Wife threating to commit suicide and implicate me and my family
Agni Vahak
(Querist) 07 June 2013
This query is : Resolved
I met the girl on line and was in a Live in Relationship for over 6 months and finally got a arranged marriage done with consent of Elders.
16 months into marriage:
1- Threatns police action every day. (Recorded Calls)
2- Threatns to commit suicide and implicate my family. (Recorded Calls)
3- Does not contribute a penny in running of house. Saying "MAN OF HOUSE" should provide.(Though she is a Manager in MNC and earns more than me).
4- Ill treats my parents, sister, brother and relative. ( All living seperately as we have a nuclear family)
5- Created havoc when my parents or relatives visit. Altough she has forced me to allow her brother to stay with us in same house and her parents are frequent visitors.
6- Her Brother and family threatns me of physical abuse every now and then. (Just verbal No evidence)
7- I need to report office at 7:30am. She normally picks up fight post midnight and then does not allow me to sleep till 4 or 5 in morning. She goes her office at 11 am after a sound sleep.
8- Expresses right on almost everyhting from Furniture to Kitchen ware which I poessesed before marriage.
9- DOES NOT COOK OR INDULGE IN ANY HOUSEHOLD WORK. WE HAVE HIGHLY PAID MAIDS TO DO IT. Still complains of Harrasment.
10- Calls my Office Numbers frequently and knowing blocks the lines meant for client calls. Threatns to create a scene in my office and make me loose my job. Brings bad name to me in highly competetive IT world. (Colleages who are bugged willing to testify)
11- Asks for Rs 1.5 Lacs that she has spent towards various expenses towards family household. She did not spend and penny and can not veirfy her claims.
Questions:
1- Are recorded calls admissible evidence?
2- How do I prove mental cruelty and all the facts stated above.
3- How do I proceed to Legal sepration/Divorce?
4- How do I insulate my old and sick parents from flase cases.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 07 June 2013
1)recorded calls are admissible in evidence 2) contact a local lawyer . convince your wife that you both need to visit a family counsellor
3)file for divorce on grounds of cruelty .
4)wife will file false cases against you and your family members . 498A / DV cases to harass you
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 07 June 2013
Agreed with Expert Ajay Sethi Ji. you may also try if possible, mediation of some effective people from both side.
prabhakar singh
(Expert) 07 June 2013
The great question is why did you marry her?
prabhakar singh
(Expert) 07 June 2013
YOUR Questions:
1- Are recorded calls admissible evidence?
2- How do I prove mental cruelty and all the facts stated above.
3- How do I proceed to Legal separation/Divorce?
4- How do I insulate my old and sick parents from false cases.
MY ANSWERS :
1) YES
2)&3)By PRODUCING EVIDENCES YOU HAVE!Threatenings to commit suicide and implicate your family. (Recorded Calls)is a ground as well as evidence.
4)You can not restrain her from lodging false cases even against your parents but you have evidence to defend them proving her allegations wrong.
R.K Nanda
(Expert) 07 June 2013
agree with experts.
