wife eloped and now trying to implicate me on false grounds
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Anonymous
(Querist) 24 March 2011
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i'am 32yrs,PG & Govt. Employee.,from well to do and a respectable family.Had undergone
RenalTransplant 20years ago and 4years ago married a poor girl by compromising for
almost everything like she is not beautiful, she is not educated(sss pass), she is
poor and lean(25yrs now,she has 4 more siblings (girls)in line for marriage) to take care of
me.used to take care of her well she is suffering with TB and always was ill right
from the beginning of marriage. spent lots of money for her medicines. 5monhts ago she
eloped with somebody(along with 15tolas of GOLD) i was shocked how could she do this
as she is very ill and i filed FIR at PS with her mom. after 3 months PS declared
untraced. 4months later she came to PS directly and complained about me that i have
hidden the fact of transplant(which is not true,everyone,in their family knows about
it and also the mediators of our marriage are aware of the fact) and also said that i
had never satisfied her in bed (which is not true as, as per doctor's advise her
condition was serious and i'cannot have s*x with her due to her medical condition and
i was waiting for her to recover from illness, iwas simply restrainig from physical
relationship). she got aborted 3 times in 4 years of marriage and (i think that was
deliberately done as it seems she never liked me)we have no kids. She actually never
satisfied me(as whenever i try to go to her she would cry for pain in her back (due to
'potts spine'). ocasionally i used to go to her but would end up in a fight (she never
loved me). Now she complains that she has to get more amount(in cash) from me and said
i was harrasing her for dowry(which is absolutely false,i have never asked for
dowry,they gave me just 60K at the time of marriagewhich i have spent for her
medication only).it seems that she is framing me. Now she is happy with her eloped
lover but made my life miserable. how to escape from her clutches.And what are the
legal consequences for me not to give alimony (as we have no kids and she is the one
who wants to end the relationship). Just i wanna to get rid of her and not want to
provide any maintenance. She betrayed me and my love. She was more than a daughter to
my parents but now i came to know that she is not worth of it.
Please advise, I just want to get rid of her without any loss to my job or my family
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 24 March 2011
Then go for divorce. Since your unilateral act for divorce may draw some reprisals from your wife, it is better both you go for mutual divorce.
adv. rajeev ( rajoo )
(Expert) 25 March 2011
When she is happy with her boy frnd, then what is the necessity of yer to you, go for consent divorce.
Darshan Shah / 09892727182
(Expert) 25 March 2011
When both of you do not intend to continue the marriage, go for mutual consent divorce. Just keep all the genuine medical papers of her illness safely as they might be required at any point of time in case if you are implicated.
Tajobsindia
(Expert) 25 March 2011
Did you know that as per Indian Transplant History you are world's 8th. longest surviving renal patient ! This besides the point go for Mutual Consent Divorce for better quality of life instead of having to undergo second transplant after attaining world wide fame.
Legal Fighter
(Expert) 25 March 2011
search "save indian family" on google and attend local weekly meeting.
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Anonymous
(Querist) 26 March 2011
thanks all for reply.
Sir,
The fact is that she may not go for mutual divorce as she is very greedy for money and should definetely ask for alimony.
As we do not have kids, and also she on her own left me for some other does the court grants alimony or any maintenance to her in any way from me.
Just to support my medical expenditure i have worked a lot and completed pg in computers and right now employed in Govt. service and i just do not want to help her in any way in future. i was in a dilemma that she will take care of me but she ditched me.
Sir, are there any cases like this where the wife elopes and the court grants maintenance to her despite clildless.
can any one advice on this sir.
