house on the same day at around 11:30. Next day morning her aunt called and saying they will file the case in the police station. I recorded her aunts call, my father-in-laws call and the conversation between me and my wife saying that she to commit suicide. I also has other conversations of my wife saying bad about her aunts. Please guide me to handle this. All this happenings i didnt informed my parents as they are in their old age around 75Y and i dont want to give pain to them. Please help me
Thank You
ajay sethi
(Expert) 27 July 2013
visit a marriage counsellor . all marriages face teething problems . encourage your wife to work so that she wont have much time to gossip . if she is unable to get a job let her study further to increase her qualifications .
if your wife has suicidal tenedencies advisable to consult a psychiatrist
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 27 July 2013
If your wife has threatened to commit suicide then it comes within the ambit of cruelty and a divorce petition can be filed merely on this sole ground and if such incident is proved you shall get divorce from her.
